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>I was coerced into s*x I didn't want by boys and men when I was young
>But they don't have to take any responsibility, no sir. Just me.
Totally didn't want to bang all those dudes, no sir.
This is like how there is no s*x at a frat party, only r*pe.
>I don't include the times I was SA'd in my body count. It wasn't s*x, it was violence. They are not the same.
Oh, there's one in the comments too.
If you're being sexually assaulted by people in the double digits, you should figure out wtf is happening because that seems not normal.
That's basically me.
My body count has scared off many men. (now 40).
Yet, I never had a hoe phase. I've just been casually dating for for years (I'll be 34 soon) and mostly had short relationships that ended because it wasn't working.
I lost my virginity at 17.
So my partner count has been just about 2.5 new guys a year.
That's fairly normal I'd say.
I have female friends that are sleeping with new men almost every week. One of them said her body count is over 200 and she doesn't even consider herself a hoe or easy. She's just naturally very outgoing, flirty and sexy so has a lot of attention.
How is that normal? You're 35 and have never had a relationship last more than half a year?
That seems incredibly not normal. It's not even the body count by itself, it's the fact that you can't hold down a relationship for more than 5 months or whatever.
If a 35 year old male said he never had relationship for longer than 5 months, would you consider that a red flag?
Also if I'm that age I'm looking for someone who is divorced. It means they have redeeming enough qualities that someone was willing to marry them, at the very least.
It also keeps the body count down, since they were in a long term monogamous relationship.
Finding one of these without a kid can be tough, though.
I think it's even more the fact that they don't consider it slutty behavior. Like if you wanna be a slut, go for it! But also understand what kind of men that qualifies you for when the party is over. You better get good at dodging punches and patching drywall.
I met a foid with zero self respect post breakup of a long term relationship. I was being a man whore and she was just a whore. It was a match made in heaven. She was the type that like to be slapped around and shit. She ate my butt like an Ethiopian at Golden Corral on the first hook up. I didn't respect her as a person, but I respected she was willing to unapologetically be a whore and knew what she wanted.
To be honest I don't really care about body count if she's presentable enough to bring home to the family. If she's a goblin then frick no because what kind of guys are you fricking. But like we all had phases, and if you have half a personality getting laid in a social setting(party, bar, club, etc) is easy as frick because 90% of dudes are too chicken shit to even look a woman in the eye. The body count shit don't bother me cause I've had my phases, lord knows I had that two year monger bender because it was fun haggling down “escorts” to hooker prices.
But the red flag isn't the bodies as you said. The red flag is not being able to hold down anything meaningful with anyone. The reality is, if you have a kitty you can find some pushover simp that'll put up with shit forever. And you couldn't even do that? What the frick is wrong with you. Ya know?
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I only care about body count if it's higher than mine: if it's lower, I'm fine with it. So the more of a manslut I am, the more of a slut I'll tolerate. Otherwise I look like a hypocrite
This is like how there is no s*x at a frat party, only r*pe.
The only frat that was on my former campus that people actively avoided was one of the two “gay” ones because they were legit basement dwellers with r*pe vibes. Like I'm sure they were skinning animals and the homeless in the basement during the week. Fricking Freaks. Even the most meager of libshit librarian type foids felt super uncomfortable there.
I wasn't in Greek life but I made it a point to have bro in the good party houses. Got invited to 80% of the shit including most of the closed parties. Only things I missed out on were the elephant walks and ookie cookie.
I have female friends that are sleeping with new men almost every week. One of them said her body count is over 200 and she doesn't even consider herself a hoe or easy. She's just naturally very outgoing, flirty and sexy so has a lot of attention.
My sister in Christ, she is clearly a hoe/easy. If your body count can fill a large classroom at a State School, you are a hoe.
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Totally didn't want to bang all those dudes, no sir.
This is like how there is no s*x at a frat party, only r*pe.
Oh, there's one in the comments too.
