A PSA to not pursue your "straight crush" is shockingly unpopular on r/askgaybros

I am well past the straight crush phase in my life but I feel like that’s an unnecessarily harsh view. I have seen plenty of posts asking what’s the appeal of going for the straight one? Let’s set aside the fact that clearly they’re not entirely straight and set aside the fact that the gay party should be prepared to ruin the friendship if they’re gonna go there- don’t go catching feelings. What’s the appeal? I have hooked up with plenty of gay dudes most of whom probably barely remember the encounter. If you have a sexual encounter with someone who goes on to live a heterosexual life, you know they remember that. They think about it when they’re banging their wives and can’t get off. They jerk off to the memory. They can be watching TV and their mind wanders to that day, and suddenly they’re hard thinking about it. Thinking about you. They hold onto this secret until the day they die and it excites the frick out of them that they got to do this naughty thing and can never tell anyone. It’s kind of special in a twisted way. A gay man just gets back on grindr and looks for the next one.