Boyfriend only wants s*x for his birthday and I don't feel like it
My boyfriend and I have a date planned Friday for his birthday at a very nice fancy restaurant. I bought makeup and nails and a new dress. We never get to go on dates.
He gets angry when he expects something and it doesn't go his way, so I mentioned to him that I might not feel like having s*x Friday night. Just so he can manage his expectations. I'm a single mom to a young child and I also work with kids so I am touched out, burnt out, and emotionally drained. Having s*x is the last thing I want to think about.
He of course became frustrated and said s*x was the only thing he wanted for his birthday. He said he was just doing the date for me, he didn't care whether we went on a date or not (even though he's been begging me to go on a date for months). He just wants s*x.
We went into this whole argument about it. I don't understand why he can't just go out and make some memories with me and not expect s*x afterwards. We never get to go out alone. Like ever. We can have s*x anytime. I pointed out how shallow he's being and he got so pissed he got off the phone with me.
Like we can't just go out and have a good time together without having s*x? When we can have s*x literally any other time?
Should I have s*x with him since it's his birthday even if I don't want to? It just feels icky to me.
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This is a whole new breed of psycho.
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Who even gets married to these people?
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People that fall for their controlling behavior. I dated a girl for a few weeks like this. She wanted to wait to have s*x, on date 3 she canceled our dinner plans to just stay in and watch a movie. She then told me "if we had gone out id totally be fricking you tonight."
I don't normally date girls that don't have s*x on the first date. This was the last warning sign i needed to get out of there.
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!moidmoment guys really do this and then wonder why they only find hoes
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As of 2016, 35% of kids live under a single parent. 25% are mom only, with 8% single dad. That's 18m g*mers
with mommy and daddy issues
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25+8 is not 35
what
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I'm not the journo who wrote it okay
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I've found plenty of girls i really enjoyed being with this way. At no point did i complain.
The horniest a girl will ever be for you is on the first date. If she's not trying to frick you then, she isn't going to be trying to frick you in 5 years.
Any r-slur looking for girls that refuse to have s*x with him really needs to rethink what he wants in a relationship.
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It's nuts.
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Just when I thought it was bleak like this, I now know it gets even bleaker
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Dating a single mom who won't even have s*x with you is like Incel+ subscription
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Really is insane
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Just a b-word that knows her shit.
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Being an incel is honestly far more psychologically healthy than this Sisyphean torture.
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