Sexless redditors seethe at lady's lucky boyfriend getting BJs

Even I'm envious tbh chick sounds like a trooper

I can hear the disappointment in his words and he’s been asking and asking for so long and I just didn’t know how to tell him I didn’t like it without offending him. Then I just unloaded on him tonight all of my insecurities. I know everyone is entitled to their preferences and I just want to feel like he will be satisfied and I don’t.

We’ve tried both and he finds it more sexy when I swallow. I told him the texture and saltiness makes it not okay for me. I’m fine with him climaxing on my face or my chest. Heck I’ll even suck his balls while he climaxes if that feels good but it feels like because I say no to finishing in my mouth he won’t even do the foreplay leading up to it.

You’re a gem. He has nothing to complain about.

Tell him to stop whining and enjoy what he gets. He’s lucky to get oral at all. I’ve been married for 13 years and have gotten a blowjob about 10 times. Haven’t had one in probably the last four years.

Yep. we have been married for 10 years. Never had oral. She refuses to try. When we got married she told me to wait a few years as she would warm up to it. Them eventually told me she will always tell me to " wait a few more years", because it's never going to happen. Won't let me try it on her either. She thinks the concept of either is disgusting.

Not to gatekeep him, but he has no idea how lucky he is.

Not being childish at all, he’s incredibly lucky that you are open to negotiating to the whole thing, you could just say no in general - instead he’s having a tantrum because you said no to finishing in your mouth.

That sounds like a fair deal to me. Telling you when he's about to c*m so you can redirect it doesn't sound like too big a request. He should feel lucky you give him any oral at all, not everyone is that lucky.

I love it but my wife will never put it in her mouth. 😥