Could say the same to berate foids who refuse to date alcoholic or abusive men.
Why tolerate it? BPD is not like some mild inconvenience like dating a fat chick. You're dealing with someone who could flip out and try to ruin your life in any number of ways. Why accept that risk?
This is so very obvious from the linked post idk how dramatards aren't getting it either. He's posting some of the most egotistical shit possible while playing it off as a supportive statement. Pro-g*mer move imo, this feels less like a clueless simp and more of a calculated BPD kitty enjoyer.
Actually sort of true, since BPD patients tend to be drawn towards insufferable narcissists with giant egos.
Everyone ITT is calling this dude a doormat without realizing that this is the type of shit that NPD moids say to get BPD broads wrapped around their finger. Note how vague and generic those statements are, they don't talk about specific actions because to the NPD and BPD individual identity is what really matter.
I'm telling you that an individual who says statements like this is most likely consciously or unconsciously looking to take advantage of their BPD partner.
Its quite interesting since narcissists will never ever claim they have or suffer from narcissism (except everyone in their life is a narcissist) yet bpd foids will readily admit they have a condition that makes them terrible
IMO it's cause NPDs have a strong identity they want to project, which usually doesn't include being a narcissist (a negative thing in their and most people's view). BPDs on the other hand are looking for identities to adopt, and the idea of being someone suffering from a disease that was no fault of their own is easy to accept. In fact it gives them a sense of uniqueness from the normies, where they go through sufferings that the regular people could never understand: "They're just afraid of being abandoned. They just love other people too much!" Taken to an extreme they can come to the conclusion that the normies are the problem.
However there are definitely BPDs that are aware that the BPD label has a stigma so they've been trying to push back on it.
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Yes I was officially diagnosed as an insufferable butthole. You can't handle that? It's YOU who has the problem, not me and my crazy buttholery
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You can't handle a real women, obese and BPD
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Could say the same to berate foids who refuse to date alcoholic or abusive men.
Why tolerate it? BPD is not like some mild inconvenience like dating a fat chick. You're dealing with someone who could flip out and try to ruin your life in any number of ways. Why accept that risk?
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Either a seething or a naive, low-self esteem whos dated a BPD foid for less than a week wrote this wall of .
I wouldnt wish a BPD foid on the worst of my enemies.
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I would! The worst of my enemies fricking suck.
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Do not mourn this arrogant fricker. He deserves whatever his "partner" does to him.
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This is so very obvious from the linked post idk how dramatards aren't getting it either. He's posting some of the most egotistical shit possible while playing it off as a supportive statement. Pro-g*mer move imo, this feels less like a clueless simp and more of a calculated BPD kitty enjoyer.
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This dude is an absolute doormat lmao. Poasting for the updoots because he's not getting validation in his relationship
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I doubt hes been dating the foid for very long thus far. His spirit will break sooner or later.
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!remindme 1 year
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I will be messaging you on 15.06.2025, 22:02 UTC to remind you of this comment
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Actually sort of true, since BPD patients tend to be drawn towards insufferable narcissists with giant egos.
Everyone ITT is calling this dude a doormat without realizing that this is the type of shit that NPD moids say to get BPD broads wrapped around their finger. Note how vague and generic those statements are, they don't talk about specific actions because to the NPD and BPD individual identity is what really matter.
I'm telling you that an individual who says statements like this is most likely consciously or unconsciously looking to take advantage of their BPD partner.
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Its quite interesting since narcissists will never ever claim they have or suffer from narcissism (except everyone in their life is a narcissist) yet bpd foids will readily admit they have a condition that makes them terrible
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IMO it's cause NPDs have a strong identity they want to project, which usually doesn't include being a narcissist (a negative thing in their and most people's view). BPDs on the other hand are looking for identities to adopt, and the idea of being someone suffering from a disease that was no fault of their own is easy to accept. In fact it gives them a sense of uniqueness from the normies, where they go through sufferings that the regular people could never understand: "They're just afraid of being abandoned. They just love other people too much!" Taken to an extreme they can come to the conclusion that the normies are the problem.
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It's true, bpd hoes will make you believe demons really exist
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bro thinking with his peepee
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Snapshots:
https://old.reddit.com/r/BPD/comments/1dg3hdm/a_bpd_partner_isnt_for_everyone/:
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is BPD actually a real thing or is it just something the pharmaceutical industry made up to sell drugs to jerks
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It's an official way to mark someone as a shit person
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And there's enough people who are shit in the same way that they gave it a name.
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