My trans work colleague is pissing me the frick off

FYI: I'm 19 and boymodding and nobody knows that im trans besides my 2 work besties.

She's pushing 30 and is very inappropriate (mind you, we work in hospitality) and is very fricking annoying.

⁠She's very over sexual, she keeps grinding on me and slapping my butt in front of everyone. She keeps yelling PEEPEE and keeps moaning all over the place and keeps calling me her husband….

⁠She's a pick me butt b-word. She keeps touching my belly and tells me how squishy it is in comparison to hers, she keeps telling everyone how weak she is and refuses to cary anything thats a bit heavy, and keeps telling my cis work bestie how big her arms are and how they're sooo much bigger than hers. And when ever I'm bringing out the trash she jumps up on the cart and tells me to push her since she's "so light" and keeps flexing with all the plastic surgeries she's had ( which, pop off queen) but then you're not the one to call anyone ugly when you're out here flexing with your 5th nose.

⁠She lets me do all the heavy stuff because I'm "a man" and when I told her why should I do it maybe I'm a woman too (to test the waters) she replied with " look at your body, you could never be a woman" which really hurt me.

⁠I Know what I'm about to say is gonna sound really fricked up because we as trans women are not a monolith, but cis ppl don't know that and assume we're all the same, and I hate how she's representing us. I keep defending her whenever people talk shit about her or misgender her, but she's the epitome of what cis ppl think a trans woman is, and it annoys the frick out of me, because I just want to yell "WERE NOT ALL LIKE THIS I PROMISE" because I feel like misrepresentation is the last thing we need in this current moment.

I need help how can I deal with her and not pull a Blair white.

Thank you x