Average sized nips, small sized in spirit A message to pregnant women — please give the baby your surname.
— Dr Charlotte Proudman (@DrProudman) August 9, 2023
You carried a baby for 9 months, gave birth, and will be responsible for that child for the rest of your life. When you’re registering the baby ask yourself: why is the father’s surname more important than yours?
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OP continues dunking on the scrotes:
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One day Proudman will put all the disgusting scrotes in concentration camps. Im counting down the days
The point is to make the father feel responsible for the child
That you think this is necessary says volumes about you and men in general.
Generally speaking, if a cultural practice has been around forever, it's best to exhibit some humility about it rather than assuming you know better than everyone who came before you.
The point is everyone knows the child is the mother's when she carried it in her body. That's why they take the father's surname. This whole "I carried the baby so it should have my name" is petty and childish
Yes, and that appropriates ownership of reproduction and property to the man. You could have a system like Iceland where everyone is called “<fathers name="">dottir/son” but substitute the mothers name instead. But that would define a matriarchal society which the men don't want.</fathers>
If you're a good Dad/parent your connection should be obvious enough without the need to have your kids named after you.
Why would you take it willingly? It's an antiquated tradition
Because her husband is presumably worth his salt and wouldn't have married her if she's going to be petty enough to go against tradition. Marriage IS tradition, that's the whole point of it.
Not willingly madam, you were coerced into taking his name by the Patriarchy.
The Patriarchy is you telling this woman she doesn't know her own mind.
That's wrong. I am a feminist. As such, I'm telling this woman she doesn't know her own mind. What her mind should be telling her is that her husband oppressed her into taking his name. He must have done. Otherwise she wouldn't have taken it.
You can tell a male feminist by his hairline
They won't be happy till everybody hates everybody.
Your husband is a loser
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you mean their grandfather's name
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extreme levels of nooticing
!nooticers
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There should be a badge for extremist noticing
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No matter how far back they go, it's a father's name. Do foids even have a real surname? It's just whoever owns her and marriage the passing of ownership from one man to another.
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My favourite part is how African Americans choose wacky non-traditional first names, like Laquisha and Deshondre, but keep the traditional European surnames of the YTs who used to own their ancestors.
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just rock paper scissors that hoe everytime
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We just had a post about this broad crying about someone warning her not to walk on the lawn and she got a community note lol
https://twitter.com/DrProudman/status/1690798541914943488
Why does this
dumb b-wordgirlboss have midriff showing in a fricking professional portrait?lmbo the OnlyFansification of professional women. How embarrassing
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She's actually crazy. I truly believe she hates scrotes. Even with the Johnny Depp and Amber heard drama she was seething that Amber got dragged by everyone and believed she did nothing wrong.
She also handles domestic abuse cases, so its over for whatever man gets assigned her as a judge lmao
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I've always said that anyone who defends Amber Heard is one of three things:
a simp who would love a crumb
a brainless, naive r-slur
someone with a personality disorder who sees nothing wrong with Amber's behavior and uses it to justify their own terrible behavior
RIP poor, hapless scrotes
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Ovarrit, Spinster, and associated groomercords and chats RAGED against their members who didn't agree that Amber was a poor helpless victim of the scrotacracy hate machine, and because their userbase is full absolute wimps, the most of the dissenters were like
most shifted to
"both are AWFUL people? Ok? But I hereby recognize the original sin of scrotery present in the male man ohnny depp and I do not mean to diminish that. please don't ban me Anyway, we should never talk about this again!"
a very few of them were like "frick you, women can be evil abusers too, stop infantilizing women if you really believe in equality" ~and then i got banned and spent a LOT more time here XD~
They want to be girlbosses but they also want to be hapless & pure victims in every bad situation, like poorly written women in a 19th century novel 🙄
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Does ovarit just ban you if you don't toe the line? They do at least pay lip service to the idea of free speech
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they're pretty banhappy, seen them ban a dozenish ppl
i didn't check to see if i was permabanned though i just got mad and left
I was already pissed at them though so I probably took a slightly aggressive tone (didn't cuss anyone out tho lol)
fricking radfem community has women discuss semi-openly that they think their gf commits "male violence" at them for watching mysognistic tv which feels like "a betrayal" and then come up with excuses for the batshit insane meltdown and accusations it triggered
That, and to honor insane lesbian domestic violence statistics, is why i made this emoji
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My favorite user is proudcatlady who always gives the most insanely man hating advice no matter the context. She also got married at some point recently(oh no sis
) as I'm writing this as she has an active thread asking if all men are p-dophiles lol.
Btw do you have any invite codes left
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"She also handles domestic abuse cases, so its over for whatever man gets assigned her as a judge lmao"
Her Twitter handle is barrister
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Both Amber Heard and Johnny Depp were wrong
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Agreed. This is only correct take. Anyone who says otherwise is an r-slurred wingcuck
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the funny thing is Amber was the moid and depp was the foid in that situation and the courts noticed and acted accordingly and punished the moid for both of them being r-slurred
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Amber actually didn't do anything wrong though
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stop im starting to like her
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She is quite based
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How old is she
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I believe 33
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Allowing women into academia was almost as r-slurred as letting them vote. Once a foid gets a PhD, she won't stop over-sharing her r-slurred opinions (believing her title to be proof of their indisputable fact) until the day she dies. Female historians and sociologists are probably the worst offenders.
Yes, b-word, the "mansplaining" neurodivergent shut-in on twitter genuinely does know more about the trade policy of Stuart England than you do and just wants to share his interest.
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Women (and pizzashill) believing credentials mean more than actual accomplishments. They chase after prestige rather than create it.
