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Are women really shaming men for opening up to them? : TwoXChromosomes
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Whether it's a man or woman it's pretty ick to call what your partner is doing "trauma dumping". They're someone you care about you should want to be there for them
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"Trauma dumping" joins "emotional labour" in the "terms that used to mean something but are now just an excuse to be an butthole" bucket
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Nah they've been bullshit from the first time they were written.
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They're real. Trauma dumping from when I've seen it though has been a foid forcing others to deal with her trauma. Can involve weaponizing it, or just taking a fun situation and deciding to make it all about their problems. Either way, it's perhaps unsurprising how they've turned it around into something they're 'victims' of, rather than the prime perpetrators.
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