i'm not one to judge someone else's sexual preferences. i'm open to almost anything. my one thing is that i wouldn't do anal more than once a week since it's a LOT. my bf and me are long distance and we broke up a few days ago due to him saying he can't do the distance anymore (when we're irl, it's great, when we're not, he said it feels like a friendship). after talking about it for a few days and deciding we talked about everything and we discussed how to better our relationship & our needs/wants and out of no where he tells me that he actually can't commit to something if i can't let him do anal 90% of the time (when we would be together, he said he only wants that) then he broke up with me. is this normal? common? i'm heartbroken because i feel blindsided and if it was so important thought we would talk about it months ago (he's never tried it irl with me?). i don't know what to do and would love advice from people in similar situations. my first thought is this is abnormal but i might just have a clouded mind bc of emotions. i don't want to hate him and would be open to staying friends but also would love advice from other girls who may have had this happen too
bruh literally i didn't think it sounded realistic at al
Honestly too much anal s*x can be bad for you. Just because it's kinky and some people really like it doesn't mean your body is designed for it.
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Anal enjoyers are just scat fetishists who can't wait for it to come out
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You're missing out
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What's the appeal supposed to be?
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Tigher entry if plugged, tighter entry + extra ridges deeper down if beads. Its pretty kino and for some reason foids tend to love it too. I did my ex in her butt once and she was pestering me to do it more often afterwards. She also started using beads and plugs more, she got very into it whereas I mostly enjoyed going in through the front + a toy in her back. Anal itself is very meh, way looser than kitty, much less sensation overall, really just one tight ring that she can squeeze at will.
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i would do anal but the idea of your peepee touching a turd is insane
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Then do what I do and just get her a toy to go up there while you go in through the front. If you really must go through the backdoor then beads, if all are inserted, serve as an indicator for the presence of shit once you pull them out (and give you an estimate of how far away it is)
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That's when you yank the beads out like starting a generator and make modern art
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Its really not all its cranked up to be, if my ex-foid wasnt in love with it I really wouldnt have done it much if at all. That being said, toys up her butt truly do be the best way to go about things.
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Oooh frosted turds
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