The Third Category of Women (in dating)
Recently I posted on the Hinge subreddit, asking why men whose profiles say they're looking for a relationship were initiating s*x conversation early on in chat. I figured I already knew the answer, but was curious what men would say.
In the process of reading the comments, I learned something new. Previously, I'd thought that there were only two categories women would fall into when men were dating (specifically on the apps, but it likely applies to in-person meets as well.) Either they liked a woman, or they didn't.
So, imagine my surprise when it came out over several comments that there is actually a third category: the women that men are not interested in dating, but are attractive enough to frick.
So, men on apps might indeed be looking for a relationship, but if they don't want a relationship with you, they will pull out the innuendos to test and see if you'll take the bait. If you do, they'll use your body for their own pleasure and then discard you.
I was ready to hear “those men are just looking for a hookup.” I knew those men existed. I was ready for it. What I was not ready for was men openly admitting they did this, and evidently saw no problem with it. And it wasn't just one, isolated weird guy.
It was just kind of depressing to learn that men were so morally okay with using a woman's body for their pleasure like a living fleshlight and then throwing her away like garbage afterward. I would never, ever do that to a man. It's such a mean and dehumanizing and just all around evil thing to do.
How do men get like this? Is it the inability to empathize? Selfishness to an extreme extent? I get that getting laid is harder for men on dating apps but this is just so unacceptable.
It's definitely given me a new perspective on OLD and heterosexual relationships. I don't know if I can come back from this revelation.
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In case this wasn't clear, I'm not disparaging having casual s*x as long as both parties are cool with that. The issue I'm having is men willing to lie and fake wanting a relationship while knowing full well that they just want you for s*x.
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moids will say and do literally anything to get their peepee wet, how do foids not figure this shit out in like high school
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Because that would require admitting something to themselves that they're incapable of.
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That their college one night stand(s) are not all dudes that had too leave too Europe the next day because of their royalty status?
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That just like relationships come with a cost. So too do open sexual dating markets.
And there is no market where you get everything exactly how you want it.
Unless you are a billionaire.
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Women can very easily have s*x, they lack empathy and can't imagine what it's like to be a guy where you can't frick the people you want.
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You sound unloved
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Calm down s*x pest, and Ive actually touched a woman, and Now go virtue signal somewhere else to get tedsimps attention
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Why would I want a whores attention? Sounds like projection
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Have s*x incel
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Will do. I'll tell my wife it's an order from Daniella
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You dont have a wife, and Enjoy your hand but go off i guess
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Awww look at da cute angree incel
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Cute frog
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I love this turtle
What's ur fav turtle emoji?
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Alot of women absolutely understand this, but these are reddit women (and wo(men)) larping)
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Zoomers go to hs on groomercord
so they never 
have to deal with it.
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Wdym? It's called groomercord for a reason.
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A lot of foids live in a delusional bubble, in lala land. The average foid thinks they (women) could run the infrastructure/country if men disappeared.
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I wouldn't but then again, a foid is only interacting with the men who would do anything to get their peepee wet, so your point still stands. In their world my existence or inexistence doesn't make a difference.
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It's kind of crazy how dumb women are. If you want to observe what men do without putting on any facade for women, just see what gay men do. Or are you not going to admit how gay men do their s*x lives?
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Gay hook up culture is pretty disgusting tbh. Yes I have watched Cruising
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Yeah I roomed with two gay lads in uni and that's where a lot of my hatred for sodomites comes from. Hearing the stuff they casually discussed was pretty insane.
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Women
present 
an important obstacle to male degeneracy. Theyre flighty and incurious and you have to woo them into anything 
new.
I could probably get any strag on the block
to try out my poppers face mask without even explaining it
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idk man, the conversation about becoming a gay sandwich was like weird but okay you do you.
The weird memes about things that look like shit did seem a bit overkill though.
Also the gays who have no issue spreading their blood all over the place.
It's like some of them have a just because I don't care about my safety means I don't have to care about anybody else's safety either.
I wouldn't trust a lower class slutty gay in a health or food safety department.
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I don't see anything different
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men are horndogs
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Not my uwu yaoi homorinos! They're just supporting characters telling me Yaaas Kween and So True Kween as I talk about my real problems, while showing how tolerant I am by treating a minority as my pets!
