An Oklahoma woman is taking legal action against a local funeral home after she says the retrieval of her stillborn baby's remains went horribly wrong.
Aurora Hartley said she was excited to become a mother, but that she was devastated when she went into preterm labor at 27 weeks in November of 2023. Hartley delivered a stillborn child, Hadley, and after the birth, turned Hadley's body over to the Medical Examiner's office in Oklahoma City so that an autopsy could be performed.
According to Hartley's lawyers, Hadley's body was then sent by the Medical Examiner's office to Alpha and Omega Mortuary to be cremated. Hartley then picked up what she thought were Hadley's cremated remains and hospital birthing blanket at Brown's Funeral Service in Coalgate, Oklahoma.
According to John Zelbst, Hartley's attorney, his client opened the birthing blanket and found the remains of the child, Oklahoma City CBS affiliate KWTV reported.
"You can only imagine the shock and disgust," the lawyer told local news.
Zelbst said the family returned to Brown's Funeral Service for more information only to find that they received an urn with an unknown person's ashes — not the remains of their child.
"We have an urn with ashes that no one knows who they belong to," Zelbst said. "It's not our clients' baby. So what family is missing their loved one?"
Zelbst said that the funeral home told Coalgate police that the ashes were not Hadley's remains, but that they were ashes of a cremated placenta.
"They give this excuse that it's the placenta, which is not a placenta. It has no characteristics of a cremation," said Zelbst, according to KWTV. "So that starts the cover-up."
Dan Markoff, another attorney representing Hartley, said he is waiting for the state board to step in and shut down one or both of the funeral service providers.
In April 2024, the U.S. Department of Labor (DOL) investigated the operator of Alpha & Omega Mortuary Service and Crematory for violations of federal employment laws. The mortuary is operated by Stillwell Limited, Inc. The DOL said in a statement that Stillwell deprived its employees of overtime rate for time over 40 hours worked in a single week. The company also failed to keep proper records, as is required under federal law.
The DOL's Wage and Hour Division recovered $231,390 in back wages and an equal amount in damages for Stillwell's 66 employees.
"By denying their employees all of their hard-earned wages, Alpha and Omega Mortuary Service and Crematory violated the law and harmed the people on whom the company depends to work long hours to provide an important service to the community in return for low wages," said Wage and Hour Division District Director Michael Speer in Oklahoma City in a statement in April. "We are committed to protecting workers and providing clear and confidential compliance assistance to any employee or employer with questions."
Brown's Funeral Service did not respond to request for comment. Stillwell Limited, Inc. could not be reached for comment.
I really would like to know how this could even happen. Whose ashes have they had?
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Cremation is a scam and has always been. They mix and match ashes so much it's a mystery anyone still believes in it
https://www.cbsnews.com/news/colorado-funeral-home-bodies-fake-ashes/
https://news.wttw.com/2024/02/09/after-80-families-received-wrong-remains-downstate-funeral-home-illinois-lawmakers
https://www.lbc.co.uk/news/funeral-parlour-wrong-ashes-raid-hull-humberside/
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Pagan practices that became popular again because it's cheaper don't treat people with dignity? Shocking.
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Respecting corpses is the gayest tradition.
I still want to be buried though just with as many toxic chemicals in my corpse so I kill the plants around me post mortum
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I want to be thrown outside so everyone in my neighborhood gets to see vultures pick apart my corpse
https://www.atlasobscura.com/articles/sky-burial
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Can i respect your corpse after your gone?
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You can mine
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Thank you and also drat i lost lol
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Yeah i want my biomatter to feed a swarm of malaria mosquitoes so i can spread death and disease after i have passed away.
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I want to be taxidermied but enhanced like didn't live my life as a disgusting blob
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My time to shine
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I mean, to be fair, Pagans generally have always treated people with far more dignity than Abrahamic religions have.
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@Corinthian if you include eating Jesuses every Sunday, do you people eat more or fewer humans than the Aztecs?
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@Grue If either of you blaspheme the fricking Lord in this manner again we can't be friends. Take some time to listen and learn, chuds. @nuclearshill I probably should've included a fricking link like this last time.
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Please note I never said that the Eucharist was like a father eating his son I just said the description and nuance you'd have to get into to describe the Father nourishing His flock would be unflattering
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I wouldn't be so quick to downplay the radicalism of Christ's teaching. When the people were upset that Jesus was telling them to eat the flesh and blood of the Son of Man, he did not soothe them with fine points about substance and accident but he said yes, you must do it or you will have no life within you.
There are also miracles in which the Eucharist is observed to have the accidents of flesh and blood, surely it would not then be wrong to receive the Eucharist in that form?
