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i feel some parts of me r way too feminine to ever pass
for example, i have an intense fear of bugs for some reason. when i was younger i didn't at all but something switched when i became an adult. i'm deep in the closet but today at work i kept my hair natural, didnt wear any makeup, and wore a more masculine outfit and felt really good ab myself. then a bee landed on me and i screamed and literally started crying and freaking out. it was super embarassing but i feel like the girls at work were trying to make me feel okay about it and saying they wouldve reacted the same way and the guys just saw it as typical girly behaviour i feel. but that really made me annoyed with myself because i cant even imagine a cis man doing all that over a bee π its kinda funny but also really stressing me out. i feel like certain aspects of me r just extremely feminine in that sense and idk what to do about it
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Imagine not being brought up with an expectation of intense inner emotional repression and expect you can just turn that on whenever you feel like it.
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it should be self-control rather than repression. men who can't control themselves tend to end up in prison.
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something SEVERELY lacking in female socialization. Just imagine how much better the world would be if w*men could emotionally regulate enough to maybe not send that one text message
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If women could control their emotions they wouldn't be women
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Men arent emotionally repressed. We litterally just dont fricking care.
This you?:
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Men care but can't express it. Like if you ask women to cry on command most can probably do it within a couple of minutes. Men will be sitting there like trying their best but no tears will come.
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I just remember my beautiful coupe in pieces on the side of the road
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Women will have crying competitions to see who can do it first.
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This you?
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Lamo men can express emotion they just generally have different physiological responses to stress
Foids - scream and cry
Moids - yell and throw things
The only distinction is the foid is called a hysterical woman while the man is called an r-slured sperg for these behaviors
I love that foids genuinely don't get this and they think men are always on the verge of tears like them they're just keeping it at bay all the time
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