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Honestly these women are a lot more mean than most of the people here. Holy heck.
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They aren't mean just ruthless honest. I mean going "emotional slowly" after a relationship 3y ago. Sounds like he needs to man up and control his emotions.
Nobody likes a b-word
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But isn't muh "emotionally available man" a thing nowadays? Or they're just hypocritical as usual and it only goes one way?
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That is just a man that can lie about fake emotions to satisfy his non-man.
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Solution: just get a man 4Head
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βNon-manβ lmao first time Iβve heard this one, gonna have to use it. So simple yet elegant.
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What they mean by "emotionally available" is a man who will believe that they are more special than other women. You see, men who pump and dump are just unable to process their feeling of unworthiness at being granted kitty by a queen. It's literally impossible that "having a vagina that accepts peepee" is their most interesting trait.
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Yes. What actually happened is the woman was jealous the man had more victimhood than her therefor more attention. Women don't want to give attention they want it for themselves.
This woman would probably drown her baby if she could get her meat flaps around a man.
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It is all just countersignalling, see: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Countersignaling#:~:text=Countersignaling%20or%20countersignalling%20is%20the,level%20of%20the%20same%20property.
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Wtf do you think
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You answered your own question.
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When a woman says they want you to be more open, what they mean is they want you to spill all your hidden damage and trauma so they can use it as ammunition against you in the next argument you have and laugh about with their friends. All that honour and Queensbury rules shit is a man thing, women are always looking for advantage by any means necessary. Having a girlfriend is like keeping a pet snake, it might be nice to look at and fun to play with, but if you trust it then it will eat you alive the first chance it gets.
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Well here we are above that and I personally want to cultivate a community of friendship (with benefits). π€©
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This is not a Wendy's
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Sounds like that's exactly what he's doing?
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Going emotionally slow means he wants to pork the piggy but doesnβt want her to sleep over
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Darn straight. I'm glad I'm not the only one that thinks that.
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oh shut up lol. Not that I believe half the shit that comes out of that sub but that's an incredibly bitchy response.
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Lol thatβs not mean you guys are soft af
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One of the holes said that if youβre a widower you should just get over your deceased wife before βwastingβ another holeβs time by mentioning her. God darn thatβs brutal
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I mean you probably should not date if youβre still grieving about your dead wife? Is that not good advice?
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She said if you mention you have a dead wife then you shouldnβt be wasting time by dating. Thatβs not the same as being emotionally wrecked from it still.
Also being a widower is kind of a huge deal rather than just a breakup.
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And letβs not forget these foids use a bad relationship in the past to justify all manner of tedious foidery.
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Foids are hypocrites. If you want kitty, you either learn to recognize their hypocrisy as just being part of the game, or you hire a hooker.
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Still soft af to get upset about these foids and call them mean
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RESPECT WOMEN CHUD
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Ok napoleon
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Are you saying you shouldnβt look for every reason to be disgusted by tfb?
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Dunno. Probably a bad sign for the new foid if you're talking about this on the second date
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I dunno, having your wife die is p much on the notable life event status as typical foid life achievements like having daddy pay for your trip abroad and having anal.
Reminder these holes think all divorced men are sus bc obviously itβs due to a marital r*pe so not disclosing being a widower must be a similar mortal sin like not disclosing you cat called a girl once in high school
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I think itβs just a femdom role playing forum. I donβt think any of this stuff is real, and I think a large portion of those posters are probably
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Reddit is transitioning into a π support forum. Of course they're all men in frocks contemplating castration and suicide.
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FDS actually has a longstanding anti-train policy
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Just because your mom beat you and cucked you everyday of your life doesnt make it the standard for normal behavior messiah.
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Nobody said it was normal just that people need thicker skin
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I know the vertically challenged experience much worse on a daily basis. We can talk about it. It's okay.
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Yep. Mean would have been pretending to care and leading him on. The moron fricked up and showed vulnerability to a chick he wanted to frick. Hopefully, her bluntness taught him a lesson that most women are turned off by that.
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Why are they so mean?
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A lot of the time deluded foids like this have fully swallowed internet feminist propaganda about how women are exploited for their "emotional labor" and feel the need to attack anyone they can pattern match to that trope.
Realistically, that woman saved this guy a lot of trouble, she's likely very gross and annoying.
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Can you post bussy? I need to verify this is the real pizza. Your comments arenβt even long enough to trigger
@longpostbot.
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I have 10x more cynical over the last 2 years and don't care much for longposting. I've realized you can get the same point across with far fewer words when dealing with actual r-slurs.
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Idk bro, you were still longposting last year π€ I miss seeing the absurd, long butt replies you would get. But I guess the odds of that happening here is pretty slim. Whats your Reddit name now so I can have some essays to read when I shit.
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https://old.reddit.com/user/Exotic_Ad7433/
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Thanks sweaty.
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wrong
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found the incel
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Are you new here?
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old enough to know you're not the real pizzashill, professor.
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Strong agree with ya on this one pizza.
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They literally must just be ugly, this is not a sitcom, ain't no lessons, this woman just walking around, hideous, feels the vibe no man she meets wants to frick her, needs to lash out arbitrarily (she has the same mental hardware as a 10/10, and all the cognitive dissonance possible.) Very dark. Many such cases. Sad!
