We're a married couple with two young kids. We have been open about a year. We are both doing pretty good and both have one outside partner. The firs time she came home with a hand print I didn't say anything because I wanted to be cool and supportive about everything. The next time she came home one half of one butt cheek was dark purple and yellow. This time it bothered me, it seemed extreme and it's visible to our kids when she walk around in panties. I voiced my concern and she agreed not to do it anymore. However she is now wanting to revisit it in the future. I feel like me and my kids shouldn't have to see the effects of her sex. Sure she can try to hide it, but eventually it will be seen by them and we will have to either be honest or lie. If we are being honest, I really don't think it's appropriate to tell a little girl why its ok for mommy to be hit by men. If we lie, now Im in a position of lying to my kids because of what another guy likes doing to my wife, that doesn't seem fair to me. Im not kink shaming btw, I don't care that they do it, I just don't think its fair the rest of the household has to see it.
Edit: a few people have mentioned wearing pants as a solution. We both sleep in our underwear so its not uncommon to walk around that way in the morning before we are dressed. I don't know if it's realistic to say she always has to wear pants. Also, our youngest still crawls into bed with us at night so there is that. There is also going to the bathroom with kids nearby…
Also, to her credit, they haven't seen her bruises yet. She claims she can keep them hidden, even mentioning that she could wear makeup on it. I just don't believe she will be able to pull it off forever. I know her, I believe eventually she'll slip up. I noticed her using the bathroom recently while our youngest was washing his hands. I noticed when she got up that had he been looking in her direction, he could have seen it. So its a matter of time in my opinion.
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Isn't that just being a masive whore?
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A massive whore with a stable community and support structure and a lot of houses you're kids are able too visit. So basically just the good parts of being a massive whore and very few of the downsides.
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"Solo poly" specifically means she doesnt have either of those
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@Grue mean relative too whoring. As far as poly goes yeah she's left out too dry.
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Oh boy we got another grue opinion on fringe relationship behavior and society. Trans lives matter.
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His opinions on everything else are just as bad
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It's brilliant he is prolly baiting but he is so uniquely r-slurred you cant quite tell
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I pegged him as a "wrong in a way that is not funny" gimmickposter after 3 posts
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Yup, this is just the white version of the ghetto trash taking her kids to the trap house while she gets loads blown in her for gas money
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Except instead of gas money her insecurity about being mid subsides for a night
Shlong live the ccp
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she's just like me
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In size too
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thats not super progressive of you to say, comrade
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i hate the way these r-slurs talk
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Best kind of girl
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Haaaaaaaawwwwwwwwwwwwt
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Then stop reading it, r-slur, they aren't talking too you
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WELCOME TO THE TEAM, BRÖTHER !r-slurs
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Grue forgets what drama.net is for.
Take this DOWNMARSEY as a metaphorical smack so hard on your fat butt cheeks that you could read my palm from the bruise you slag.
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White extinction is long overdue
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Sometimes you have to be brave and start the process with yourself.
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Mommy fell down and landed butt-first on a man's open palm.
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fwicking kwek
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Crazy the shit these freaks normalise.
Imagine getting so fricked up in your BDSM sessions so frequently that you categorise bruises into sexual and non-sexual bruises.
Also, imagine not even considering that, if you don't want your children to see your bare butt cheeks, bruised or not, you can just wear clothes in front of them.
There's clearly a difference between being kinky and being a complete degenerate. Parents can be as kinky as they like, but should be seen as completely asexual in their kids' eyes. Anything else is weird.
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My mother had many failings, but I am glad she never let me see her butt cheeks. I don't understand why these people even have varying degrees of how much of mommy's butt it's ok for the kids to see. For all these years, I thought the norm was zero.
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Darn imagine being that kid and realizing what u were looking at when you were an adult
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Not when they're adults. It's only going to take until they start seeing porn. These days, what is that? 11 or 12? After that, they won't be able to keep out intrusive thoughts about mommy's bruises when they're cooming.
It should all be very healthy.
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In a poly household probably about 9 when one of mommies new boyfriends show them
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Only for the trashy scum that make up the subject of these posts.
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future mass shooters or child molesters
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Is this b-word Sam Jackson from the Movie with him and Bruce Willis? Directed by the guy who made that scary aliens movie with Mel gibson and the guy from the joker movie
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It never even began for that little bastard. Trans lives matter.
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BPD nightmare
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Is this OP's actual wife?
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obviously not
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