Is it OK to misgender Bardfinn?
I really struggle to use she/her pronouns when discussing Bardfinn. It makes me recoil out of cringe as if I'm about to pick up a cold dog poo with my bare hands.
Even now, I can't do it because I just don't believe Bardfinn is a woman.
It's a combination of the absolute fantasy life he portrays online compared to the real life facts we know about him as well as everything about him screams male-gendered arrogant twat.
But Uncle, harming one trans woman hurts all trans women
I get that and that's why I want to have this discussion. But Bardfinn is a bully, a liar, a violent misogynist, a negligent father, a deadbeat son and a serial divorcee.
He's either lied about or heavily misimplied his career, his qualifications, his credentials, his income, his patents, his ethnicity, his nationality. He lies about the nature of the trolling he's subjected to.
Why would the one thing he's honest about be his gender? He's got a desperate need to escape his miserable grey reclusive life which is the root cause of most of his fantasist narratives, and I believe his trans identity is just another form of escapism for him.
So I genuinely don't believe misgendering him hurts even one trans woman. At best, he's a part-time crossdresser.
Yikes that's getting mighty close to trans medicalism!
Yeah I guess it is. I do think people ought to put a bit of effort into some kind of tangible steps to transition. Earn your pronouns, Bardfinn. The ball's in your court.
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I believe Bardfinn is a transwoman and I believe that transgenderism, like any other neuroatypicality, predisposes you to all sorts of social ills. Being a manipulative and pathetic example of a transwoman doesn't make her any less of one imo.
Pathetic people are still human, but refusing to dole out sympathy for them is at worst a you problem. everyone has problems, and that's okay. Even selective transphobia.
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Is she on hrt?
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He's never stated one way or the other which makes me think he's not?
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Yeah that neighbor a man too.
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Don't you dare fricking do it
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Wow! There have been 16684 rent free mentions since 2022-09-24
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The balls are also in bardfinns panties.
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I knew you would accuse me of projecting because thats all you can do. But my post history and your post history are both easily accessible, pathetic worm. Everyone who cares to look can see youre a porn obsessed, extremely online, spiteful little incel. You think you are unique for pooping on
s or me on this website? Far from it. But few have the stink of failure that emanates from your posts. Even though @me is online all day too, at least she(?) will put together coherent posts to try to prove a point, show moments of human warmth to others, and so on. You stand alone in not only being extremely online and hateful to cope, but also in being thoughtless, insecure of yourself, and devoid of any higher political ideals. The lowest of the low. You will congratulate yourself because i wrote a sincere long post (something you are incapable of), but at the end of the day you have to live with your pitiful self and i will remind you every time i see you that you will never have s*x or purpose in this life unless you change your ways. See you soon!
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