AIO - asked wife if she blocked a guy she cheated on me with in the past . : AmIOverreacting

Short backstory - wife cheated on me around 1 year to 1 1/2 years ago( just kiss as for as I'm aware) with coworker who she works across Monday-Friday, they both handle almost every meeting together, obviously makes me insecure so I need some reassurance from her end. She has him blocked on her main account but recently she created a new book account which is her reading kindle books and reviewing them .He followed her and to me it's he can see her interests and give likes on the books he likes so it didn't sit right with me, first time I asked her to block him which was weeks ago her excuse was that it was a public account so anybody can follow her, the fighting went on and off for the next few weeks, last night she finally decided she'll block him and supposedly did it and I left it at that. That night something was bothering me so I checked her account and his likes were still there. I googled it and supposedly the likes disappear too when you block someone. So I ran a small test with a friend of mines and I find out the likes do disappear. When I brought it up to her as to how come his likes are still present , she lashes out and gets all defensive, I'm unsure if she told him to unfollow me or if I'm just overthinking and it was an app issue.

just kiss as for as I'm aware

Why on earth are YOU apologizing to HER??

Because he's kitty wiped and has no self-respect to stand up for himself.

That marriage is over, the contempt and disrespect is right there, only he doesn't see it.

First, she's not at all being receptive to what you're saying. Second, she's being incredibly mean. "You're a joke" is crazy for someone that cheated on their spouse. Either you guys go to marriage counseling or y'all need to split. Being cheated on is horrible and it'll leave you feeling insecure and paranoid for a super long time. She should be incredibly sympathetic to that and doing anything to help you but she's literally annoyed and brushing you off. Does she even want to be married? NOR.

Edit: Maybe not marriage counseling. As others have pointed out, marriage counseling will not be appropriate if there is any abuse going on.

>"You're a joke" is crazy for someone that cheated on their spouse

it's not since the r-slur didn't break up with her

You really need to find an ounce of self respect and leave…

When your wife calls you bro it's done done. Sorry bro.

BRO

Bro, she cheated and she's making you apologize.

Find your balls.

Find your balls and win her back.

Win a cheating slut back that clearly gives no frick about you? 10000/10 idea

Yes, win the MOTHER OF YOUR CHILD back.

This "cheating slut" never actually PIV cheated calm your tits you angry incel.

Yeah, the child would be better off with just the father than a whore.

After reading the texts she is in the right and she could do so much better

Okay