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rdrama attempt too convert straight dudes into gay #2578938
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She gets all of this because...their bio says they want a relationship?
Does she think people who want relationships aren't allowed to hook up with anyone until they meet 'the one' or something and they have to be lying if they do?
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Based. Idk how foids can't get this, there's like dozens of reasons you'd frick a foid but not date her or want to be married to her
1. not hot enough
2. kind of annoying
3. not enough in common
….
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Women do this too lol, they're to embarrassed to say they're just looking for a hook up or fling after a relationship so always put "looking for LTR". Literally everyone does it
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@0 thought "Serious relationship only, no hookups" was foid for "I'm a huge slut and @0 wanna get trained on this weekend".
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Sometimes you have to frick somebody to realise that you never want to see them again.
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generally men want access to s*x while women want access to money and attention. the real test isn't whether she'd lead a man on to exploit him for s*x, but whether she'd do it for money or attention. there are men who lead women on to get a hole to pump and dump, and there are women who lead men on for free meals and a shoulder to cry on.
but this is
, so admitting that this sort of self-serving behavior goes both ways isn't going to happen 
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What if your foid buys you outfits for 3k and takes you on luxurious vacations for free?
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well then i guess the only fair option is for me to reciprocate by becoming her living s*x toy
. . . 
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You have a lot to learn from me
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what's the real answer then
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Meet a wealthy foreign student girl and date her
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closest i'm getting is
engineer but thank you for the advice
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I found a college girl who's dad was murdered when she was little and a trustfund from his life insurance policy
So much cocaine that i didnt have to pay for
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No wonder
your value system 
is all fricked up
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I HAVE THE BEST VALUES
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That makes you the foid.
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!slots100
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There is an easy cheat if you intend to be monogamous.
Offer the thing that you most need from the other and ask for the thing that the other needs most from you.
So you offer a woman s*x and ask her for money and attention in your personal relationship.
This shows that even your weakest point for both of you is an attractive trait to your partner.
This is just a theory though so could be wrong.
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i want to go to a twox meetup
would be mad funny
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In a wig
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Grow out your beard
and you'll fit right 
in.
I was thinking
of going 
to their most recent meetup because I love sucking peepee.
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omg hi
@Marz!!! okay so this is like super awkward omg but basically i had to remove ur comment bc u didnt say
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Its a well known fact that no woman ever had a fwb relationship, or, even worse, a one night stand, and Women dont do that
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!slots1000 says that b-word has a recent post about being single
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Does she realise she's rediscovered conservative sexual norms?
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No, she absolutely thinks she's on the cutting edge of progressive dating norms
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!slots2000
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stating a woc/mixed race means half japanese, if she was actual poc she woupdve said black/mexi
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lmao
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I liked that, it really proves that for these kinds of people, 'empathy' just means 'my feelings, not yours'.
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I love how foids could Say a Truth about themselves and still blame the entire world for it
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he's literally me
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I've met way more foids who want to frick me but won't even be my friend
than moids who are like that tbh
I remember one girl I was friends/smitten with broke up with her bf and I was her rebound (she initiated) and some time later I confessed my feelings and she ghosted forever.
If a foid ever looks at me with sexy eyes I know
for wholesome interactions and they just look at me like a piece of meat to get their wet peepeeed
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To what end is your confession?
Is the worry
that even though you guys are happily plap plapping, she might suddenly decide to get married? So you have to tell her how she makes you feel like a beta simp so you can lock her down?
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You shut your mouth,
How can you say,
I go about things the wrong way?
I am human and I need to be loved
Just like everybody else
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If a girl is sucking your peepee, there is some love there. Try not to be so greedy
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Ok listen darling
Women just have a deep hole of darkness in their heart, and they are looking for someone too fill that void of darkness with compassion and understanding.
So, in short, they want their hole filled.
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Tbh sometimes you don't know you don't want the relationship till after the s*x
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Gentlemen, the s*x with "high emotional intelligence"
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Snapshots:
undelete.pullpush.io
ghostarchive.org
archive.org
archive.ph (click to archive)
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