My husband told me why he cheated on me - Woman posts massive

Imagine how'd she feel if he turned out to be an expired pistachio shelf stocker after being told he was a high roller in tree nut futures :(

It's gonna work out for the moid, he's trading up because he's now in his prime, destroying his shared finances is going to pay off bigly

Seems like he realizes it. It doesn't appear he told OP he was divorcing her and leaving for the trad cath FWB.

I'm so hurt. He tried to reconcile, he said I just need to change. He says I'm not fun to be around anymore. He said I'm too fat now. He says if we stay together I need to make a lot of changes with my weight and stop nagging him. I told him I'm going to divorce him and he said it's not good for a toddler to break up a two parent household

Moids:

I DON'T WANT ADULT RESPONSIBILITIES!!! I JUST WANT FUN TIME!!!!!!!!

Life can't be a party 24/7 when you have kids, a family, and everything else going on

>foids gettin about young foids bangin men wi the 6-digit salaries

Get that bag, queens!

>Meanwhile...

Sorry, toots.

Regional operations managers pull so much god darn kitty it's frickign ridiculous

I regret being such a shitbag that my wife had to basically say “fix your shit idiot”. But I appreciate that she did. My life is a lot better now. I am much wealthier and much more fit.

A man absolutely cannot tolerate any sycophant close to him if he is to be a powerful man or a leader. Your wife and your best friends absolutely must be able to tell you that you've boarded the train to tardville and failure is your next stop. And you have to be the sort of man who can hear that.

Pretty much, yes. Spouses have an obligation to each other to keep each other in line. Don't get fat, don't get lazy, dont get shitty. They need to keep each other on their toes, put the work in and reap the good stuff together.

Name one way he can tell you you're getting fat without it being held against him.

Honesty won't work, that's him being an butthole.

Beating around the bush won't work, that's him being mean to you for no reason.

Even if he subtly does things like intentionally avoid choosing a dinner hoping you'll just skip the meal, it's his fault.

It doesn't matter how nice or supportive he is about it, he's just a shallow jerk for even thinking you aren't perfect

>Sorry, you should have fricked around in your 20s. Your wife WILL get older. So will you.

The prophet already solved this issue in an important Hadith

>I unironically think women who have a higher body count than their fiance should arrange MFF threesomes for their fiances until the body count is equal.

>This is because the man takes a big status hit by marrying a hoe, so the hoe should be willing to take an equal status hit by letting herself get cucked until the body count is equal. If a woman isn't willing to suffer a status hit based on her own choices, then why should the husband be willing to?

>It also works from an incentives perspective because men will be more willing to marry hoes if they know it means more sexy threesomes for themselves, and there's less of a status hit for marrying a hoe if other guys know that the hoe is setting up wild sexual experiences for her man on the regular. And it also makes women less likely to do slutty hoe shit if they know that they'll later have to pay for every single bad choice they make by getting cucked by their fiance.

>(BTW I'm not calling this woman a hoe for having a body count of 7, I'm just saying that she's a hoe by Indian standards.)

https://rdrama.net/h/bharat/post/249503/marseydespair/6024144#context

Age appropriate heterosexual monogamy. Try it.

disgusting on every level

This is not defensible and it is not trad.

I'm not going to condone it, but I get it.

Almost every single one of these stories starts with the wife not putting any effort into the relationship and taking the husband for granted. Eventually he gives up and bails or burns out and becomes a husk of a human being until both of them are perpetually miserable.

I'll take a mellow fat (european fat, not burger fat) over a nagging b-word. Cannot stand the constant negativity and hysteria over nothing.

Hard to know. She's had a kid, is she really fat or just put on a few pounds? The guy is comparing a girl in her early 20s to a woman in her 30s or so, of course she's going to be fresher and younger. The main reason College Girl is dating Mister Older Married With Kid Guy is money, and since they're not living together it's easier for her to be fun and deferential when he's taking her on dates, spending money on her, and having s*x before going home to wifey and kid.

If he shacks up with College Girl and they have to live together paying bills etc. the carefree fun will stop.

I'm not saying Wifey is in the right, but if he's looking for "you, but 15 years ago you" then why can't she go looking for "you, but 15 years ago you when you had your hair and no beer gut" toy boy too? Would he like that?

Divorce is terrible, but if he's already had two affairs, and is seeing this second girl regularly, the marriage probably can't be fixed. Now he''s getting hit with "you can't have your carefree girlfriend on the side plus the home life with wife and kid where all the responsibilities are taken care of", and he doesn't like it.

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People really underestimate how destructive and selfish being fat is. It's as bad or worse than being an alcoholic or a heavy smoker and I don't think anyone would be like "no, you have to stay with the alcoholic". Otherwise he sounds like a negligent father