AITA for rejecting my boyfriend's proposal because I'd lose my health insurance and alimony?

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Cher_ as/if :heartrainbow:

1yr ago #4814238

Doesn't want to get married to new man because if so, old man will have to stop paying her. B-word needs a job. The laws in MA are nuts. She gets health care, alimony and his retirement. Pretty fricked if you ask me.

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Aba giga/boosted Cher_ 1yr ago #4815651

Would it be possible for him to just go neetmode and quit to go live with his parents or friends? It'd be better than paying half your money for a woman who left you

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Cher_ as/if :heartrainbow:

Aba 1yr ago #4815786

Idk about that. Guys a doc. Probs makes very good money.

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rip_spal they/them Cher_ 1yr ago #4814415

Literally enslaved to his ex wife, and completely ignores that the state has dissolved the marriage

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iStillMissEd buter/toast Old strags best strags rip_spal 1yr ago #4814716

There was a case like this in canada, dude gave his wife a ton of shit in the divorce in exchange for no alimony payments (He literally just gave her the apartment they owned and a large share of the house), few years go by and this silly b-word has been letting her junkie kid live in the apartment, didn't get a job and let the debt from the loan she took out to buy the rest of his share of the house and takes him back to court. The courts being gay agree with her that just because she agreed to no alimony payments doesn't actually mean she get's no alimony payments so her husband fricks off to latin America and stops paying child support on the grounds he had to leave his job when he fled the country

She raised a big stink about it and how the gov was so sexist because they reused to seize the passport of her ex, an EU citizen. She literally wanted the gov to take not just his Canadian passport, but his EU one too lol

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Spookiest_Weirdo_Around VAX/MAXXED They called him Charlie Hustle iStillMissEd 1yr ago #4815661

Dave Foley of KITH got divorced while NewsRadio was in it's original run and he had just signed as the lead in The Wrong Guy. Years later when he was a nobody who hadn't worked in a decade his alimony payments were the same as when he was it the height of his career.

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