dates young for a year, goes as well as you would expect.

OP is 30F dating a 23M

Some choice lines from the OP and comments

We fight about something stupid (his anger gets triggered and he doesn't listen to me when I explain my side, and tells me I don't make any sense), I cry a lot, he eventually makes up with me

Oh and it's “my fault” he's in a bad mood all the time because I only have s*x with him once a week. (I lost my sexual connection to him the day he lost his temper at me when I declined s*x one night).

I've tried teaching that to my bf and even included a “safe word” during disagreements to try to get us to step back and reassess our emotions but it doesn't work

Neighbor just leave, nobody's keeping you there.