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Dude finds out from his GF's friends that she got plowed by 3 complete stranger men on a trip to Mexico, the problem here is actually her shitty friends telling him about it and he shouldn't care about her past.

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I'm not mad at the girlfriend.

I am mad at the friends. Why in the frick would they ever tell you that?

Of COURSE it's going to ruin the relationship that they claimed they were so happy about for your girlfriend.

(-17)so they shouldve kept their mouth shut and let her bf not know that 3 mexicoo amigos fricked her?

Oh no. A woman had s*x. Call the cops.

:marseysoylentgrin: It's just normal s*x chud

(-26)It's very good they told him, he deserves to know who she is.

…who is she?

She didn't cheat. She didn't even know him yet.

There's also a very serious question of consent here. She was drunk and high and, in her own words, “feels taken advantage of.”

She didn't cheat and actually she probably got r*ped anyway :smugtranstwitter:


If you can't respect her, don't be with her. Also funny how people think it is so awful that someone had s*x with multiple people at once but separately that would be a small "body count." Oh yeah, obviously having s*x with 3 people is so much bigger deal than having s*x with 3 people.

:marseyshapiro: these things are logically the same


Hey man. You chose to date someone 3 years older than you.

I'm sure that you got into this relationship understanding that she have more life experiences than you. This is part of the package.

MMMF foursomes are just part and parcel of being a 21 year old woman these days.


Plenty of people do things they later regret, especially when alcohol and drugs are involved.

I honestly don't get how you're “less of a man” because your gf wanted to take things slower with you because she wanted a relationship to develop as opposed to just shagging a virgin asap. I can only assume it's your age and lack of experience making you come to this conclusion.

It's not remotely a red flag.

Only an inexperienced 18 year old could possibly care about this. Also some seethe under this comment, not gonna post all of it.


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Well if she doesn't want to be seen as a wh**** she shouldn't be acting like one in the first place.

She is not serious relationship material, her friends are probably also this kind of girls if not even worse so imagine they go on some girls night out/trip.

If you have some self respect don't be with gang bang girl, she might be good for fun but investing your commitment and time into her is just a waste and you will regret it in the future.

Give the girl who told you truth about your GF flowers or some good wine as thank you gift. You have no idea how lucky you are you learned this.

You sound like a misogynist.

:marse#yxd:

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The friend wants this moid. :marseybackstab:

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You ever stab someone in the back like this bb?

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Nah, but I did once subtly undermine my prettier friend's relationship over like 6 months in college. I feel kind of bad about it, but it wasn't really a conscious thing at the time. I was just always super "on" around her and her bf. I didn't explicitly flirt with him, but I made it really obvious I was smarter and funnier and more fricked up than she was.

Eventually he broke up with her and asked me out, but I didn't really want him, I only wanted to win.

(she still won by being skinnier and prettier tho)

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Eventually he broke up with her and asked me out, but I didn't really want him, I only wanted to win.

:#marseynails:

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>skinnier and prettier

You should invite her here.

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more fricked up than she was.

are men attracted too danger? whats the play here

@Bookers stand with israel

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Yeah, mentally ill women are the only ones who aren't NPCs. It sucks.

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!women don't let this mansogyny stand!

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I dont know im cool with it

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date a transwoman like god intended

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:#marseybottom: yes

No I don't know why

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Allow me to explain

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Yes :#marseyagreefast: love me a hoe that makes me sleep with one eye open /e/marseytoastygun.webp

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Only the dumb ones lol

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@Bookers stand with israel

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All thin people have eating disorders so hot people are automatically crazy. I hate fats.

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I didn't explicitly flirt with him

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Him asking if he could play the sonic advanced 3 next wasn't him asking you out sweaty.

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(she still won by being skinnier and prettier tho)

:marseyagreefast:

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>foid losing interest once a previously-taken man is single

:#marseymanysuchcases:

Paleofoid and trans lives matter.

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wait.. Jimbo, u r grill????

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:#quote:

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:#marseyking:

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Fake and straight

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Pussad strikes again

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skinnier

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It's hilariously easy to pry idiots away from each other if you really want to.

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Mexico isn't who she is because she was drunk and high and said she felt taken advantage of

if this story were real it would be a serious :marseywomanmoment2:

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Women taking responsibility challenge:

Failed

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:#marseycuckfiction:

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Ooh they added some bait about their ages. I wonder if anyone will acusse her of preying on teens...

Hey man. You chose to date someone 3 years older than you.

I'm sure that you got into this relationship understanding that she have more life experiences than you. This is part of the package.

:#marseysmughips:

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yeah Hun I blew a horse one time but when YOU turn 24 and blow a horse you'll get it

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Women are wonderful, chud.

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Oooohhhh, when I dated that 10 year older cougar that wanted me to become her baby daddy it was my fault and I should have taken responsibility instead of fricking off running :marseysurprised:

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>so they shouldve kept their mouth shut and let her bf not know that 3 mexicoo amigos fricked her?

