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If you can't love me at my me, you aren't worth my time.
Exactly. Can't love me as an asexual? Then stop loving me.
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less cuddles and garlic bread for him
Garlic bread unironically tastes like shit.
Weirdly, I waited like two years to tell him. Seeing the lightbulb light up in his brain and hearing him say, “That explains so much!” made me laugh a little too hard. With that being said, you are dodging a bullet with that one. They do not deserve you!
Sure. Hes out a relationship whete he wouldn't get physical affection ever, but you're the real bullet dodger
To everyone who was in this situation: You are valid, there's nothing wrong with you, you deserve to be happy and I love yall.
If theres one thing i always knew even when i was literally just getting into online shit its that aces are unironically mentally ill. Reproduction is the main goal of all lifeforms, and feeling no desire to it is a catastrophic failure of biology at best
This probably won't make you feel better but when my ex came out to me as ace she broke up with me right away. She was moving away and when I talked about going with her she told me she was just going to make the move by herself. And that was that.
I like to think that deep down, she knew that I wouldn't be happy going forward, and that even though I promised up and down I didn't need s*x to be happy with her, she just didn't believe it. If I was the man I thought I was I wouldn't have been so hurt, because she allowed us both a future where we meet someone who checks all the boxes, not most of them.
Ok, trollers remorse for a sec, this is really fricking sad.
Unless he was a peepee about it he was just being honest with you, not allot of people can be in a romantic relationship without skinship and that's ok. If he was a peepee about it tho he wasn't worth it anyway
he was a peepee about lmao. If he had been honest and respectful, the situation would've been a lot less soul crushing.
Edit: Oh boy is taking the moderate stance and opinion that at least a friendship can be salvaged here is gonna frick up my karma but here we go
Yikes, Im not usually an active participant in this community or the LGBTQ in general, but I know a few aces, and I've heard a few breakup stories.
It might sound peepeeish or victim blaming here, but really knowing the way you explained it to him would help gauge how inappropriate his reaction was, basically wether he was acting like terrible person or just acting like a person that received terrible news. Unless he did something unforgiveable it might help waiting for everything to calm down and talking to him once you've both had time to think about it, coming out is bad enough without losing someone that major in your life over it, but make it clear where you stand with him if you go though with it, and if he acts like he has an in or that he can / should try to "fix" you bounce immediatly.
It's entirely possible you made the mistake I did telling my gf I actually like dudes too, and were too frank, brief, or blunt about it and made them blame themselves or feel lied too, like the person they loved was never real. In my case though I just didn't communicate I still liked women very well and was too relaxed about the whole thing.
Again I'm going to repeat, if it turns out he wasn't just lashing out at the world and you happened to be nearby thing to project it onto, and is actually a c*nt drop his butt like a bag of bricks.
Edit 2: I would give this exact advice in reverse, I'm not siding with him, I'm just sharing my perspective and hoping that something of the relationship you once had can be salvaged and add to the pile of "people that understand and don't think this shit is fake". I'm twitching on these edits before anyone even reads this because I know it can come off as me defending the abuser but I promise you that is not my intention.
Thats a lot of words to say you don't frick
Well, he didn't deserve you if he couldn't handle your sexuality
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Can someone help me, a person entirely ignorant of this personality trait / community / sexuality / lack of sexuality (I don’t even know what to call it without potentially accidentally offending) — all the comments in here about how “he doesn’t deserve you / your sexuality”? If the overwhelmingly prevailing desires of people looking for love inextricably include a healthy sexual life as part of that relationship, and an ace person enters into that relationship — and/or lets it persist without telling the sexual person, why is the sexual person who leaves that situation when the other person comes out as ace “bad” and “undeserving”? Do you see anything wrong an ace person not being honest with their partner going into a relationship and/or hiding that for a long time?
Don't get me wrong, I think everyone deserves to be in a relationship where they're happy and getting what they want out of it. At the same time, he broke up with me because he's a self proclaimed "horny bastard" with a porn addiction. So I think that's why the people commenting might seem a little harsh
he's a self proclaimed "horny bastard" with a porn addiction
I'm ace and a horny bastard who, at times, has has a porn addiction. He broke up with you because he's a horny bastard who actually wants to have mutually compatible s*x with someone he's sexually attracted to in his relationship, and as you said, that's valid. I wish him luck~
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He doesn’t deserve someone as incredible as you if he’s gonna ditch you like that.
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Honey, he ain't worth shit. If the only reason you stay in a relationship is the potential sexual prospects, it's not a relationship it's just slowly bribing your way into someone's pants
Now we move onto the downvoted comments( all interacted with btw)
What the frick does ace mean? Just another made up term to feel special ?
