I am well past the straight crush phase in my life but I feel like thatโs an unnecessarily harsh view. I have seen plenty of posts asking whatโs the appeal of going for the straight one? Letโs set aside the fact that clearly theyโre not entirely straight and set aside the fact that the gay party should be prepared to ruin the friendship if theyโre gonna go there- donโt go catching feelings. Whatโs the appeal? I have hooked up with plenty of gay dudes most of whom probably barely remember the encounter. If you have a sexual encounter with someone who goes on to live a heterosexual life, you know they remember that. They think about it when theyโre banging their wives and canโt get off. They jerk off to the memory. They can be watching TV and their mind wanders to that day, and suddenly theyโre hard thinking about it. Thinking about you. They hold onto this secret until the day they die and it excites the frick out of them that they got to do this naughty thing and can never tell anyone. Itโs kind of special in a twisted way. A gay man just gets back on grindr and looks for the next one.
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