Shows her normie friends her gender-bent deadpool x spiderman r*pe porn, is when they think she is a weirdo for this. Asks if other game devs have the wherewithal to not do this.

No, XY or Z, you should not show normal people, or really anyone, your porn. You probably should not even mention to them that you produce porn in any capacity.

How is this not something that people intrinsically know.

No, not because of "fear," which is what one of the top replies is saying. You should keep it quiet because letting everyone know that you're a porn-producing weirdo is mongoloid behavior.

Some cool excerpts:

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"I don't tell people I meet irl what kinds of games I make unless they're yaoi fans." - I actually would especially not tell these people what I do.

"Depending where you live, it's not only for woman. Hide the best you can" - Many variations of this. Informing OP that even if they were male this would be behavior.

"Whenever someone says the like NSFW work, people are gonna take them for porn addicts." -

"I have no horse in this race - but if there is concern, why even risk it? What is the benefit to making your info public over using a pseudonym or company name?" -

"Well I for one am ashamed you can't pursue your art form." - She can absolutely pursue her art form but the shame is actually supposed to be what causes her to hide it.