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https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1d1y44i/my_boyfriend_made_a_scene_and_really_embarrassed/

However I'm black and I'm not sure how I would be treated in a smaller town. I wouldn't want to become a target for racist abuse. I've had quite a few racist encounters in small Alberta towns while passing through on road trips. Is BC similar? What are some towns to avoid?

Uh oh.

This past weekend me (25F) and my boyfriend (36M) of one year

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The security guard scans my boyfriend with a metal detector and my boyfriend told him he carries a knife on him for work and the dude was like “nah you guys can't enter with that” then this other lady security guard came out kind of aggressively saying things like “you gotta go” “where did you park” “we got cameras we'll be watching you” as if my boyfriend was about to stab someone right then and there. My boyfriend decided to tell the lady off as we turn around to leave.

As we keep walking the lady goes closer to the fence to watch us and keep telling us to leave and my bf was like “frick off don't fricking talk to me” gives her the finger and making a scene. I was like “babe chill out we're going so let's not get into more shit” then he goes off on ME like “stop being a kitty what are they gonna do”

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He carries a knife and is quick to anger around a lot of people including security guards. That's a huge no for me.

This sounds like a heckin racism.

As a 33 year old construction worker and a guy that has carried a knife daily for the last 19 years, this dude has problems and I wouldn't trust him. I've lost a few knives to security checkpoints before because I just don't think about the fact that I'm carrying a knife. I've also talked to security guards and told them "hey I forgot about this, is it cool if I go put it in the car and you search me when I come back?" Generally, this works. Specifically, it's worked at six flags, busch gardens, the Kennedy center, and at a Marine checkpoint.

It's just a knife. Your guy is telling you what he's really like, and you need to listen to that before something bad happens. Carrying isn't for everyone. Sounds like this dude shouldn't have weapons.

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drumpf nword/pass #FreeSchizo 4mo ago #6467697

So he forgot he had a pocket knife and instead of them just telling him to go leave it in his car they went rent-a-cop on him and he didn't take their shit and it's his fault?

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w1n5t0n NE/GER drumpf 4mo ago #6467719

Well you can be the bigger man and go put the knife in the car or you can have a BIPOC moment and curse out security and yell at your foid, then get kicked out for good.

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drumpf nword/pass #FreeSchizo w1n5t0n 4mo ago #6467725

other lady security guard came out kind of aggressively saying things like “you gotta go” “where did you park” “we got cameras we'll be watching you” as if my boyfriend was about to stab someone right then and there.

Uh huh.

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drumpf 4mo ago #6469069 Edited 4mo ago

According to OP. Her bf probably doesn't give off great vibes if the immediate response was that firm.

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drumpf nword/pass #FreeSchizo AverageBen10Enjoyer 4mo ago #6469442

Except she is clearly not taking her boyfriend's side and even in her version he sounds justified being pissed at how he was treated over a simple mistake.

drumpf 4mo ago #6469449

I respect you as both an rdrama user and a dear friend but I think you're wrong here. Her boyfriend carries a knife to an event and flies into a rage when called out for it. He sounds like a tool and it's not surprising that people treat him accordingly.