If you're being sexually assaulted by people in the double digits, you should figure out wtf is happening because that seems not normal.
How is that normal? You're 35 and have never had a relationship last more than half a year?
That seems incredibly not normal. It's not even the body count by itself, it's the fact that you can't hold down a relationship for more than 5 months or whatever.
That seems like a massive fricking red flag.
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If a 35 year old male said he never had relationship for longer than 5 months, would you consider that a red flag?
Also if I'm that age I'm looking for someone who is divorced. It means they have redeeming enough qualities that someone was willing to marry them, at the very least.
It also keeps the body count down, since they were in a long term monogamous relationship.
Finding one of these without a kid can be tough, though.
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Why would it matter what she considers herself lmao.
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She identifies as a non-slut, so she is one. That's all it takes, sweaty.
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I think it's even more the fact that they don't consider it slutty behavior. Like if you wanna be a slut, go for it! But also understand what kind of men that qualifies you for when the party is over. You better get good at dodging punches and patching drywall.
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I met a foid with zero self respect post breakup of a long term relationship. I was being a man whore and she was just a whore. It was a match made in heaven. She was the type that like to be slapped around and shit. She ate my butt like an Ethiopian at Golden Corral on the first hook up. I didn't respect her as a person, but I respected she was willing to unapologetically be a whore and knew what she wanted.
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Similar scenario, I then got to see her get married to a so she could secure a visa, life imitating art.
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That's a new guy every 4 months.
Something something kicked out of 149 countries but I'm the victim
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Brother, I wish
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The weirder thing is 2.5 guys are either passing on her, or she's deciding she actually doesn't like them every year.
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That's exactly what I'm talking about.
It means either:
1: she's so fricking crazy that no one sticks around
or
2: she's so fickle that she constantly finds reasons to drop guys and move on.
Neither one of those things is good if you're looking for a long term partner.
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To be honest I don't really care about body count if she's presentable enough to bring home to the family. If she's a goblin then frick no because what kind of guys are you fricking. But like we all had phases, and if you have half a personality getting laid in a social setting(party, bar, club, etc) is easy as frick because 90% of dudes are too chicken shit to even look a woman in the eye. The body count shit don't bother me cause I've had my phases, lord knows I had that two year monger bender because it was fun haggling down “escorts” to hooker prices.
But the red flag isn't the bodies as you said. The red flag is not being able to hold down anything meaningful with anyone. The reality is, if you have a kitty you can find some pushover simp that'll put up with shit forever. And you couldn't even do that? What the frick is wrong with you. Ya know?
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I only care about body count if it's higher than mine: if it's lower, I'm fine with it. So the more of a manslut I am, the more of a slut I'll tolerate. Otherwise I look like a hypocrite
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I don't even understand the logistics of this.
Finding a new person to date every 4months is incredible. The actual “single” period must be some weeks even like wtf.
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Slight side tangent that this reminded me of
The only frat that was on my former campus that people actively avoided was one of the two “gay” ones because they were legit basement dwellers with r*pe vibes. Like I'm sure they were skinning animals and the homeless in the basement during the week. Fricking Freaks. Even the most meager of libshit librarian type foids felt super uncomfortable there.
I wasn't in Greek life but I made it a point to have bro in the good party houses. Got invited to 80% of the shit including most of the closed parties. Only things I missed out on were the elephant walks and ookie cookie.
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The what
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Use your imagination
I'll give ya a freebie of knowledge here. Last one to finish on the cookie eats it.
Did any of you ever even attend college?
Neither of which to be confused with the hybrid step cousin of both of these games
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I did, but I didn't eat any cookies covered in c*m.
Feel really terrible about missing out on that experience
IDEK how people make this shit up
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He doesn't realize he was in the gay frat
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Literally limp biskit was named after this
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That is why you are a weak soy
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My sister in Christ, she is clearly a hoe/easy. If your body count can fill a large classroom at a State School, you are a hoe.
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