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OP continues dunking on the scrotes:

I'm a trend setter. And thanks to men's comments (showing they believe we are their property), women have been radicalised not to give their baby the father's surname. Thanks misogynists for helping me smash patriarchy! 👋

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It's funny how mad men get when they start to be treated in the same way women have been for centuries.

One day Proudman will put all the disgusting scrotes in concentration camps. Im counting down the days

The point is to make the father feel responsible for the child

That you think this is necessary says volumes about you and men in general.

Generally speaking, if a cultural practice has been around forever, it's best to exhibit some humility about it rather than assuming you know better than everyone who came before you.

The point is everyone knows the child is the mother's when she carried it in her body. That's why they take the father's surname. This whole "I carried the baby so it should have my name" is petty and childish

The obvious reason to give a baby the fathers surname is that everyone knows who the mother is. To give the baby the fathers name makes known for everyone who the father is.

Yes, and that appropriates ownership of reproduction and property to the man. You could have a system like Iceland where everyone is called “<fathers name="">dottir/son” but substitute the mothers name instead. But that would define a matriarchal society which the men don't want.</fathers>

If you're a good Dad/parent your connection should be obvious enough without the need to have your kids named after you.

I gave my children my last name happily, its also my husbands last name which i took willingly when we married

Why would you take it willingly? It's an antiquated tradition

Because her husband is presumably worth his salt and wouldn't have married her if she's going to be petty enough to go against tradition. Marriage IS tradition, that's the whole point of it.

Not willingly madam, you were coerced into taking his name by the Patriarchy.

The Patriarchy is you telling this woman she doesn't know her own mind.

That's wrong. I am a feminist. As such, I'm telling this woman she doesn't know her own mind. What her mind should be telling her is that her husband oppressed her into taking his name. He must have done. Otherwise she wouldn't have taken it.

You can tell a male feminist by his hairline

They won't be happy till everybody hates everybody.

Did exactly this.

Your husband is a loser