Boyfriend only wants s*x for his birthday and I don't feel like it
My boyfriend and I have a date planned Friday for his birthday at a very nice fancy restaurant. I bought makeup and nails and a new dress. We never get to go on dates.
He gets angry when he expects something and it doesn't go his way, so I mentioned to him that I might not feel like having s*x Friday night. Just so he can manage his expectations. I'm a single mom to a young child and I also work with kids so I am touched out, burnt out, and emotionally drained. Having s*x is the last thing I want to think about.
He of course became frustrated and said s*x was the only thing he wanted for his birthday. He said he was just doing the date for me, he didn't care whether we went on a date or not (even though he's been begging me to go on a date for months). He just wants s*x.
We went into this whole argument about it. I don't understand why he can't just go out and make some memories with me and not expect s*x afterwards. We never get to go out alone. Like ever. We can have s*x anytime. I pointed out how shallow he's being and he got so pissed he got off the phone with me.
Like we can't just go out and have a good time together without having s*x? When we can have s*x literally any other time?
Should I have s*x with him since it's his birthday even if I don't want to? It just feels icky to me.
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Why is she even dating him ?
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Yeah god forbid she does something fun for a change.
I never understood this attitude of "my life sucks, so I don't want to make time for things that feel good"
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Just stop being depressed r-slur. Buy a shotgun and hang it over your bedroom doorframe for motivation.
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He is the worst type, defending a hoe that don't complete her part of the deal and she does that on his birthday, neighbor was very honest that he does this to get s*x knowing she love that shit and hoping it will move her legs, she then process to play a fricking victim telling she just want to have fun eating nothing more. Like b-word it's his birthday and he has to make it all about you ? Frick you. And warpy like true simp defends this hoe
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Neighbor want s*x she want fun, he gives her fun and she
Like Ye west told
Yeah god forbid simps not jump in defending a hoe
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That was pusha T
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She wants him to support her and her child.
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But what he want ?
But I got to praise him, he is very honest for an average simp.
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He'll likely never be a Chad, but he can graduate from simp to chimp.
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