bit of autism whispering

You say I should be less judgemental, but then why are you the kind of butthole who believes in forcing your values onto me, and tries to shame me for having different beliefs? It really seems to me like you don't practice what you preach, so why should I practice what you preach? Especially when you try to force your beliefs upon me with social shaming? That's not the kind of thing a nice tolerant person would do. So why should I tolerate your values when you won't tolerate mine?

Of course, your hypocrisy is common to many people who push the forgiveness pill. When somebody wrongs you, these filth are like "Oh, forgiveness is the best way to make yourself feel better about it." But when they are the ones who were wronged, do they forgive? Of course not, because their value system is not for them, only for other people. It's not designed for justice, it's designed for short-term social stability.

Furthermore, it's stupid to forgive somebody unless they feel genuine remorse. If you forgive somebody and they're not even sorry that they wronged you, then you're just being a chump. And how do we objectively define genuine remorse? Remorse is when somebody feels bad enough about their actions that they willingly accept the punishment for them. Like if somebody accidentally cut off my hand, they need to feel bad enough to cut off their own hand so that they know what it feels like to put themselves in my shoes. Until they do, I am allowed to hurt them in any way imaginable until they willingly accept the punishment for their sins. For example, if I retaliated by torturing you until you willingly chopped off your hand to earn my forgiveness, that's not a problem with me - that's entirely on you. I'm still going to heaven because all my vengeful actions were taken to force you to correct your wrongdoing. If you were a genuinely good person, I wouldn't have to hurt you to force you to abide by the "tit for tat" principle: instead, you would hurt yourself willingly to show that you empathize with me and are willing to share my suffering, in order to earn forgiveness. I wouldn't need to hurt you to force you to empathize with me because you would choose to do so of your own free will. But very few people in life actually demonstrate this kind of commitment to their principles. Most people in life are NPCs, soulless husks whose only true goal is to optimize their success and wealth. Principles are just a mask that they wear for the sake of virtue signalling.

In life, you'll meet all sorts of pathetic scum who think they can wrong you and are entitled to forgiveness, but very few people who are willing to earn it through atonement. Instead, most people just take the path of least resistance and say or do anything that they think will get them out of trouble. People want to be let off the hook after a quick apology, and that's not the way it's supposed to work. The process of atonement should be painful, and in your atonement you should experience at least as much suffering as your wrongdoing caused to others. That's why it's very important to make people who resist punishment suffer even more than they would have if they had just accepted their rightful punishment in the first place. It's not just about revenge: their pain is an important part of shaping them into better human beings who will be more careful in the future and willingly take accountability for their own mistakes instead of having to be forced into it. So it's not really that I don't believe in forgiveness, just that I meet very few people who deserve forgiveness, and are willing to prove it through their actions.

I'm sorry that you're the kind of moronic filth that lacks a well-constructed moral compass and instead babbles stupid platitudes about forgiveness, without even understanding rationally when forgiveness is appropriate or what purpose it serves from a game-theory perspective. It must be terrible to have a poorly-defined morality that makes no logical sense and is pretty much just "something somebody told you once" without even questioning or analyzing the logic of your beliefs more thoroughly. Why are you like this? Could you at least try to do better? It's absolutely disgusting how you assume that your morality is correct before even hearing the opposite perspective - especially since your morality isn't correct and is both evil and misguided.