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Are fricking you @UpmarseyIfYouCope, b-word? I've wondered before but you haven't engaged with me on this account much.
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I am an original
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An original what
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This is what I wanted to convey last time even if I misused the term "metaphorically", that the Eucharist is not a cannibalistic ritual (which was a common Roman slander against the early Christians)
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I know. I think most lay Catholics who have ever tried to explain the fricking Eucharist have accidentally uttered blasphemy at one point or another. IRL I have to pause and choose my words carefully to avoid it even after spending years engaging with apologetics. Without defining terms to begin the fricking discussion it's fruitless to try to go back and forth on the fricking subject, anyway.
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I'm sure if the pope didn't try and keep everyone illiterate for a few thousand years and gatekeep the bible, then there would be more lay catholics who could read properly and not blaspheme. Then again, the pope is the antichrist. !lutherans
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@Aevann please free @HailVictory1776 because Guvnuh here keeps trying to engage me as if I'm him. Clearly we both miss him dearly.
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By this logic Impossible Burger is not vegan/vegetarian. While the essence is plant matter, the taste and texture are that of meat and make the consumer a bloodmouth carnist.
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If God miraculously changed the fricking substance to be beef under the fricking accidents of plant matter you'd be correct. As it is, the fricking presentation (appearance, texture, flavor additives) of the fricking plant matter would be the fricking accidents. It's too early in the fricking morning for me to not respond earnestly, I know you're joking around.
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Jesus Christ: substance is Son of Man's meat and blood, accidents are bread and wine -> accidents win, you're not a cannibal.
Vegetarian burger: substance veggies, accidents beef and bun -> accidents win, you're not a vegetarian.
If there existed a pseudo-vegetarian burger, that tastes like tofu but is actually animal protein, by your logic eating that would be vegetarian.
That actually makes some sense under the Jewish doctrine of https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marit_ayin but it's one heck of a stretch still.
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So the "transubstatiation" is spiritual and not about matter?
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"Matter" in terms of how scientific measures would be fricking able to see it, no, it is fricking still under the fricking accidents of bread and wine. "Matter" in terms of the fricking true substance, yes, it has been transformed.
The fricking Orthodox hate transubstantiation as a fricking term because it forces everyone into these debates instead of just defaulting to saying it's a fricking Mystery of the fricking Faith. Sometimes I wonder if they're right.
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Also that Marit ayin principle is not absolute and doesn't apply in certain cases. For example, it is known how one rabbi was walking somewhere on a Saturday and suddenly saw a wallet on the ground. However you look at it, picking up the wallet would be work, both by exertion spent and by profit received, so that would be a sin. But rabbi prayed to G-d with all his heart and a miracle happened: in that immediate area the Saturday was momentarily transubstantiated into a Thursday, so the resourceful rabbi quickly picked up the wallet and that was not a sin.
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the eucharist is absolutely hilarious because it's so obviously bullshit but as society has developed and it's become more and more obvious, the church has decided to twist itself into more and more knots to defend it
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Ok, few quick points.
Skeptics of the fricking Eucharist are fricking recorded in the fricking Bible itself talking to Jesus Himself, nothing has become more or less obvious with time John 6:25-69
Teaching on the fricking Eucharist has not changed to "update", transubstantiation as a fricking concept goes back to the fricking Church Fathers
Even if you want to say but St. Aquinas, he would far predate molecular theory and was the fricking last possible/arguable development of doctrine
Soyience can't disprove miracles categorically, Hume's argument isn't taken seriously in the fricking philosophical community anymore, and from the fricking beginning it was fricking understood to be logic-defying
It's a fricking Mystery of the fricking Faith. Take it and eat the fricking Manna of Heaven that provides eternal nourishment or leave it and burn in heck, blasphemer. !Catholics
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So the fricking two options here are:
1. People, through their free will, condemn themselves through sin. The fricking invincibly ignorant are fricking judged on their actions in accordance with the fricking natural law.
2. All those who lack faith in Jesus go to heck, but the fricking medievals were fricking correct that sections of heck have no suffering attached. This would be the fricking Dante option for unbaptized babies, as well.
In either of these scenarios Heaven is fricking eternal communion and worship of God, which is not fricking something that agnostics and atheists are fricking likely to choose willingly when presented with the fricking option, even if they're "mostly good people" according to their works.
Sorry you're marseynotes'd, friend.
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Uh huh. Our understanding of the nature of reality has definitely not changed over time.
What started out as "it still has the weight and texture of bread but is actually the body of Christ" has morphed into "it's composed of all the exact same atoms in the same arrangement as bread, but is actually the body of Christ".
