The wokes haves spammed the r/Grimdank subreddit with Female Custodes "Memes" for the past 3 days, so that even the comparatively moderate liberal mods plan to ban the subject by next week.

These dorks are running on autism logic, so:

sexualized woman = s*x object = passive = powerless

powerful woman =/= sexualized

femdom = woman in power

femdom =/= sexualized woman

Also a lot of simps start to associate femininity with being sexualized, because they are still straight men at their core. The solution is then to make women more masculine. The mommy thing is some weird Freudian thing about wanting to be a good little boy and please mommy.

There's probably a whole thesis you can make about simp logic and the ways men try to sublimate their sexuality to please bitter Twitter hags. If you want an example, check out TBSkyen. What an insufferable peepeeless cute twink.