BE KIND I'M FEELING VERY DISABLED TODAY
https://old.reddit.com/r/femcelgrippysockjail/comments/1hlizgp/girlypops_how_successful_have_all_of_us_been_at/
You showered less than once a month this year?
Yeah? Executive dysfunction is a b-word and a half. Shower itself is great, warm water, soft, good smells from shampoo and conditioner 😌
It's having the spoons to actually get into the shower in the first place that's the trouble. Hence girlrotting
the way i've always put it is for neurotypical people a shower is a one step task, but it can be a 10+ step task for neurodivergent people (gotta get out of bed, then find clothes, then actually get into the shower, put shampoo in hair, wash shampoo out of hair, etc etc)
You're so real for describing it like this 💜
Us neurospicy girls struggle even when we try our best
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"Spoons"
I hate that term so much, it hurts.
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Those subs are ofc fricking swamps full of made-up illnesses and disability olympics. But what they're describing sounds like depression and I bet in some cases it's actually legit. Which is lol because in those cases it'd be the closest thing to a problem these people have (that wasn't made up for attention)
u r right though, the "spoons" thing is fricking cringe
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They're all depressed, depression and anxiety between two studies had a 50% - 80% comorbidity rate with gender dysphoria, and as we all know, transitioning doesn't actually help with such things, only papers over them.
It's one of the usual things about becoming a
. Suddenly you're not depressed and anxious and feeling like a failure in life, it's now all society's fault for how you feel and therefore society's responsibility for fixing your problems. They never even entertain the idea that the 
ing is a symptom, not a cause.
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Spoons is a good example of the way spergs will hear one explanation for a concept and decide it is the only way to talk about it.
TBF they probably don't have enough spoons to use their own words
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