As a trans woman, where do I fit in here?

I don't really come here at all, but I've always heard from fellow redditors that this place is perfectly accepting, it's even on the right side of the page that transphobia isn't tolerated.

But what's with the name, then? It seems to play on the "real woman" argument that I can never be a "true" woman because of my chromosomes, which really is transphobic in itself. I only hear endless praise about this being a great place for women on reddit. But I, a woman, get here and see the name "Two X Chromosomes" and think "Well, that isn't me".

I'm not trying to stir shit or be hateful, just wondering what place I even have here.

@Patsy