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[๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜] AITAH for breaking up with my gf after finding out she had an abortion?

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I'm going with NAH bordering on TA.She knew she definitely didn't want a baby. You're in the comments understandably upset about it but showing some opinions that definitely are indicating you would've found some way to convince her to keep it.Edit: I would fully change it to TA based off of speaking to OP in the replies to this comment. (1056)

I absolutely would have convinced her, that would be my CHILD. (-3157)

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And if she does not want that child and it destroys her mental health being guilt tripped into having it; Would the child be worth it still? (1750)

Yes, absolutely. (-2447)

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You've been with this woman a few years. Had you ever discussed an accidental pregnancy with her? (5297)

We had discussed it before. I told her that I would want the baby no matter what, and she โ€œagreedโ€, but clearly did not really feel that way. (-1286)

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Since you come from a family of Alabama dumbfricks maybe you should pause and think before saying someone else said something dumb since you are clearly a dumbfrick too.Did I say there is no difference at all? No I said they aren't different with regards to the fact that you should tell your partner of years before doing them. That's it. Clearly they are different in various other ways.I'm going to reject your framing of the two situations. Not everyone that gets an abortion has the same thought process you pointed out and going on vacation for a month can make someone happy for a lifetime. Your framing is disingenuous, but expected for an Alabama dumbfrick.Here is a fact: if you have a partner of years and are willing to have s*x with them and risk getting pregnant you SHOULD tell them if you are going to get an abortion. That is a huge life decision that impacts both people and when you are in a serious, committed relationship for years you talk about those things beforehand. Maybe n... (-1)

Bro, you can try to insult me about having dumbass Alabama family, but you ain't gonna my feelings about it. I was the one that called them dumbasses in the first place and I do it ALL THE TIME, plus I'm the one that stopped talking to them as soon as I was able to think past my nose. I'll even give ya more ammo, to try and shoot at me, if you like: I'm Alabama white trash and Mexican, and both sides of my family are the reason southerners and Mexicans have negative stereotypes associated with them, and I mean ALL the negative stereotypes both demographics have. My family makes whole swaths of the country look bad, much less little ole me. My genetics are garbage and while I love my mom, she had NO fckng business passing on the crap lineage she OR my dad had. Both people should never have procreated at all, much less with each other. If you really want to get into it, my genetics are SO BAD that my uterus tried to kill me several times before I was finally able to convince board cer... (1)

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You people (OP) are the people I stay away from on Reddit. The Reddit comments you made in this thread not only show that you're an butthole, but also a malcontent, control freak, greedy, a complete piece of shit, and a man that not even the most piece of shit women out there would want to date. Being pro life is one thing. Being brazen enough to try to control a separate person because you wanted a kid is miles worse than the pro life ideology. You sir don't have any control over your girlfriend and the audacity to try to be this patriarchal cancer makes everyone hate your guts here.Go frick yourself because that's the only kind of s*x you'll ever get. (4)

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I'm gonna go with NAH because you can break up for any reason, and also you can't necessarily control your emotions just because of whatever logic.However,I don't think it's really reasonable to expect her to ask your input for an abortion. Maybe this is controversial to say, but at the end of the day she's the one who'd be carrying a baby for 9 months and she's the one who's body would be damaged by pregnancy. Women still die during childbirth, it's a lot of pain, and I think it's her - and her decision alone - about whether she puts herself through that.I think if you'd believed that you were actively trying for a baby or whatever then yeah there would be that sense of betrayal. But if she knew she didn't want to go through with pregnancy at this time, then it's not really a baby that was inside of her. It was a medical problem that needed to be dealt with. And if she knew you'd have wanted to keep it or would have tried to persuade her to go through wtih pregnancy, then it could'... (1)

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Man nothing gets AITA up in arms like holding a woman accountable for her actions

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Not just AITA, all of reddit.

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I wonder more and more if they should have full rights

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Good bait social experiment post.

They're all unhinged seething at the OP, but if the woman wanted to keep the kid they be like "too bad sweaty, you're a man, you don't get to decide what women do with their bodies, raise that kid or pay child support".

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Nothing gets feminists to spout pro-life arguments faster than the mention of legal parental surrender.

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Causing a woman's miscarriage or celebrating a miscarriage does.

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But its just a clump of cells? Non chuds have told me this for years since the Clinton administration ๐Ÿ™„

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you're an r-slur.

Oh yeah???? Well I'll let you know I descend from an unbroken lineage of complete fricking r-slurs and share the yolk of their collective drain on society.

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My mom drank too much one night and let spill that my aunt had had an abortion

I was like, does my chuddy christian uncle know?

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I absolutely would have convinced her, that would be my CHILD.:

Yes, absolutely.:

We had discussed it before. I told her that I would want the baby no matter what, and she โ€œagreedโ€, but clearly did not really feel that way.:

Bro, you can try to insult me about having dumbass Alabama family, but you ain't gonna my feelings about it. I was the one that called them dumbasses in the first place and I do it ALL THE TIME, plus I'm the one that stopped talking to them as soon as I was able to think past my nose. I'll even give ya more ammo, to try and shoot at me, if you like: I'm Alabama white trash and Mexican, and both sides of my family are the reason southerners and Mexicans have negative stereotypes associated with them, and I mean ALL the negative stereotypes both demographics have. My family makes whole swaths of the country look bad, much less little ole me. My genetics are garbage and while I love my mom, she had NO fckng business passing on the crap lineage she OR my dad had. Both people should never have procreated at all, much less with each other. If you really want to get into it, my genetics are SO BAD that my uterus tried to kill me several times before I was finally able to convince board cer...:

You people (OP) are the people I stay away from on Reddit. The Reddit comments you made in this thread not only show that you're an butthole, but also a malcontent, control freak, greedy, a complete piece of shit, and a man that not even the most piece of shit women out there would want to date. Being pro life is one thing. Being brazen enough to try to control a separate person because you wanted a kid is miles worse than the pro life ideology. You sir don't have any control over your girlfriend and the audacity to try to be this patriarchal cancer makes everyone hate your guts here.Go frick yourself because that's the only kind of s*x you'll ever get.:

I'm gonna go with NAH because you can break up for any reason, and also you can't necessarily control your emotions just because of whatever logic.However,I don't think it's really reasonable to expect her to ask your input for an abortion. Maybe this is controversial to say, but at the end of the day she's the one who'd be carrying a baby for 9 months and she's the one who's body would be damaged by pregnancy. Women still die during childbirth, it's a lot of pain, and I think it's her - and her decision alone - about whether she puts herself through that.I think if you'd believed that you were actively trying for a baby or whatever then yeah there would be that sense of betrayal. But if she knew she didn't want to go through with pregnancy at this time, then it's not really a baby that was inside of her. It was a medical problem that needed to be dealt with. And if she knew you'd have wanted to keep it or would have tried to persuade her to go through wtih pregnancy, then it could'...:

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They want to murder babies so badly.

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