I've been talking to a guy that quite a few years older than I am. We clicked instantly, share a few interests and have lovely conversations. Except for yesterday.
We live quite a bit apart so we haven't met yet, but we were talking about how we'd spend a lazy Sunday together. We were talking about being lazy in bed and just cuddling. I jokingly said that it'll be fine if he doesn't mind a bit of leg hair. But then his mood changed, saying that he expects me to shave my legs or he'll wear sweatpants. He doesn't want to feel leg hair.
I mean, I guess I get it a bit. But it's cold here, it's autumn, and I ain't shaving my legs when no one but me (and maybe my partner) sees them. In the spring and summer it's fine, I shave my legs whenever I wear a dress, skirt, or shorts. I just thought a dude in his forties would be okay with leg hair lol.
EDIT: I've received a “Reddit Cares” message over this post. Seriously, guys? Lmao.
“Sorry, not going to happen. I use my hair for navigation.. like a cats whiskers”
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Body hair on women is natural and sexy. Alot of men are just silly and also conditioned by society.
I had the opposite experience. I remember snuggling one night, he put his arm over me, which left his hand on my arm, and he noticeably jolted when he touched the hair I've had on my arms since I was 5?
He realised I'd notice his reaction, and left it there long enough that he assummed I was asleep when he moved it.
After we broke up, part of the message he sent me regarding things I'd need to “fix” about my body, if I was ever going to get naked in front of someone else, was my body hair in general.
I have hirsutism caused by PCOS, so I'm furry. Not much I can do, because I have neither the inclination, time, money or pain tolerance to wax everything from the cheeks down - like a candle.
I mentioned the hirsutism once and was told “don't show me. What has been seen cannot be unseen.”
Hypocrisy is, at best, a secondary issue. He's threatening to withhold intimacy unless she complies with his personal preferences. Imagine if she had told him she wouldn't cuddle him unless he got his hair permed...
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We need to raise the age of majority to at least 25, but possibly higher. Children can't consent to s*x, buying cigarettes or weed, or drinking, or voting.
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Women should not be allowed to leave the house without the company of a man
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The strag moid flinching at fricking arm hair is still the biggest loser here though. I blame fricking Japanese cartoons.
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lmao that's a 10/10 egghead, literally perfect overlap, fat beings are a joke
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You actually edited the hair
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Disgusting
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TwoManyCalories
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My foid has armpit hair. Not too much, just a bit and it's a bit fuzzy. I don't really mind it tbh. Am I still an honorary straggot?
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You are the most straggot
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Silly comics aside, pitchaddery is the thinking man's fetish. You should graze on those pits like a crazed mule drunk off fermented fruit.
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Armpit hair is inexcusable for anyone, especially foids. It takes literally 10 seconds to shave every morning under the shower.
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Arm hair is disgusting. Keep yourself safe please
Following statement is false: Israeli lives matter
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Your bedroom:
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@KaidanHashira have 1 HxH t shirt, and thats it
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not even twox passes the Bechdel test
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Aren't we doing the reverse right now
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It's based when we do it
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Why can't these men give me a product recommendation that works on my female skin?
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what is googe
what is youtub
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All that for a neckbeard
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women redditors groom themselves challenge : impossible
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Gosh, I wonder why? Harridans are so hot.
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Moids not fricking anything challenge (impossible)
https://old.reddit.com/r/mildlyinfuriating/comments/x49gx4/tendonitis_in_my_wrist_i_cant_take_nsaid_because
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Aaahyassuh, we got ahselves a mighty fine specimen heah. Fetch mah ropes and molasses, boys.
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I'm fine with leg hair, just not pubic hair.
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Are they smugly joking or being sarcastic? It's the dumbest take. Almost as stupid as "u cant fugg my butt unless u let my friend plow ur butt while i watch."
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If you're planning on being intimate and don't consider him your partner, you're a whore
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Snapshots:
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“Sorry, not going to happen. I use my hair for navigation.. like a cats whiskers”:
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Body hair on women is natural and sexy. Alot of men are just silly and also conditioned by society.:
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40+ and 27 is the bigger red flag here:
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"I guess I get it a bit."
I'll be the first to say I dont get it at all. If he doesn't remove his own hair he's a hypocrite at best:
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To each their own I guess but I can't stand having hair on me!
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She'll produce female offspring with arm hair i have to cull.
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Ot is possible to hold many standards at the same time.
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Sorry you dont frick
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