I thought they were strangers, not amigos? God, this girl needs to get her fake story straight.

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The men who fricked her:

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Straggots, if your girlfriend got plowed by Chevy Chase, Steve Martin, and Martin Short, would you leave her? Or would you just be proud to be Eskimo bros with some of the best comedic actors of the 1980s? :marseyeskimo:

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Make it a 5-way with Rick Moranis and you got a deal.

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He's wearing the glasses the whole time, too

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Yes they shouldn't have, duh

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Remember that scene we did in "Amigos Amigos Amigos"? Let's do it again, except this time the whole town rails one chick.

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Plenty of people do things they later regret, especially when alcohol and drugs are involved.

Somehow redditors can't comprehend that choices can have a permanent impact, like if she got high r*ped some kids she'd be a male feminist, the fact she regrets it doesn't matter.

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I can't believe no one has made an effortpost about this shit, the amount of numale Redditors and foids going to bat for this psycho b-word because "um sweaty it is SCIENTIFICALLY PROVEN :soyjakanimeglasses: that taking one hit of a bong can make you turn into Freddy Kreuger and stab your BF 180 times and THAT'S why she is not a threat to society!"

!r-slurs !effortposters up your game

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always makes me think of this though lol

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Then bongs are a threat to society. :marseythinkorino:

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They think the can will it into existence then socially shame you into playing along.

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The new shitty woman tactic is to pretend they were r*ped because "r*pe doesn't count as s*x!"

So if a woman has vanilla s*x with seven dudes and ten gangbangs with 5 dudes each, she won't list her bodycount as 57. She'll list it as seven and add "but I was r*ped several times, it's just too emotionally painful to discuss."

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For all the young bucks here, if a chick has a passport don't get in a relationship with her.

Sow your oats, but she belongs to the streets if she has a passport.

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The only women I know that travel and don't get plowed are those going on mission trips. It's just a bit too convenient for young women because nobody will know (unless she went with a friend that decides to snitch). If a woman solo travels just assume she gets peepeeed down (because again, who's going to know).

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If they're going on mission trips and are not getting plowed by africans they can probably sniff out a dramatard and won't fw you.

If they didn't get plowed out by africans and can't sniff out a dramatard that's probably a different type of red flag that should be avoided.

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Nah you misunderstand - they often go on mission trips to find a boyfriend/husband who's also on a mission trip. I know quite a few people who got married this way.

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I thank God every day for not being born into Mormonism.

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>I thank God every day for not being born into Mormonism Orthodox Scientology.

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Not sure if women do it but every other Mormon missionary dude Ive met has a wife from where he goes on mission. That American passport really carries some weight.

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I went on a mission trip as a kid. One poor schmuck's 16 yo daughter gave the locals a strip tease.

Oniy tangentially related but I always wanted to tell that story.

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Getting a job where i travel a lot truly changed my perspective on relationships. Married men and women will FaceTime their kids after dinner and then go frick some other business traveler they meet in the lobby.

I knew it happened but the extent that it happens was mind blowing. And it's crazy because they'll even show you pictures of the kids

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Yup I also travel for work (and solo travel every now and then). I would never get into a serious relationship with a woman who travels for work, it's obscene how bad it is. It might also be the type of woman that works a job where they are always traveling, but I've never seen one that isn't cheating.

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Tbf, I haven't met a moid who that travels for work that isn't cheating with some woman, man, animal, or mineral, either

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As much as social media admonishes cheating, i firmly believe that anybody who can cheat, eventually will.

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Actual suifuel

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Studies show lifetime infidelity as high as 72% for moids and 52% for foids

Also:

While one mate at a time is the norm, throughout history, 84 percent of known human societies have permitted men more than one ongoing sexual relationship.

Several patriarchs even in the Bible had multiple wives.

Three-quarters of American adults call extramarital s*x “always wrong,” yet a majority of Americans who have been unfaithful call their own justified.

lol, people are fricking hypocrites, no surprise. If you read studies about this and other things, it's pretty clear.

People are always big on hammering crime even when they also commit crimes (somehow theirs seem fine to them, mote in your neighbors eye, beam in your eye)

Even in the Middle East, where they kill you for it--there's an appreciable rate of parental discrepancy discovered during genetic testing

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Listen, yes I did 115mph to cut that guy off and brake check him, but he went over the line slightly and needed to be taught to drive better. It was justified.

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Early in my career I was tasked with taking people out when our teams would come in town for training.

People just treat work trips as an excuse to get hammered on a weekday.

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Youre god darn right we do :marseyxd:

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There's a reason every woman does "study abroad" trips now in college. It's over. Accept that she has been peepeeed down by spanish foreign chad and get over it.

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!leafs

:marseyworried: What does this say about our women?

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They get sticky.

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If a woman can read and walks with her head uncovered, she's for the streets

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90% of women would leave a guy if he'd fricked a single dude, why do we tolerate this hypocrisy?

