You're not a s*x toy. He's giving you an impossible ultimatum. View it as your guilt free ticket out of this hellhole of a relationship
He has already cheated on her multiple times!!! She has her ticket already!!
Please OP. For the sake of your daughter. We are all imploring you to have enough respect for yourself and for her future to leave.
Your husband has some serious problems. In no world is this acceptable, and I'm sure you know this deep down. Leave, leave, leave.
Oh and when he asks why, please, look at the comment below; help him reframe the situation by saying you want to use a strap on 2-3 times per week. If he doesn't get it then….i mean he is already a lost cause but that's just peak narcissism. You (and your kids) deserve BETTER.
Do you think this doormat of a person is actually going to take this advice for dealing with her psychopath husband?
a man wants you to have "s*x" that you dont concent to or hes leaving?
what would you say to your daughter if this happens to her as an adult?
youre teaching them what love is. he doesnt love you, he just wants sexual gratification. and honestly, this isnt going to stop him from looking outside of the marriage.
youre setting a bad example for your kids, and im sorry he did this to you. its time to leave so they can see actual love.
he doesnt care about your family. hes left you everywhere but physically
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One brave dramachad defends OP's husband:
Not to be the devils advocate here because it does sound like op has a shit husband.
However, her husband does have every right to decide to leave the relationship based the sexual side of the relationship. He's not asking her to have s*x that she doesn't consent to, he's asking her to consent or he will leave.
OP doesn't want it and I think she should say ok then, leave. It's not unreasonable for op to not like this arrangement and it's pretty shitty for her husband to cheat and then demand a certain quantity of s*x that she doesn't like.
It's pretty shitty to have 2 kids with someone and then decide I get to frick your butt twice a week or I'm out. If that's truly a deal breaker then it should've been discussed before marriage and kids.
Redditors so strictly adhere to there stupid beliefs about kinks being hecking valid that they can't help but engage with this.
At this point anal s*x ultimatums are their own genre of bait.
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!dramatards !masterbaiters more "my husband wants anal" bait. Is this is the new seethemaxxing meta?
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Need to do a 22F third time mother saying that her 38M husband is demanding anal since her kitty is too loose after three kids
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It's been part of the seethemaxxing meta for a while now.
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You can only frick me in the butt twice a week if I get to frick you in the butt twice a week, how's that?
Okay
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Most likely outcome tbh.
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Unironically fair play.
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Im surprised you're against this shit, I would have sworn that dramatards would be the first to say "hes correct because DUDE BUSSY LMAO"
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I don't really care either way tbh
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It's not bussy tho
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The back door is always bussy, the front is gussy or trussy.
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It's only bussy when it's on a male. You cannot get bussy from a girl, that make you a
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I'm so fricked up that I thought the post was gonna be about him asking her to peg him
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