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As a Doctor*, my opinion matters more than those without doctoral degrees, especially those who disagree with me.
Ugh, it just does, okay?! Not my job to explain to y'all 💅
Not my fault y'all can't fit a whole smart educated woman with an opinion in your head.
*EdD, Doctor of Education.
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Dr. Jill Biden would make a wonderful surgeon general.
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She's genuinely r-slurred. She has some sort of meltdown every day on twitter
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Part and parcel of being a foid. Please be inclusive and empathetic of those with disabilities and/or mental illnesses.
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It's so awesome that she is genuinely the face of the modern legal profession
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Community notes is the best thing to happen for dramautists watching from the sidelines
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She replied like 40 times to that tweet sucking her own peepee and repeating the same shit
true BPD materiel
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Just be like
and have sixteen names
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I've wondered this. Basically every second generation !latinx seems to have two last names... do third generation ones have four? What about fourth generation?
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Only 2. In Brazil and Portugal is at it follows:
“Name, middle name, Mom's paternal surname, dad's paternal surname”
Take João Pedro Sousa Sampaio
João first name
Pedro middle name
Sousa (mother's paternal surname)
Sampaio (father's paternal surname)
He will go by João Sampaio for most daily affairs, always the last surname. Married women typically add their husbands surname at the end and go by those surnames. For instance Luana Eloísa Rizzeli Almeida marries João, she will become Luana Eloísa Rizzeli Almeida Sampaio, or simply Luana Sampaio. They have a son together, his name is José Carlos Almeida Sampaio and he will go by José Sampaio.
In Spain and spanish speaking countries is name, dad's paternal surname, mom's paternal surname
Jorge Luis González Rodríguez
Jorge first name
Luis middle name
González paternal surname
Rodríguez maternal surname
He will go by Jorge González
Now presume Jorge González Rodríguez marries and has a child with María Duarte Aguirre
Their child will be Francisco González Duarte.
In both cases it is always the paternal surnames of both your parents the surnames that are passed on to you, the maternal surnames die off with you.
!macacos, os gringos sempre acham confuso o nosso sistema de nomes, vocês acham meio complicado também?
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Sim, mas isso é por quê eu sou r-slurado.
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Oh cool, thanks for explaining. Good system!
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You're welcome
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and Take?
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Não, gringos são r-slurados
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This is the correct answer
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He's trolling, you can tell by how he's retweeting Paul Joseph-Watson.
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There's no worse feeling than falling for bait
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Sorry friend, but there's only one fix for falling for bait.
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rdrama suicide cult when?
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I have both, my maternal and paternal surnames, pretty much the rule in most of LaTam, though is not mandatory to have both surnames in Brazil, my mom only had her paternal surname when she was single, which is now followed by my father's surname (married name) !latinx !macacos
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just pick whoever has the least lame name. we could eradicate Glassc*cks in a generation
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Wtf is s glasscuck
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ugliest last name
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the virgin [name] [dad's surname] anglo x the CHAD [name] [2nd name] [mom's surname] [dad's surname] latinx
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I kept my mother's maiden name as a middle name.
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strag
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I was confused about everything until I read this. It was my understanding that most burgers choose to pick on surname at marriage and then both keep that surname. So then I was thinking why these tweets are bitching about insisting the "mother's" surname when I thought it would just match the father's surname.
Then it dawned on me that these bitches 1) aren't married, and never will be 2) are insane 3) made me waste my time because I had a reasonable assumption about how society operated and they talk as if what they're doing is the norm (it isn't)
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Remember that they're Surnames, not Hernames
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All the women on twitter should be forced to work in coal mines, driving trucks and moving girders
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Good post, but that crack about the receding hairline was uncalled for.
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He was apparently just trolling too. Whoops
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I'm confused, when does this happen?
If you're not married, the mother gives her baby her last name.
If you're married, the mother gives her baby her last name (which is most of the time the same last name as the father).
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It's common in America (and I think Britain) when a man and a woman get married the women takes the husband last name and that last name ends up being the name of the child. The OP is the original tweet is saying that this is a patriarchical tradation and should be stopped. That is, woman should stop taking the last name of husbands and the baby should have the same last name as the mother.
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I am aware of the taking the name tradition lmao.
But that's not what she's saying. She's telling mothers to give their baby their last name. Which is already happening.
If they meant to say "stop taking your man's name".... then maybe they should say that?
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It probably happens sometimes but I feel like it's still uncommon in the US. But i might be missing something but isn't this what she was talking about?
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Oh. My name isnt on the birth certificate? Tragic.
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It shouldn't be a question because both parents should have the same last name.
Dramautists born out of wedlock out out out 👉👉👉
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man this dude is white af
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She's pretty much unironically right tho
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It literally doesn't matter why are you seething over this
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Yea sorry I'm not idubbz
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i wish i was treated the way women have been for centuries. free housing and time to just frick around and follow whatever interest i want as long as i keep the house clean and kids fed
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Why even bother having surnames tho. Do you really need to make sure everyone knows who's related to you?
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I'm a trend setter. And thanks to men's comments (showing they believe we are their property), women have been radicalised not to give their baby the father's surname. Thanks misogynists for helping me smash patriarchy! 👋:
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It's funny how mad men get when they start to be treated in the same way women have been for centuries.:
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The point is to make the father feel responsible for the child:
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The obvious reason to give a baby the fathers surname is that everyone knows who the mother is. To give the baby the fathers name makes known for everyone who the father is.:
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I gave my children my last name happily, its also my husbands last name which i took willingly when we married:
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Why would you take it willingly? It's an antiquated tradition:
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Not willingly madam, you were coerced into taking his name by the Patriarchy.:
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Did exactly this.:
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