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Dude finds out from his GF's friends that she got plowed by 3 complete stranger men on a trip to Mexico, the problem here is actually her shitty friends telling him about it and he shouldn't care about her past.

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I'm not mad at the girlfriend.

I am mad at the friends. Why in the frick would they ever tell you that?

Of COURSE it's going to ruin the relationship that they claimed they were so happy about for your girlfriend.

(-17)so they shouldve kept their mouth shut and let her bf not know that 3 mexicoo amigos fricked her?

Oh no. A woman had s*x. Call the cops.

:marseysoylentgrin: It's just normal s*x chud

(-26)It's very good they told him, he deserves to know who she is.

…who is she?

She didn't cheat. She didn't even know him yet.

There's also a very serious question of consent here. She was drunk and high and, in her own words, “feels taken advantage of.”

She didn't cheat and actually she probably got r*ped anyway :smugtranstwitter:


If you can't respect her, don't be with her. Also funny how people think it is so awful that someone had s*x with multiple people at once but separately that would be a small "body count." Oh yeah, obviously having s*x with 3 people is so much bigger deal than having s*x with 3 people.

:marseyshapiro: these things are logically the same


Hey man. You chose to date someone 3 years older than you.

I'm sure that you got into this relationship understanding that she have more life experiences than you. This is part of the package.

MMMF foursomes are just part and parcel of being a 21 year old woman these days.


Plenty of people do things they later regret, especially when alcohol and drugs are involved.

I honestly don't get how you're “less of a man” because your gf wanted to take things slower with you because she wanted a relationship to develop as opposed to just shagging a virgin asap. I can only assume it's your age and lack of experience making you come to this conclusion.

It's not remotely a red flag.

Only an inexperienced 18 year old could possibly care about this. Also some seethe under this comment, not gonna post all of it.


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Well if she doesn't want to be seen as a wh**** she shouldn't be acting like one in the first place.

She is not serious relationship material, her friends are probably also this kind of girls if not even worse so imagine they go on some girls night out/trip.

If you have some self respect don't be with gang bang girl, she might be good for fun but investing your commitment and time into her is just a waste and you will regret it in the future.

Give the girl who told you truth about your GF flowers or some good wine as thank you gift. You have no idea how lucky you are you learned this.

You sound like a misogynist.

:marse#yxd:

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For all the young bucks here, if a chick has a passport don't get in a relationship with her.

Sow your oats, but she belongs to the streets if she has a passport.

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The only women I know that travel and don't get plowed are those going on mission trips. It's just a bit too convenient for young women because nobody will know (unless she went with a friend that decides to snitch). If a woman solo travels just assume she gets peepeeed down (because again, who's going to know).

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If they're going on mission trips and are not getting plowed by africans they can probably sniff out a dramatard and won't fw you.

If they didn't get plowed out by africans and can't sniff out a dramatard that's probably a different type of red flag that should be avoided.

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I went on a mission trip as a kid. One poor schmuck's 16 yo daughter gave the locals a strip tease.

Oniy tangentially related but I always wanted to tell that story.

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Nah you misunderstand - they often go on mission trips to find a boyfriend/husband who's also on a mission trip. I know quite a few people who got married this way.

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I thank God every day for not being born into Mormonism.

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>I thank God every day for not being born into Mormonism Orthodox Scientology.

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Not sure if women do it but every other Mormon missionary dude Ive met has a wife from where he goes on mission. That American passport really carries some weight.

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Getting a job where i travel a lot truly changed my perspective on relationships. Married men and women will FaceTime their kids after dinner and then go frick some other business traveler they meet in the lobby.

I knew it happened but the extent that it happens was mind blowing. And it's crazy because they'll even show you pictures of the kids

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Yup I also travel for work (and solo travel every now and then). I would never get into a serious relationship with a woman who travels for work, it's obscene how bad it is. It might also be the type of woman that works a job where they are always traveling, but I've never seen one that isn't cheating.

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Tbf, I haven't met a moid who that travels for work that isn't cheating with some woman, man, animal, or mineral, either

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As much as social media admonishes cheating, i firmly believe that anybody who can cheat, eventually will.

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Actual suifuel

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Studies show lifetime infidelity as high as 72% for moids and 52% for foids

Also:

While one mate at a time is the norm, throughout history, 84 percent of known human societies have permitted men more than one ongoing sexual relationship.

Several patriarchs even in the Bible had multiple wives.

Three-quarters of American adults call extramarital s*x “always wrong,” yet a majority of Americans who have been unfaithful call their own justified.

lol, people are fricking hypocrites, no surprise. If you read studies about this and other things, it's pretty clear.

People are always big on hammering crime even when they also commit crimes (somehow theirs seem fine to them, mote in your neighbors eye, beam in your eye)

Even in the Middle East, where they kill you for it--there's an appreciable rate of parental discrepancy discovered during genetic testing

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Listen, yes I did 115mph to cut that guy off and brake check him, but he went over the line slightly and needed to be taught to drive better. It was justified.

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Early in my career I was tasked with taking people out when our teams would come in town for training.

People just treat work trips as an excuse to get hammered on a weekday.

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Youre god darn right we do :marseyxd:

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There's a reason every woman does "study abroad" trips now in college. It's over. Accept that she has been peepeeed down by spanish foreign chad and get over it.

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!leafs

:marseyworried: What does this say about our women?

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They get sticky.

https://i.rdrama.net/images/17074078889438763.webp

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If a woman can read and walks with her head uncovered, she's for the streets

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