@WinterWonderLandMKII's comment on 'foid upset her actions have consequences :marseywomanmoment2:'

https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/17pb7qw/my_27f_says_she_27f_wont_set_me_up_with_her_male?sort=controversial

"I just don't think she has the right to prevent me from dating her friend."

Sure, you can date him all you want if he wants to date you too. But it wouldn't be unreasonable for her to warn her friend that you cheated on her brother in the past. Four years is not that long ago. If you've changed then good for you, but you can't expect everyone to just forget about it.

I don't know, I feel it would be unreasonable. I was in my early 20s at the time, I think as a society we need to give people the room to grow. We shouldn't constantly throw mistakes of their past in their face

raise the age of consent to 25 NOW :#marseyprotestyes:

You.... cant be serious. You know what, I'll be nice. Look OP, you had a full blown relationship with your ex best friend's brother. You cheated. You hurt him. I'm sure Amina had to help pick up the pieces of her brother you destroyed. Yes, you may have changed. However, Amina doesn't want to risk the possibility of you hurting someone again who is dear and close to her. Not only that, but she's not your matchmaker. I'm sure she also wants to respect her brother bc who knows if Ron is friend's with him too. If you say you changed then prove it by your actions by staying away from Ron. Possibly from Amina too. If you chase Ron then it's just going to further prove to them that your selfishness is still there.

I'll probably stay away from Ron because I didn't consider she would probably tell him. It's just hurtful someone I call a friend doesn't trust that I've grown as a person

this has to be bait :#marseyxd: :#marseybaitretard: