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[๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜] AITA for telling my kids they can be pissed at their dad but if they want me to choose between them over their sister, they're going to be very disappointed?

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You sunk low on this one. 1. You forgave your cheating husband 2. Took in the child of his affair. 3. Instead of getting therapy for them you threatened and Invalidated their feelings after springing on them what sounded like your a pathetic loser. 4. You showed them that she is more important than they are. The child is not to blame and their behaviour is misdirected but YTA (167)

I told them they're allowed to feel whatever. Being upset is no excuse to treat me and their sister like shit. (-132)

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You should have been sharing this information as age appropriate years ago. You stole those years of processing from your kids and made this so much harder on them.Some family therapy, stat.EDIT: YTA as per your replies. You lied to your children, and you're acting like you didn't do anything wrong. You are the victim of your husband's affair, but that doesn't mean you can't ever do any wrong. You are wrong for lying to your children and then not giving them the room to process and be hurt and angry over this. You didn't give them any time or help processing this, and then you very suddenly sprang it on them after years of lying to them. That comes with consequences, and while they don't have a right to treat your daughter with disrespect, they absolutely have a right to be confused and angry at your own choices/behavior here. (339)

We never planned on telling them about my husband's affair because it wasn't something they needed to know. (-93)

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YTA You are going scorched earth with your three boys. Why are you allowing the AP to have acting to do with your daughter in a closed adoption? I can't wait to see the "we've moved in the AP and her kids...and are a blended family. My boys won't speak to any of us and moved in with my parents who also think I'm an butthole. But I get my daughter! Who I share with her other mother. Who I share with my husband" I really hope this is fake bc you're boys will need so much therapy to deal with your little house of cards (162)

My daughter deserves to know where she comes from. We are allowing bio mom 1 hour at the park supervised by both me and my husband. Then we will determine if she will be involved in our daughter's life and how much. (-85)

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YTAWow, you are a real piece of shit, aren't you?The girl has no fault in all of this, that much is clear. But instead of talking it out with your sons and getting them therapy and counselling, you threaten to abandon them and choose, what they see as an affair baby, over them.You are the adult here. You should have been the cooler mind, and getting them all the help they need so that they could understand that being angry at the sister is futile. Only their dad and you deserve their anger. Not the sister.They are teenagers. Teenagers are goddarn reactionary, hormonal idiots. They are NOT supposed to know better, especially in a fricked up situation like this.Instead, you idiot, you threatened to abandon them.They have every right to be upset. At your piece of shit husband who is a fricking cheater, and at you, a liar. Who is also a piece of shit.You are going to lose your sons at this rate, and you are going to deserve it. (5)

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YTA. I don't know how they are actually treating the girl child, so maybe they are aholes too. But you and your husband need to realise that your decisions are not just "marital." They affect your children way more. Not in a single decision have you included them. For you, your husband cheated 6 years ago and you got a daughter. For them, their father destroyed their family unit a few weeks ago and they see the poor kid as a living embodiment of their father's deceit and your acceptance. They are human and will lash out. Yes, it does not give them any right to bully their sister. But if they want to keep a distance from her, let them. If they can't "adore" her, it's natural. It's human. Get off your high horse though. You went to therapy - put them in therapy. Stop invalidating their feelings. Stop punishing them for being emotional human beings. Their feelings towards cheating and their anger towards your husband AND YOU are valid. Cheating destroys families, not just marriages. Yo... (5)

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YTAI have never commented on anything before, I normally just read and move on, but I have to put my two cents in here.You absolutely shattered your sons' worlds and are mad at/punishing them? You and your husband lied to them for years and expected everything to be copasetic when you pulled the rug out from under them? Of course they're angry! Of course they're mad at not only the adults but also their sister! They just found out that their father cheated on their mother, produced a child, and that their mother was so okay with it that she adopted the product of his affair. Unless you as a child have witnessed/been made aware of your parent's infidelity, you will never understand the level of hurt and anger your sons are going through at the moment. How dare you try to make them out to be the bad guys. Is the little girl innocent in all of this? Of course! However, expecting your own biological children (who are still actually children) to behave with a rational and calmness that n... (1)

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Remove my username. This is harassment. Or explain to me why my opinion which matches many others qualifies you to make judgments against me and call me names?

