The Third Category of Women (in dating)
Recently I posted on the Hinge subreddit, asking why men whose profiles say they're looking for a relationship were initiating s*x conversation early on in chat. I figured I already knew the answer, but was curious what men would say.
In the process of reading the comments, I learned something new. Previously, I'd thought that there were only two categories women would fall into when men were dating (specifically on the apps, but it likely applies to in-person meets as well.) Either they liked a woman, or they didn't.
So, imagine my surprise when it came out over several comments that there is actually a third category: the women that men are not interested in dating, but are attractive enough to frick.
So, men on apps might indeed be looking for a relationship, but if they don't want a relationship with you, they will pull out the innuendos to test and see if you'll take the bait. If you do, they'll use your body for their own pleasure and then discard you.
I was ready to hear “those men are just looking for a hookup.” I knew those men existed. I was ready for it. What I was not ready for was men openly admitting they did this, and evidently saw no problem with it. And it wasn't just one, isolated weird guy.
It was just kind of depressing to learn that men were so morally okay with using a woman's body for their pleasure like a living fleshlight and then throwing her away like garbage afterward. I would never, ever do that to a man. It's such a mean and dehumanizing and just all around evil thing to do.
How do men get like this? Is it the inability to empathize? Selfishness to an extreme extent? I get that getting laid is harder for men on dating apps but this is just so unacceptable.
It's definitely given me a new perspective on OLD and heterosexual relationships. I don't know if I can come back from this revelation.
-Edit-
In case this wasn't clear, I'm not disparaging having casual s*x as long as both parties are cool with that. The issue I'm having is men willing to lie and fake wanting a relationship while knowing full well that they just want you for s*x.
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It's kind of crazy how dumb women are. If you want to observe what men do without putting on any facade for women, just see what gay men do. Or are you not going to admit how gay men do their s*x lives?
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Gay hook up culture is pretty disgusting tbh. Yes I have watched Cruising
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Yeah I roomed with two gay lads in uni and that's where a lot of my hatred for sodomites comes from. Hearing the stuff they casually discussed was pretty insane.
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idk man, the conversation about becoming a gay sandwich was like weird but okay you do you.
The weird memes about things that look like shit did seem a bit overkill though.
Also the gays who have no issue spreading their blood all over the place.
It's like some of them have a just because I don't care about my safety means I don't have to care about anybody else's safety either.
I wouldn't trust a lower class slutty gay in a health or food safety department.
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Women
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an important obstacle to male degeneracy. Theyre flighty and incurious and you have to woo them into anything 
new.
I could probably get any strag on the block
to try out my poppers face mask without even explaining it
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I don't see anything different
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men are horndogs
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Not my uwu yaoi homorinos! They're just supporting characters telling me Yaaas Kween and So True Kween as I talk about my real problems, while showing how tolerant I am by treating a minority as my pets!
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rdrama attempt too convert straight dudes into gay #2578938
Does AI love sucking peepee?
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