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:marseywall: dates young :marseygigachad: for a year, goes as well as you would expect.

https://old.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/17zp7h4/1_year_update_me_30f_going_on_a_date_with_23m

OP is 30F dating a 23M

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We fight about something stupid (his anger gets triggered and he doesn't listen to me when I explain my side, and tells me I don't make any sense), I cry a lot, he eventually makes up with me

Oh and it's “my fault” he's in a bad mood all the time because I only have s*x with him once a week. (I lost my sexual connection to him the day he lost his temper at me when I declined s*x one night).

I've tried teaching that to my bf and even included a “safe word” during disagreements to try to get us to step back and reassess our emotions but it doesn't work

Neighbor just leave, nobody's keeping you there.

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tried teaching that to my bf and even included a “safe word” during disagreements

lmao I SAID THE SAFE WORD THAT MEANS YOU CANT KEEP TELLING ME IM WRONG


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It's literally a Portlandia sketch that a woman uses a safe word to shut down any conversations or interactions.

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He was mad at me once so I no longer wanted to frick him but did so anyway out of fear.

It is a mystery how this woman was single for so long.

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Oh and it's “my fault” he's in a bad mood all the time because I only have s*x with him once a week

The dude is 23, he probably wants it 3x a day and getting denied triggers his still developing brain.

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I cry a lot

he has no emotional maturity

Foids lol. Also she's raping him and holds all the power in the relationship

Idk what state you're in, but the laws in WA allowed for splitting up a household on a lease together if there was any report of violence or domestic dispute

No physical violence. We have the same law here but I don't think it would apply for my lease.

"yet"

No physical violence YET.

:#marseyitsallsotiresome:

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Where are all the comments calling her a p-do for dating such a young and impressionable boy?

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Its only oppressive if you're dating young people i can't get

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it's (D)ifferent, sweaty

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Years later she will talk about this toxic "situationship" as the one that got away

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Groomer

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