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Havent been able two shwower in owor a year because of dysphworia : ftm

https://old.reddit.com/r/ftm/comments/1btztja/havent_been_able_to_shower_in_over_a_year_because/

								

								

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My skin is wery dwy and itchy nyow and I reawwy want two shwower but I cannyot stand seeing or especiawwy feeling myself. Im barewy able two change cwothes, wen I dwo I have two dwo it with my eyes cwosed and twy two put them on withwout twouching my bwody. I've settled fwor just wiping my reawwy sweaty parts with baby wipes but its obviouswy nyot working that weww and nyow its summer and last summer it didnt matter because I didn't leave the hwouse but nyow I have a jwob and I dwon't want the peopwal awound mwe two smeww mwe 😭

He has a fairwy cwonvincing pwost histwory, too. Check it befwore cawwing bait.

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and since u want the fuww fwucking stwory i stwopped being able two shwower the day thwose parents ywour talking abwout held mwe dwown and stwipped mwe nyaked and twowld mwe i was twoo mentawwy unweww two be able two decide my own gender

:#marseyyikes:

I reawwy hwope this is fake nyow.

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ftms not showering or bathing is very common because it's a symptom of ptsd after getting molested and every ftm is either a fujo fetishist or a molestation victim

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I think this is what people forget before they point and laugh at the freak. It's not every trans man, but some legit just need compassion and kindess because they're mentally fricked up through no fault of their own.

And we need to open wood chipper institutions for the c*nts that are causing this.

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I'm legit sympathetic to ftms because it does frick you up so bad

mtfs are just coomers though

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all i can offer is a good peepeeing to set their mind straight :marseythumbsup:

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The following topics are banned to avoid drama:

Truscum/Tucute discourse, AGP/AAP/Blanchardism, Transfem/woman or nonbinary bashing, Trans "requirements", Oppression Olympics, Lesbian trans men, Gendered Socialization+, "Is it transphobic to _____", DIY HRT, Current Political events (Non-trans/LGBT+ related) ,"do I pass?", "how does my voice sound?"

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This is helpful thank you. Of course the hole in these rules is that all current political events are trans/LGBT+ related.

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So we ban all political schizoposting that infests Reddit like a cancer :#daydream:

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Concentrated r-sluration.

:marseyoperasmug:

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Ponder the aroma :marseysniff:

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:#marseydead:

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Aaah, rotting flesh. :marseypoonerrotdogbroke:

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I want a selfie sooooooooo bad!

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https://i.rdrama.net/images/1712325546464941.webp

screenshotted before :marseyskellington: you edited.

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I call nazi larp :#marseyyikes:

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Honestly, I think this person is exaggerating about not showering in over a year.

I have severe treatment resistant depression and sometimes I end up going a day or two when I'm not going out because I don't have the energy and doing a task like that has such a high barrier, that I just don't feel like doing but I force myself anyway and I feel like shit when I just end up going a day or two.

Going a year is no excuse. Just take a fricking shower.

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oh hey our skizo:marseytrain2: is back

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The OP is 16 so there may be a lot of embellishment.

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hey bro we talked about ur depression like a year ago u still got it???

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It's chronic. It's the kind that has an onset in early childhood. I was suicidal and told my teachers I wanted to kill myself at the age of 7.

There are meds that do help, but it's caused by genetics likely due to issues with norepinephrine.

On a good day, I'm moderately depressed, when seasons change it gets severe. I just kind of have to learn skills to deal with constistent depression and the cognitive effects.

It's primarily treated with stimulants.

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i'm sorry to hear that.

have u tried Christ and working out?

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I have tried both.

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I'm truly sorry.

Christ loves you, and people you have never met wishes the best for you

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If I am going out and interacting with people then yeah but if I'm just sitting around at home I can easily go a week without a shower with no problem. Showering is kind of overrated IMO. I have a friend who used to get laid all the time with attractive women and he would shower like once a week when he wasn't actively going out, I think he would usually only shower if he was about to go meet somebody or it had been like a week since the last time. He didn't stink, either. Some people don't smell as much when they don't shower as others.

With your depression issue, though, I can see that it might be beneficial for you to just make sure that you stick to a routine.

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I've been trying to stick to a routine, but if I don't have the energy and really feel that the barrier to activation is too high, I don't have the energy.

I waited too long to shower today, just put on makeup because I couldn't and now it's kind of too late because I have to leave for vocational training in half an hour.

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real ones know the power of sink, bucket, sponge

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imagine the yeasty smell brewing

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like french cheese :marseychefkiss:

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:mar#seydisgust:

I feel nasty if I don't shower daily.

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If it was a dude (or MtF) all frontholes here would be going "ha haaa, men are disgusting, #moidmoment".

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Before I joined rdrama I think I had heard of dust bathing once, but never witnessed it, and certainly never thought about it.

But it's every. darn. day. with you people...

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Just cut the shit and take a fricking shower

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I find this extremely hard to believe, especially since the OP suggested they had already gotten a job and that theyve been going to it. Testosterone sweat + mangina is the most funky genital/endocrine combo in the best of times

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Swag. That's hot. Showers are for stinky men.

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