Boyfriend only wants s*x for his birthday and I don't feel like it
My boyfriend and I have a date planned Friday for his birthday at a very nice fancy restaurant. I bought makeup and nails and a new dress. We never get to go on dates.
He gets angry when he expects something and it doesn't go his way, so I mentioned to him that I might not feel like having s*x Friday night. Just so he can manage his expectations. I'm a single mom to a young child and I also work with kids so I am touched out, burnt out, and emotionally drained. Having s*x is the last thing I want to think about.
He of course became frustrated and said s*x was the only thing he wanted for his birthday. He said he was just doing the date for me, he didn't care whether we went on a date or not (even though he's been begging me to go on a date for months). He just wants s*x.
We went into this whole argument about it. I don't understand why he can't just go out and make some memories with me and not expect s*x afterwards. We never get to go out alone. Like ever. We can have s*x anytime. I pointed out how shallow he's being and he got so pissed he got off the phone with me.
Like we can't just go out and have a good time together without having s*x? When we can have s*x literally any other time?
Should I have s*x with him since it's his birthday even if I don't want to? It just feels icky to me.
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SNAPPLIENT
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got a new quote for ya buddy https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/16c1910/boyfriend_only_wants_sex_for_his_birthday_and_i/jzgzw7i
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I demand a full audit to determine where these snappy coins are going. The motherlover doesn't buy awards. Open your books
@jannies.
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Snappy occasionally will just Goomble it all in a comment.
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!pings
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!friendsofsnappy
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This is a whole new breed of psycho.
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Just when I thought it was bleak like this, I now know it gets even bleaker
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Dating a single mom who won't even have s*x with you is like Incel+ subscription
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Really is insane
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Who even gets married to these people?
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People that fall for their controlling behavior. I dated a girl for a few weeks like this. She wanted to wait to have s*x, on date 3 she canceled our dinner plans to just stay in and watch a movie. She then told me "if we had gone out id totally be fricking you tonight."
I don't normally date girls that don't have s*x on the first date. This was the last warning sign i needed to get out of there.
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!moidmoment guys really do this and then wonder why they only find hoes
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As of 2016, 35% of kids live under a single parent. 25% are mom only, with 8% single dad. That's 18m g*mers
with mommy and daddy issues
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25+8 is not 35
what
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I'm not the journo who wrote it okay
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I've found plenty of girls i really enjoyed being with this way. At no point did i complain.
The horniest a girl will ever be for you is on the first date. If she's not trying to frick you then, she isn't going to be trying to frick you in 5 years.
Any r-slur looking for girls that refuse to have s*x with him really needs to rethink what he wants in a relationship.
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It's nuts.
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Just a b-word that knows her shit.
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Being an incel is honestly far more psychologically healthy than this Sisyphean torture.
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Apparently not
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We're hitting levels of down bad that shouldn't even be possible. Barely sounds like they're dating tbh.
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He only sponsors her and her child
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This is the one thing I agree with the cuck. I thought dates are basically a gift to the women and men don't care about them. She even writes about how she made her nails and bought a dress, which are all activities that solely gratify her.
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God it's so hot when folk plead for s*x.
Everyone here (including the child) should die.
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Who is Oomf
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One Of My Followers (or friends)
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Sorry, I don't know her
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One of my friends.
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Which one?
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This guy.
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That is a kitty move I dont know if I've ever grabbed a towel mid shower
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folx
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Foids are living in an era where their value is hyper inflated. The issue is this has made most foids deluded/insufferable.
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I don't think she's being completely honest. Special requests like this indicate they are definitely not having s*x literally any other time. Someone with an average level of s*x drive would want to have s*x at least every few days. The boyfriend wouldn't need to request s*x on his birthday if they were having frequent s*x in the first place because that would make his birthday just another day of having s*x regularly. It's possible that they are having a mismatched level of s*x drive.
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ye if the guy's at the point of leveraging his own birthday for s*x (rip) it's time to make a choice
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Before my next marriage, I'm absolutely going to bring up the concept of "free use" - ie, either person can demand s*x at any time from their partner and the partner has to do it, regardless of whether they're in the mood or not. It's just so sad to see dead bedroom situations like this where a dude has to "earn" s*x from his own wife, and I'm sure it creates a ton of resentment over time.
The boyfriend here is wrong for trying to pressure his girlfriend into s*x, but he's also wrong for staying with her in the first place.
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That could work if you want to have s*x with a starfish but not of all us are into that.
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lol ok homo
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But you admit that some of you are, right?
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-Sir Pingsalot, at the Gorian B-word-Bazaar-
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Neighbor...