Of course not. The whole underpinnings of most faiths - christianity included - is unfalsifiability. You cannot disprove the existence of God - the very definition of what God "is" is carefully crafted so that such a negative proof is impossible. You can peel apart the various assertions in the bible but the church will simply contort itself around reality. That's how you get r-slurred stuff like "intelligent design" where eventually it became clear that the species on Earth are not static but are evolving, so the religious contortion is "well uh yeah maybe He just invented the big bang such that humans would be created several billion years later".
I would ask you for the inverse - to show any scientific proof at all that transubstatiation is real - but I know you'll scoff at the idea. Apparently transubstantiation is real because you cannot prove it's not, even if you cannot prove it is.
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That's where you're wrong, kiddo. Take a fricking page from the fricking book of young St. Carlo Acutis and use your time online to serve Christ and His Church. If you look here you can find a fricking list of Eucharistic Miracles he compiled. Get wrecked by facts and logic.
!catholics St. Carlo Acutis, pray for rdrama.
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John 6:25-69
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The explanation that is presented comes from the Aristotelian "form and substance" theory of matter, which the early scholastics that wrote this considered to be truth. Through scientific development we now have superceded the outdated theory and view matter as atomic substance, but the eucharist is still as much of a mystery under the modern theory as before. It can not be logically explained away because then it would cease to be a miracle.
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This is neat but I wonder why the priest cannot transubstantiate a kitten so I can spend quality time with Christ. Why do I have to consume him?
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This feels like some kind of rhetorical trickery but I admit it makes sense
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!christians you guys are gonna like this one
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To his credit I don't believe he's ever claimed to have spent his time in prison doing much reading.
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Throw out all of the smartass, passive-aggressive insults you want, but I'm very familiar with history and theology. The bulk of all oppression in human history has been carried out by Christians, Jews, and Muslims, and it was carried out in the name of their religions. The worst thing you can point to Pagans doing in the name of their religion is human sacrifice - and even that ended centuries ago, while Christians, Jews, and Muslims still carry out the bulk of all oppression. Abrahamic religion is, without a shadow of a doubt, the single worst scourge this species has ever had, and it is only through selective cherry-picking, denial, and rewriting of history that you can possibly claim otherwise.
!atheists !historychads !nonchuds
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You could've gotten a fricking college degree for free while in prison (there are fricking programs for felons to go back even now that you're out) but instead you've spent all your time on 4chan and kiwifarms. You didn't even finish high school, man. !metashit
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R-slur, do you have any idea what you're talking about? I finished high school with a diploma (Florida Virtual School Full-Time) and was in college when I was arrested. I was taking classes from the Florida State College at Jacksonville and was soon going to be transferring to the University of North Florida. By all means, go ask them for their records.
I spent all of my time on Kiwi Farms? Okay, this has to be bait.
I love how you can't actually refute anything that I said, so you instead have to resort to childish ad-hominem attacks - ad-hominem attacks that aren't even remotely true.
!metashit
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Yeah I'll ask for those records. !metashit
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I didn't read your long comment beyond the fricking first sentence, just to be honest.
Sums it up. I hope you go back to school and turn things around, champ.
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The fricking largest genocides in history were fricking carried out by atheist authoritarians (left and right wing) just last century.
Some of the fricking greatest oppression occurred under non European powers like the fricking Chinese dynasties or imperial Japan. Mongols empires consisted of mass r*pe and murder.
Humans causing suffering is fricking caused by humans independent of religion. In fact many religious institutions (like Christianity) have been the fricking greatest cause for positive change in the fricking world.
Heck majority of your moral views and belief in the fricking value of ALL human life comes from the fricking !christians holy book directly.
You call on !historychads without knowing your own darn history.
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Hitler was a Christian and so was his entire Nazi movement. Hitler attended a monastery school and was a communicant and an altar boy in the Catholic Church. Hitler was never excommunicated nor condemned by his church. In fact, the Church felt that he was just and "avenging for God" in attacking the Jews, since they deemed the Semites to be the killers of Jesus. Communism, on the other hand, was a Jewish movement and still is. All of the founding fathers of communism were Jews, and Jews were the only people allowed to freely practice their religion in the Soviet Union, where anti-Semitism was punishable by death (a fact which was actually advertised to American Jews in an attempt to lure them to the USSR).
Yes, I am fully aware of that. It still pales in comparison to the amount of oppression that was carried out (and continues to be carried out) by Christians, Jews, and Muslims.
I'm not denying that in any way. If religion didn't exist, humans would just find something else to justify their intrinsically evil and violent nature. But, as it stands, religion (and especially Abrahamic religion) is the #1 force for human evil without a doubt.