Men only think of one thing, that is s*x. Don't fall for the illusion. While this may seem bad now you'll awaken and realize that it was just holding you down
Who wants to be with someone and never have s*x? Make sure you fricking tell someone that you don’t want s*x before screwing around with their feelings? Holy shit
This is getting out of control, now your sexuality can be a rainbow six siege operator, smh
A great lulz harvest all around
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People thinking that SSRIs killing off their s*x drive is a sexual orientation
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Take antidepressants, it kills your s*x drive. Be depressed, it kills your s*x drive. They're in a lose-lose situation
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When I'm depressed I get hornier. It's called healthy coping mechanisms
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It’s your cave man brain kicking in to make sure you bust in a crack whore before you off yourself
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"I'm not loving you anymore but you still have to love me"
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Why is s*x important at all don't you want to hang around with my half-assed attempt at a relationship to look good to friends and family until I find someone that actually sparks an interest and then I can cheat and leave your butt? Who wouldn't jump at those odds?
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I started hanging out with a foid who was older than me she was 29, than I found a 25 than a 23 than a 20 and now I am hanging out with a 18 year old.
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I keep watching you
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Sexy times only after marriage allah y-a‘fik
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What's the difference between friendship and a relationship of you're not going to have s*x? I don't get it
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Mad into disney shit, has been taught all their life that relationships are "what you're supposed to do", eager to get with someone even though it doesn't even come close to anything resembling potential for love.
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Why would you want to hang out with a foid you aren't related to if you aren't banging
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How else are you supposed to find a bride for your brother habibi?
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We buy them with goats naturally
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I feel the same way about moids, brozzer
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Love your rebranding ☪️🤲🕉
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This but unironically
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They are r-slurred butt average redditors. You're looking for logic amongst a group of people who make every decision via whatever hivemind they fell into on Reddit.
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I hate threads like this because it illustrates how over socialized these people are. Every comment is “he doesn’t deserve someone as wonderful as you!” when you know this was posted by some fat frick narcissist. I just really hate the dishonesty and fake compliments man it’s making the world so gay
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She is responding to all-fugee non dramanaut trolls so this may be a milkable cow
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This thread really just keeps on giving, not just op but also some of the commenters are raging lmao
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Good harvest for sure
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Shot my shot
https://old.reddit.com/r/aaaaaaacccccccce/comments/qggl7t/_/hi8oi96/?utm_source=share&=&sort=controversial;utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3
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the contradiction in that sub is demanding unconditional universal acceptance
but not being willing to opening the relationship up for the other to frick around I think
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Great job
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what did he mean by this
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Wrong
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She also posts on eating disorder subreddits, so she is probably fat
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Why lose weight if you dont wanna have s*x?
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Well thats r-slurred, this is why they should ban poors from flying
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Maybe she just needs to eat a big fat peepee.
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Fat can kill libido.
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Or thin. Only one way to find out.
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UPDATE https://old.reddit.com/r/aaaaaaacccccccce/comments/qggl7t/_/hia3oq6/?context=3&sort=controversial
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the lad dodged a bullet for sure
how is someone ace and horny??
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Poisoned by internet
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I've seen some furries whose fetishes become so esoteric and detached from reality that they can no longer get it up for normal human adults anymore, and they act like this makes them "asexual" while jerking off ten times a day to their fursona with 3 peepees being eaten by a giant inflatable pooltoy.
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Islam has the solution
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Horse paste
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Their peepees must be one giant blister. Seriously these okes moet just leave their tollies alone and the hyoomans will start to look sexy again.
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This is half of ace people. The other half are hormonal and/or on antidepressants.
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AUTISM - many such cases!
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Purest degeneracy
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Yes I'm a vegan. Yes I eat meat. Yes, we exist.
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I'm a social vegan
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Asexual is just another one of those made-up genderspecial identities that wokies can use to gain social standing in their peer groups.
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incel
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Ask @Madje
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Words mean nothing.
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Words are treason
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Or someone who's so hopelessly pornsick they can't get it up for any real human
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That’s unironically a good question.
Asexuality is a spectrum and words words words. I’m down to unironically explain instead of giving you homework but only in DMs.
Vocabulary words to look up when you get home:
Gray Ace
Demisexual
S*x-Positive Asexuality (as opposed to S*x-Repulsed)
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Careful there, Contra points almost got le cancelled for suggesting omgsohorny asexuals are an oxymoron
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i'm not a drug addled though
yet
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There are three types of aces:
Hormonal issues aka flaccid peepee moid. Melanin injections cure them
Dull schizophrenics and adjacent (schizoid pd). Better leave them be
Has coomed themselves into insanity. The case here
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You forgot female Chadsexuals, like in the OP
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Women on heavy medication have dead c*nts, never been on that shit, does it make it hard for men to coom?
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Yeah, antidepressants give you ED and make it way harder to coom but i quit taking that shit since its just a meme drug.
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Having ED can't be helpful for depression.
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Most of the meds make it so you don't care (about that, or anything else)
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It's nothing some blue pills can't fix.
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There's also just people who use it as an excuse to stave off the pressure to have s*x in a relationship. I'm skeptical of anyone in a LTR who was having s*x and then "discovers" that they're asexual.
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