i am a huge cute twink but anal s*x is kind of repulsive, i pretend to be a top just so i don't have to bottom but its very hard for me to c*m from penetrative s*x because it's kind of a chore
the most enjoyable "s*x" i have had has been mutual jerking off or BJs or handjobs. If it was socially acceptable for me to never have s*x Id avoid it forever. I told a hookup once I didn't want to frick and wasn't interesting in that and he acted like i said i enjoy fricking dogs
a butthole is just not a sexualised organ for me. it is intimately associated with pooping. i like everything else about the male body in a totally normal way. I kind of wish there was a third hole just for s*x that allowed gay s*x to not be fundamental repulsive to me
this has stopped me from forming long term romantic relationships for more than a few months, I'm 30
It's also very hard to find gay porn that doesn't Center around buttholes or anal (or god forbid extreme penetration stuff like huge buttplugs)
Am i a complete freak who needs to be MAIDed
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I'm open to the idea of getting topped but unfortunately I have a dead prostate. I've tried poking and prodding it every which way, but it does nothing for me.
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you can c*m still right?
anyway its not required for bottoming (also it will take like months to a year to be able to c*m from prostate touching afaik)
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Yeah, I know that hands-free is hard to do but it's at least supposed to feel good for most people, right? Is it something I can learn to enjoy? Because it's either done nothing or just felt uncomfortable.
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yeah
and yes. but like, speaking as someone that was able to c*m from touching my prostate, it probably took like 6 months of practise to do it a little bit
even though i first tried it a few years back its still real difficult with just your fingers though tbh. (im pretty sure ive seen stainless steel prostate toys recommended before though on reddit?)
also make sure you are actually in the right spot lol, im pretty sure if you go further up from the prostate you instead press on the bladder or nearby?probably works easier if you go longer without jerking off /nutting too
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