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They don't have a mismatched s*x drive lmao, she finds him repulsive and is indignant that she has to rely on him for anything. Making your partner happy on special occasions should literally make you happy. Not an obligation, not a transaction. If the idea of occasionally doing something you're not 100% into for the sake of your partner is something you view as a chore and not an opportunity, whichever s*x you are, then you're a dogshit partner and don't belong in the relationship.
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What the frick is "touched out"? How can someone who spends as much time as me on the internet still not keep up with the r-slurred terminology these people come up with?
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I think if your toddlers are touching you 24/7 you'd kinda like a break from being touched. I think that's a reasonable reaction. But honestly she should suck it up for the sake of the relationship and put out.
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I've always found this to be ridiculously dishonest and kind of creepy. Can new mothers really not distinguish between their toddlers platonically touching them and their husbands sexually touching them or is it just a convenient excuse to not put out for another reason (hormones, fatigue, feeling unattractive etc)? You never hear about daycare workers refusing to frick their husbands because too many kids touched them at work today.
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This is real and the lingo is incredibly old. It's there to describe why your wife who you keep pumping babies into doesnt want to frick after a day of wrangling 5 toddlers. When she deals with a bunch of children she doesnt want her man to act like a child in any small way. The smallest thing could cause her to make the connection and dry up. Youre supposed to help with the kids then scurry off and have her wonder if you're cheating on her (you are).
Just dump her, dont date single moms and especially dont date anyone over 25 in "child care".
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This is parenting lingo and is something you would just understand if you had to take care of young kids. They constantly need your attention and toddlers in particular just love to touch you with their jam hands. Eventually you get fed up and just
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I never beg for s*x. I only ask 37 times and that's it.
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Very reasonable actions
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Once for every egg this b-word has left in the carton.
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He should just start to jerk off, so the foid can then complain about her bf preferring porn over her
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Why is she even dating him ?
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She wants him to support her and her child.
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But what he want ?
But I got to praise him, he is very honest for an average simp.
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He'll likely never be a Chad, but he can graduate from simp to chimp.
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Yeah god forbid she does something fun for a change.
I never understood this attitude of "my life sucks, so I don't want to make time for things that feel good"
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Just stop being depressed r-slur. Buy a shotgun and hang it over your bedroom doorframe for motivation.
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He is the worst type, defending a hoe that don't complete her part of the deal and she does that on his birthday, neighbor was very honest that he does this to get s*x knowing she love that shit and hoping it will move her legs, she then process to play a fricking victim telling she just want to have fun eating nothing more. Like b-word it's his birthday and he has to make it all about you ? Frick you. And warpy like true simp defends this hoe
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Neighbor want s*x she want fun, he gives her fun and she
Like Ye west told
Yeah god forbid simps not jump in defending a hoe
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That was pusha T
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Any time cute butches moan about their dead bedroom phenomenom, they should be linked to shit like this. Women.
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This guy irl wondering why begging his SINGLE MOTHER girlfriend why she won't send away her kids for the night for Le sexy times
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Good morning
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No one has hobbies that take them out of the house anymore.
"Ok, love yah, have some decompression alone time, i"m going to the club to shoot pool".
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Okay babe. Going out drinking be back in few weeks
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https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/16c1910/boyfriend_only_wants_sex_for_his_birthday_and_i
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lol. lmao.
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You just know he'd be doing all the work anyway lol
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I'm sure chores aren't the only thing she hates
Sometimes I feel bad for the guys in these situations but then I remember that they could just leave so they're really doing this to themselves.
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The whole objectification meme that women pull up is so hilariously nonsensical, it's entirely reliant on word twisting and is never applied consistently.
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She should dump him on his birthday.
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Her kid is always there.
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Oh yeah nobody has ever solved this conundrum of going on dates while having kids.
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OP hasn't.
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Umm yeah so babe I just wanted to let you know in advance you're an uggo weirdo and I already know you'll be just as unattractive friday as you usually are so no putting out from me fam, deal with it + L + don't care + you're white
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Foid makes someone else's birthday about them.
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They sound like they can't stand each other so I wonder why they even date.
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Literally the top comment. Good fricking morning.
She should dump him because he apparently doesn't have the balls to dump her. Would be the best thing that could happen to him.
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I love how she's telling him she'll be exhausted Friday night when it's Thursday morning or earlier.
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What's the point of dating someone if they can't even be bothered to frick you on your birthday. The rest of the days must be even worse.
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It clearly is Pickmeisha
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Total bait post, but not quite funny enough to be a zinger.
I think the end gave it away:
And then this:
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There it is: Single mom BPD trailer trash alpha widow.
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Finding /r/breakingmom on a woman's phone would be worse than finding texts from an affair partner
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No one speaks this way
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