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I know you're joking but it's kinda crazy how incredibly homophobic the average woman is. Like you said >90% of them would feel visceral disgust if they knew their bf fricked a dude once in his past and would break up on the spot. But it's kinda just tolerated. What gives?

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A) they face no pushback so are allowed to keep their caveman brains

B) men despoil and we're all grossed out by it, nobody cares if a man or woman fricks a hundred chicks but either is gross for getting fricked by five dudes (asymmetrical biology means peepees frick and holes get fricked, no you can't change it)

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They definitely get viscerally ick'ed at the thought of their boyfriend in a submissive position getting plowed by another man, but they're more “lol its like watevs” at the thought of their boyfriend doing the plowing in a dominant position.

Ultimately, foids are turned off by male weakness/submissiveness. The thought of having coughed that kitty up too a non-dominant man icks them too the bone.

Trans lives matter, unlike paleofoids'.

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BUT THEY'RE MORE “LOL ITS LIKE WATEVS” AT THE THOUGHT OF THEIR BOYFRIEND DOING THE PLOWING IN A DOMINANT POSITION.

very, very untrue

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Are you saying you think women should be punished by homos for their wrongthink?

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No, I'm saying it's odd that in CurrentYear+9 this is just accepted while straight dudes preferring not to suck the girl peepee is very much frowned upon

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Wouldn't it be a peepee move for someone to let her know about that though?

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ong we so opressed

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This gives me hope for the TFD

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>It seems like you see it as something that is done to your gf, instead of something she enthusiastically participated in.

His issue is very clearly her enthusiastic participation.

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Seriously. If I found out she was r*ped by three dudes while struggling to break free i'd feel sympathetic and wouldn't even think about leaving her for it. If she willingly let 3 guys pass her around and was begging for more? yeah we're mega done

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she willingly let 3 guys pass her around and was begging for more?

Cuck fiction

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If I found out she was r*ped by three dudes while struggling to break free i'd feel sympathetic and wouldn't even think about leaving her for it.

Yeah, (I) wouldn't think about it either. (My) legs would just instinctively walk myself out the door.

Trans lives matter about 59% of the time.

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If I found out she was r*ped by three dudes while struggling to break free i'd feel sympathetic

unacceptable, she should have killed the all or willed herself to die in lieu of being r*ped

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>and wouldn't even think about leaving her for it

:#marseybikecuck:

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Bruh

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Nobody's pointing out the part where he says he and his gf waited to have s*x. That's the biggest deal breaker for me - she has absolutely no issues getting shitfaced and fricking three random dudes at once, but has qualms about banging her loyal boyfriend.

If this story were real I'd side with the moid and advise him to dump her butt

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Facts

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These people operate without the understanding that men have to conquer kitty while women have to guard against peepee. They can't get past this social law that has been around since we were bonking chicks over the head with clubs.

No shit a guy is gonna have a foursome with three women if he gets the opportunity, but that is so unlikely that it's not even worth discussing. A woman could go into any bar and find three guys willing to run a train on her within minutes.

That's the social dynamic and if you're a whore that's gonna give it up so easily, you're gonna be judged for it.


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That's why any guy who agrees to an open relationship without any strict rules to equalize the playing field is an absolute cuck. It always devolves into the woman having all the s*x while the man gets zero s*x

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That's why any guy who agrees to an open relationship without any strict rules :marseyplacenofun: to equalize the playing field is an absolute cuck. It always devolves into the woman :marseytedsimp2: having all the sx while the man gets zero sx

FTFY

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Alright, let me ask you a hypothetical question. Imagine you had the chance to date some hot Hollywood celebrity who was a known slut, like Taylor Swift. (Pretend for the sake of this example that Taylor is clean and has no STDs.) Her condition for dating you would be that she wants an open relationship so that she can frick male groupies on her tour. Would you do it? Obviously not. No dude in their right mind would ever want a relationship like that, because you'd constantly be embarrassed by your wife being a hoe.

But now pretend that you get to bang one of Taylor's hot groupies for every dude she hooks up with. She's set it up for you: no work on your part to find willing partners. And if she has an MMMF threesome, you also get to have an FFFM threesome. Now would you be OK with her offer?

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Do I get access to the adrenochrome supply as part of the Hollywood elite in this scenario?

100% of moids either want less degeneracy or more opportunity to participate in it

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Now would :marseymid: you be OK with her offer?

No

Anything besides monogamy is immoral and will result in an unhappy :marseywoozy: relationship. But me and fiancé are old fashioned and waiting :marseysad: for marriage :marseybride: before :marseyskellington: any relations so I'm not giving you the average dude in his 20's response I guess.

Even taking that away you wouldn't have a secure relationship imo because one party :marseypirate2: will always be able to be more successful on the dating :marseyitsrigged: market :marseystocksdown: which will lead to resentment or arrogance

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>They can't get past this social law that has been around since we were bonking chicks over the head with clubs.

Wait we're not doing that anymore? Darn it, you guys need to post a memo or something. First i used hella way past its expiration, now this

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