https://old.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/comments/1d4jd69/do_you_have_any_wasting_your_youth_regrets/
Only one person who says “put some effort” isn't completely obliterated.
Lots of other women say they're happy (their profiles indicate otherwise)
Just another reminder why you should NEVER take advice from terminally online losers (us included)
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lmao I don't think her husband even did anything wrong (aside from marrying her). Usually they'll complain about something but there's nothing here.
It's literally "I want to get a bunch of attention from people but my husband can only give me so much should I divorce him to go slut it up for a few years".
Absolutely ZERO consideration of what happens afterwards ofc.
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Yeah the time to do that was in her early 20s so she can realize how unfulfilling it is and "settle down" in her 30s. But i think that's a lesson learned best by experience so i think she's already fricked not living it up earlier. Now even if she tries to fix things with her husband, she'll always be wondering.
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It's pretty fulfilling. Don't mistake women whining that they want more or would pick the bear as statements of things that at true.
Bang guys way hotter than you to fulfill your sexual desires. If pregnant, abort.
Get pregnant by a gainfully employed guy to forcibly steal his money to fulfill your investment desires.
Biological desires scratched, investment desires scratched, baby present, satisfaction nearing maximum
When kid grows up, marry desperate loser with a house so you have somewhere to live when child support runs out.
Die happy, doesn't matter, banged stud, got cared for, raised baby.
For a guy to be this fulfilled he'd have to wake up, bang his three concubines, go hunting on his reserve, knock a guy out for talking shit, and go to bed.
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yeah that sounds so fun
is getting peepeeed by Chads for a few years really that great? truly it must be some golden peepee
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i don't think they consciously think like that; they ovulate, get "r*ped," and then continue normally until they ovulate again. eventually the hormones have less of an effect obv
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imo if people have even a sliver of emotional intelligence they can glean many of those lessons from others. Pretty easy to talk to your friends about their experiences and derive some knowledge from them, you don't need to necessarily do everything yourself.
But she clearly doesn't have that.
She mostly just seems entirely ignorant of the future - she'll be in her late 30s or early 40s when she eventually wants to re-enter the dating market to "settle down", and I doubt she'll find someone better than her current husband at that time. (I'm assuming he's not so bad because if he was, she would have mentioned it.) But, like many people, she's incapable of forward thinking and planning for the future so all she's thinking about is "maybe I can have hot s*x with a bunch of different dudes".
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