I told the guy I like I'm trans : self

>How? Does kissing a trans person give you an STD or something?

No. But probably Mental anguish after being tricked into kissing a dude

mental anguish over kissing someone is not the same as getting an STD, so don't compare trans people to STDs.

That's like saying a woman being groped isn't that bad because it only causes mental anguish but no physical harm

Yeah with all due respect op You're a bad person You should have told him before he even got to kiss you that you were transgender I mean that's literally deception at that point

If you assume someone is cis that's on you.

No If someone dresses and presents themselves as a woman it's very reasonable for me to assume they're actually a woman

They present themselves as themselves, that's it. Have you tried not assuming you know what's in everyone's pants upon looking at them? (<--- /r/BPD poster btw)

OP is a woman tho

Gee, I wonder why LGBT acceptance is falling

Straight 30yr old married man here to a cis woman. I can see why he was attracted to you just in your writing and introspection.

If he were me, and I was known to be straight, I'd want to know if someone was trans like way up front.. way before a kiss. I'd feel it as deceptive. If they were a trans man, passing well, and even surgery.. I'd still want to know.

Do you announce to everyone you meet you're cis and straight? (<--- /r/jewish poster btw)

Are people like this pretending or do they genuinely don't get that the overwhelming majority of people are "cis"?