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I'd just calm down and leave. Everyone on this site is r-slurred and can barely operate a computer. Just look at the UI.

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Umm I can barely even operate my phone let alone a computer thank youu

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I'm a personality hire.

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Do you make everyone else's personality look better by comparison?

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No, I get to pick and choose who gets raises.

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Youre either the worst or the best :marseysquint:

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Death to all juice

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What is a computer?

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You can delete your username once you have less than 0 dramacoin (what we call karma). If you send them all to me I can walk you through this.

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I'm sorry that the user "autodrama" called you a mean name, but that doesn't mean that you should call a bunch of other people, including a random five year old (real or not), names either. Looks like you've got some growing up to do.

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Her mother called her a little princess. I am not the OP, I am commenting on a sub called AITA (am I the butthole) and yes the OP is an butthole to her biological children over the product of her husband's affair.

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Do you think adopting children is butthole behavior?

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This woman not only didn't divorce her husband but chose to show love to an unwanted child who she had every reason to hate. She is a saint.

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Being a beta is only bad if you're a man.

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This woman is a weak b-word tbqh

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Post kitty pics or GTFO. :marseydagothur2:

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If an 18 year old legal adult man is so butt-hurt about his 6 year old half-sister, I suggest maybe he does need professional medical help. To get his head removed from his butt. Is he jealous that Mommy prefers the daughter to him? Yeah, surprise surprise, it happens in families that parents have favourites. And the mother is not going to choose between her kids, it's her kids (including the adult one) saying she should dump the child now. She's right that they can be mad at the father, but it's not the kid's fault.

It's a difficult situation, but they need to grow up and learn to handle problems like this. Maybe they hated the kid from the moment she was brought into the house and this is all coming out now. But that doesn't make them in the right, even if they are entitled to be upset about the truth.

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you should probably shut down your reddit account, the people on this site are basically Kiwifarmers and expert doxxers. Just for you and your family's safety, I've seen them figure out people's addresses and workplaces etc.

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I've seen one eat a cat on livestream

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I just realized how funny the term "kiwi farmer" must sound to someone out of the loop :marseysatisfied:

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Oh boy do i hate new zealand farmers THIS MUCH

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the people on this site are basically Kiwifarmers

You flatter us. The users on here don't even have unbanned reddit accounts.


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Well no you just appealmaxx.

I had an account banned during FPH, then accidentally had it unbanned when appealing a different ban for harassing bardfinn

Heck, somehow my /u/IDinduNuffinMan isn't banned (edit: sonofab-word it did get banned and i just missed the appeal window. Darn it, that was a 9 year old account)


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Message the user @carpathianflorist they can help you with this and are very understanding

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@autodrama is one of the most notoriously rude and harassing members on this site

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Haha that's so crazy your husband had an affair. Wanna get one over on him?

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youre a fricking r-slur who can't read, what makes you think this is the OP? keep yourself safe

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youre a fricking r-slur who can't read, what makes you think this is the OP? keep yourself safe

simp for random redditors harder r-slur

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you are ugly and fat keep yourself safe

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no, but obviously her husband had an affair, too, that's how foids end up spending their days on shitty forums like the wish.com knockoff of AmITheAsshole

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It isn't my post! I am not the poster I am a commenter. Grow up.

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I'm very sorry to hear what you went through with your father and his second wife. That's heartbreaking, and sounds incredibly tough. It's perfectly understandable that you would be strongly affected and experiencing anger about why he treated you that way. Your strength and perseverance is commendable, and your feelings are valid. If you ever want to talk or vent, I'm here for you :marseyheart:

I also want to take a moment to sincerely apologize for how this group treated you. It's not very considerate or understanding at all, and I'm sorry. I hope you can forgive us and stay around, because having someone like you here is a huge part of what will make this group become better :marseyembrace:

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Psst: everybody in this group is making fun of you

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wow rude

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No, I don't think I will

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I dunno. Explain your opinion to me, and then I will choose which names to call you :tayadmire2:

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Lmao is this real? We milked a true fgt lolcow this badly?

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And it's a femoid at that

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Remove my username.

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Eat shit white BIPOC.

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