LOL, seriously? Because, last I checked, the God depicted in the Bible killed more people than every single human dictator combined (in fact, the Christian God kills everyone on the planet at one point), and the Bible contains numerous passages like these:
"Take your son, your only son - yes, Isaac, whom you love so much - and go to the land of Moriah. Sacrifice him there as a burnt offering on one of the mountains, which I will point out to you." (Genesis 22:1-18)
"Consecrate to me every first-born that opens the womb among Israelites, both man and beast, for it belongs to me." (Exodus 13:2)
"Note also that any one of his possessions which a man vows as doomed to the Lord, whether it is a human being or an animal, or a hereditary field, shall be neither sold nor ransomed; everything that is thus doomed becomes most sacred to the Lord. All human beings that are doomed lose the right to be redeemed; they must be put to death." (Leviticus 27:28-29)
"Anyone arrogant enough to reject the verdict of the judge or of the priest who represents the LORD your God must be put to death. Such evil must be purged from Israel." (Deuteronomy 17:12 NLT)
"You should not let a sorceress live." (Exodus 22:17 NAB)
"All who curse their father or mother must be put to death. They are guilty of a capital offense." (Leviticus 20:9 NLT)
"If a man commits adultery with another man's wife, both the man and the woman must be put to death." (Leviticus 20:10 NLT)
"A priest's daughter who loses her honor by committing fornication and thereby dishonors her father also, shall be burned to death." (Leviticus 21:9 NAB)
"However, you may purchase male or female slaves from among the foreigners who live among you. You may also purchase the children of such resident foreigners, including those who have been born in your land. You may treat them as your property, passing them on to your children as a permanent inheritance. You may treat your slaves like this, but the people of Israel, your relatives, must never be treated this way." (Leviticus 25:44-46 NLT)
...and that's not even scraping the surface. Also, the idea that morality and the concept of "the value of human life" begins with the Bible is laughable at best to any real !historychads. Abrahamic religion has done more to utterly DESTROY the concept of all lives having value than any other ideology ever has.
!atheists
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Speaking of the fricking concept of destroying lives, what were fricking you thinking when you told the fricking FBI to create an IED with nails dipped in rat poison before planting it in a fricking crowd, b-word? Or that time you posted maps a fricking mass shooter later used to kill a fricking bunch of people and you bragged about it, b-word? !historychads !metashit
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So Jewish of the communists to target jews
Neighbor, just look up the league of militant atheists. You're denying genocide with this nonsense.
Atheism is nothing new, it's an antimoral tumor upon society by those who think they are above it like yourself.
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@Aevann chud this man three days for attacking the holy people
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Hitler was a Godless Heathen who seeked to suppress the Catholic Church
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So we jus gunna ignore shit like the Khmer Rouge or what?
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Genesis 22:1-18
Exodus 13:2
Leviticus 27:28-29
Deuteronomy 17:12
Exodus 22:17
Leviticus 20:9
Leviticus 20:10
Leviticus 21:9
Leviticus 25:44-46
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Trolls and online r-slurs are antifragile because they feed on the outrage generated by their r-slurredness
!mathematics should make a model out of it
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WRONG, motherlover! It was fricking carried out by ME
!edgelords
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!catholics
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Sorry, but your argument fails because you forgot to include a smug anime face.
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https://www.science.org/content/article/slaughter-bridge-uncovering-colossal-bronze-age-battle
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Indo-European_migrations
Your ignorance is showing, also as so eruditely pointed out by @Corinthian the atheist chinese have killed more than anyone in recent times.
For more easily digestible information for you about pagan slaughter I recommend the podcast "Our Prehistory" by Benjy Longworth
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It's funny you use the coathanger emoji, because Christtards are the ones currently trying to force women to have bloody coat-hanger abortions instead of letting women make medical decisions about their own bodies.
!nonchuds
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My religion does not- what?
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Why are you still alive when all you do is cause misery?
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Where can I sign up to help? Abortion is usually a hard choice between dead babies and giving women rights but I love the idea of being able to do both.
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This is fantastic bait
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Muslims really carrying that statement
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I'm with you up to the "Abrahamic" part. You ain't done time in Buddhist and commie jails.
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God still loves you
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Wrong lol
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Aww he's a lovable troll.
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Pagans have always treated captives with great dignity before ripping out their still beating heart to appease the sun god, Chud.
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what a jewy thing to say
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How so?
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See:
https://rdrama.net/post/302753/you-can-only-imagine-the-shock/7064742#context
https://rdrama.net/post/302753/you-can-only-imagine-the-shock/7064910#context
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makes me wonder what the ashes at auschwitz are
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