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I agree because if they were good looking they wouldnβt be so defensive from minute 1 because men would treat them better from the get-go. Theyβd be used to good behavior and confused by poor behavior, not enraged. Just my opinion.
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Lol if you think thatβs mean then you are a soft little b-word
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That and she never said that to anyone. Nor has she been on a date. Ever. Lmao
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Recently a foid told me that I should really get my supposed trauma in check by going to therapy and accepting whatever dingus diagnosis I'll get thrown at and then think deep and hard about what it is that makes me oppressed. Apparently some experience I didn't think of as important was the catalyst for all of my bad habits and the sole source of negative aspects in my life.
I told her I'd much rather just get a good job and build up my life. Maybe if you want to lose out really badly on that awesome job you really wanted then you can think about wasting more than two hours each day on things that don't get you further. I don't believe foids ever think about the condemnation that is associated with accepting your victim status as a man which equals being a failure. All they apparently think about here is their rosy beauty and beast melodrama where everybody is hot plasma at birth who just needs to "let out their inner beauty".
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front holes gonna front hole
"sweetie, why don't you get therapy and be more open about your feelings?"
meanwhile she cannot understand why, when the man she told to be more open about his feelings did what she told him to, her kitty turned into the Atacama desert
trans lives matter (more than female lives, which is to say, not much)
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a lot of guys are neurodivergents and walk around with their shit all bottled up so when a crack forms its like a dam bursts. no wonder women run away from that
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You just described the woman in the FDS post too though lol
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Therapy can be much more evil than people realise. I know a family that has been split up because someone was told to blame their parents for their own failings by some c*nt talking out his arse therapist.
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That's not really a therapist/psychologist thing. If a psychologist is trying to give someone a "diagnosis" after a couple sessions then they're an idiot.
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We all know if he had said he went to therapy for a traumatic past relationship, this post would have ended the same way still. Since then the issue would be that he CANβT deal with his issues himself and had to seek professional help, making him unfit to be her suitor. Lets be real, 2/10 fatty goes on date with any man she can get to swipe right, is afraid of rejection so she looks for any reason to reject him before the opposite occurs. π
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this would be the womanest of all Woman Moments(tm)
trans lives matter (only transmen though)
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On one hand, he absolutely fricked up telling a woman that he has any problems in life whatsoever on the second date. What an r-slur.
On the other hand, jesus christ these FDS women are unhinged. There is more vitriol towards men for such small, innocuous things they make the actual incel forums like like Chuck E. Cheese.
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You speak the truth. Early on, a women is highly likely to flake out on you for the smallest reason. Even when it seems like a match made in heaven. You sure as heck don't want to give them ammo!
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Foid kinda has a point ngl
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yep. imagine moping about a relationship from 3 years ago.
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For real. Even worse are the commenters here saying βshe is so mean π’β grow a pair of balls
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Sure, but βtherapyβ has precisely nothing to do with that
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Maybe he accidentally dated another c*nt like this heartless b-word from female dating strategy though. Pretty valid if so.
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Maybe, but she has no tact
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-Have disastrous love life
-Cope by telling yourself "Men don't reject me, I reject men!" and "I don't need to improve, men need to do better for me!"
-Double down on your lies by rejecting every man who isn't perfect the moment you meet him
-Make sure you reject him in a needlessly callous fashion because you read a copepost about how being an ill-tempered loon with delusions of adequacy is the same thing as being 'empowered'
-Remain single, take solace in copeposting on a subreddit littered with likeminded genetic dead ends
-Go to bed
-Glance over at the empty side of the mattress
-Quietly sob yourself to sleep
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what do they think therapy does? do they think it is a magical thing that fixes all men? a certificate of dating aptitude?
every man should be sent to therapy before they are legally allowed to date women
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Holy shit I love posts from subs like these because the profile snooping is so good.
Every suspicion confirmed.
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Darn, you are right! That chick is WACKO.
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Lmao imagine being so humorless that not only do you not understand certain types of humor, but you actively seek and destroy humor elsewhere that you don't understand.
Snapshots:
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Lol, still being traumatized after 3 years because of whatever happened with a foid he was in a relationship with. I have no idea how can one can become so pathetic. At this point he shouldn't go to therapy but rather take the rope.
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Idk after reading the posts in that thread I can see a man being traumatized by those harpies.
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FDS is normally nuts, but I'm with the FDS OP here. Dude sounds like a fricking whiner. Don't talk about that shit with some chick you are hoping to bang. That will dry a gussy up quick. That's what your buddies are for (talking about problems, not gussy). And 3 years??? Goddarn, get over it.
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This has to be bait, even FDS foids ain't that delusional. Fess up who here posted that?
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Trump signed a shitty deal.
Biden should have listened to the intelligence agencies who said the Taliban were ripping through the country. The nerds on Twitter knew it was happening. No way the DOD and other Intel agencies didn't.
We should have kept us forces at Bagrum and used it as staging for evacuation.
Total withdrawal failure by all parties involved.
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The military had nowhere near the military assets available to defend bagram without the ANA, which clearly collapsed in a week.
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They military is perfectly capable of securing Bagrum.
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That's really weird, because the guys running the operation outright said they did not have the military assets available to secure both Bagram and the Kabul embassy.
Securing Bagram would have required the ANA, which was in the process of collapsing. We could have surged troops, but that was seemingly off the table in line with the agreement signed with the Taliban.
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Take a peak at my original comment laying out the total failure.
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