my boyfriend broke up with me over not wanting to do anal 5 times a week

i'm not one to judge someone else's sexual preferences. i'm open to almost anything. my one thing is that i wouldn't do anal more than once a week since it's a LOT. my bf and me are long distance and we broke up a few days ago due to him saying he can't do the distance anymore (when we're irl, it's great, when we're not, he said it feels like a friendship). after talking about it for a few days and deciding we talked about everything and we discussed how to better our relationship & our needs/wants and out of no where he tells me that he actually can't commit to something if i can't let him do anal 90% of the time (when we would be together, he said he only wants that) then he broke up with me. is this normal? common? i'm heartbroken because i feel blindsided and if it was so important thought we would talk about it months ago (he's never tried it irl with me?). i don't know what to do and would love advice from people in similar situations. my first thought is this is abnormal but i might just have a clouded mind bc of emotions. i don't want to hate him and would be open to staying friends but also would love advice from other girls who may have had this happen too

I don't know if this helps but I don't think literally any man in the lgbt community who bottoms would ever consider bottoming 5 days a week. It's just not realistic.

bruh literally i didn't think it sounded realistic at al

Honestly too much anal s*x can be bad for you. Just because it's kinky and some people really like it doesn't mean your body is designed for it.

homophobia

Me and my wife are now together for over 13 years. "Of course" i also want to do anal. In the past 13 years we hed it exactly 1 (one) time.

So no, it's not normal to leave his partner for not doing anal 5 times a week.

He needs to find a trans woman. We have a prostate too.