Future r/breakingmom poster slowly realizes her babydaddy is dumb and probably not gonna commit to her

I was looking at a /h/peakpoors post from YALLAH which highlighted a post from future single mom /u/Boring-Part654. Reading her post history gives you a step-by-step glimpse into how the single mother sausage gets made. She's an early 20-something who got knocked up by her loser BF who she keeps referring to as her "husband" despite him continually postponing marrying her even after they had a kid together.

As the young mom in her early 20s, you never feel like you will have enough time with your babies. There are days when I wish we had waited until we were more financially stable, mature, etc. my biggest regret is not waiting until we owned a house and had that security, but I've always said that the timing for a baby will never be perfect! There's always pros and cons, but what's important is focusing on those pros and making the most of what you have.

Woah, she sounds so optimistic. I wonder if she'll keep that attitude...

My boyfriend is like this. I don't think it's necessarily hoarding as he usually has no problem letting me get rid of things (unless it belonged to his grandfather which I understand). He just can't be bothered to remember what he has and where it is. It's easier to just buy what he needs when he needs it.

Neighbor wastes money repurchashing shit he already owns because he's an r-slur who loses track of everything.

Yes, they don't trust him with baby. We work opposite schedules and so we don't have baby in daycare. If baby gets sick while he's at home with her for some reason they expect me to call out of work to handle it instead of him who is already at home?

His own parents literally think he's too to look after his own daughter...

A similar thing actually happened to us! My husband for some reason gave the keys to baby for a second? She locked the car. Luckily we have one of those code keypads that let us get back in but it could have been so much worse!

And, apparently, they're right.

A bit of both. I wouldn't rush into marriage over a name, but we had talked about marriage at lengths before I even got pregnant and it just hasn't happened. He has a ring (it's sitting in our safe) he asked my dad for permission before I even gave birth. We do have our rough days but overall he's a good dad and partner I'm just started to wonder if he's as committed to this as I thought he was

Bruh has a ring but STILL won't put it on her finger

No we did not say we weren't married. But we had no reason to believe this needed to be disclosed to staff and we never led them to believe we were married. It was 8 months ago now so I don't remember every detail but I filled out my information as the mother on the packet, he filled out his information. I remember a question about assuming paternity and he answered yes. We weren't asked if we were married and the paperwork didn't specify anything.

The hospital wanted to know so they could make sure who's names need to be put on your daughter's birth certificate r-slur. They don't care about your babydaddy issues. You didn't disclose it because you're ashamed your boyfriend still hasn't married you and turned you into his babymama instead.

I guess it's just hurtful when I spend a few hours on dinner and then he complains. I worked hard to provide a good meal but the side isn't the one he wanted or something. So then he leaves and go gets his own meal and his plate goes to waste. And I cater to his palate a lot. I've started making homemade pizzas to freeze to have a cheaper alternative, we make burgers a lot, and we rotate through the same meals constantly but maybe 2-3 times a month I just want a good healthy meal and to feel appreciated for it.

He has the palate of a college kid who orders takeout and eats microwaveable food for 90% of his meals. She literally can't make proper dinners for their family because he won't eat it. You also have to wonder how much money gets wasted because bro would rather eat out all the time instead of cook something.

And we finally get to the post that made me peak through her post history in the first place:

It was per month. Premium was upwards of 10k. He had two wrecks less than a year apart, the second being about six months ago. That quote was outrageously high and I'm still not sure why. Others ranged from 400-600

He's apparently too to drive as well. Darn, I wonder why his own parents think he's an r-slur who can't be trusted alone with his own baby. And this is also even more money wasted on his short bus-butt. Just what financially precarious young parents of an infant need.

Hope she enjoys life as a single mom when it finally becomes obvious bro is never going to marry her and the relationship collapses.