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im trans. why are cis lesbians never interested in me? - r/actuallesbians - removed comments: 64/168 (38.1%) :marseyjanny2:

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I'm a trans girl and I was doing some thinking and I realized I don't think a cis lesbian has ever shown interests in me. Over the past two years since I turned 18 I have flirted with, dated, and befriended a lot of girls. But it's always nbs and trans girls. Not that I'm complaining I fricking love trans girls. I just thought it was interesting that so SOO many transfems have shown interests in me but never a cis lesbian. Just wanna flirt with one at least once.

EDIT: I also thought of a good example. when I used to use tinder a lot. it was only ever guys and trans girls messaging me. never cis women. idk

EDIT: I guess people don't understand what I'm trying to ask. im trans. I am a woman. I am a lesbian. I would expect equal attraction from all wlw. but it's overwhelming other trans women. im not complaining. just something i noticed.

EDIT: Wow I really got all the transphobes here riled up lol. keep exposing yourself and I'll keep reporting.

LAST EDIT: I never said i want every single lesbian to be attracted to me. it's just the fact that there is a HUGE discrepancy. Plenty of transfems show interests. no cis women show interests. and before you say anything about appearance. I very nearly pass. I am however very open about being trans. so :/

last last edit: I never made a statement. I pointed out that cis women show less interests in me than trans women and i was curious as to why. but yeah keep up the strawmans and the attacks :/ I feel like everyone is purposefully misinterpreting my post.

very last edit: Stealing gordo_garbos comment since apparently im not good with words.

"OP doesn't expect equal attraction from every wlw. OP expects similar percentages of cis and trans women to be attracted to her. if 50% of trans women and 50% of cis women are attracted to her, then this would feel totally reasonable. if 80% of trans women and 20% of cis women are attracted to her, which is the situation OP describes, something statistically significant might be going on."

this is exactly what Im trying to ask.

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if I'm valid and a real woman then shouldn't all wlw equally be interested in me?

They do speak like that lmao

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Two words veery simple to understand : Genital preference.

:#marsoy2:

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Yes lol I do not what to suck a peepee, how fricking hard is that to understand? Literally everyone except ulrocoomers prefers certain genitals

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"Genital preference" is the trains primary rhetorical tool for tearing down peoples sexual orientation. It seems superficially reasonable but the subtext is "But once I get bottom surgery you won't have an excuse not to date me anymore."

It's an Incel:Evolved rhetorical trick.

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once I get bottom surgery you won’t have an excuse anymore

How so? If my genital preference is for vagina, even after bottom surgery they will not have a vagina.

!blackjack105

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We know that but this train logic. They think they can debate people out of their sexual orientation.

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It’s shocking (but not surprising) how similar this is to how moid (male) incels talk about dating foids (female).

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This needs to be an alternative link for rdrama

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works on "straight" men all the time

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Trains pretend as if an actual axe wound is the same as the metaphorical one if it was just made by a dude who went to med-school.

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@August add this guy to the list

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Bro at this point I AM the list

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Thanks king, 100 DC has been deposited into your account. :marseyhomofascist:

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You haven’t paid me in hot while 😭


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:marseyhomosupremacist: Hello @hereforabit, you have straggot-posted (YIKES), this is not okay. Given that you are already on the Straggot Watchlist I have no choice but to issue this flairlock award. Please refer to our FAQ here (https://rdrama.net/post/39065/marseyhomosupremacist-official-notice-straggot-watchlist-marseyhomosupremacist) and find out how you can make better decisions in the future. :marseyhomosupremacist:

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I support this decision

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if I'm valid and a real woman then shouldn't all wlw equally be interested in me?

Unless, they don't really think that and are just trying to be polite, and are hoping that :marseytrain: don't r*pe them.

Also, for those wondering what "wlw" means,

Women who love women. Typically used as a blanket term for lesbians, bisexual, and pansexual girls.

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wlw

Remember when this meant lesbian?

Why do we need abbreviations of terms that can be described with one word?

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And what? Exclude people who are literally down to frick everything that moves?

That's not very inclusive of you, chud.

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It's to placate straggots from the Isle of Lesbos

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because attention whores need them to feel special, same as how they've invented mental disorders for themselves a decade ago.

though at least now they're taking themselves out of the gene pool.

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There is also MSM for “men who have s*x with men”, which somehow isn’t gay either.

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The term comes from early HIV studies. They didn't stick with "gay" because some of the participants were straight their entire lives except for like one time they drunkenly banged a dude 10 years back and regretted it. That wasn't enough to qualify then as "gay men" over "straight men".

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Aka the one peepee rule

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One drop (of c*m)

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if I'm valid

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If

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Lmao really gets the gears turning there

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Unless, they don't really think that and are just trying to be polite, and are hoping that :marseytrain: don't r*pe them.

Otters don't understand that other people can hide their actual thoughts

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rationalistquokka.meme

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I like how she answers her question, but it just flies over her head.

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she

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She was bread the whole time

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Self awareness: 0

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:marseyfemboy: :r: :marseyautismchonker:

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I dont get it

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Maybe it'll become true if :!marseytrain: jannies keep deleting the truthful comments.

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That's what those mere lesbians get for speaking all uppity to a transwoman.

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the frick is a wlw, women loving women ? I can never figure out train speak

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Calling wlw lesbians is bi erasure, do better sweaty :marseynails:

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Oh no, i committed a heckin transphobia and bi-phobia!

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Why does he thirst for "cis" girls when he can get trans "girls" and they are both exactly the same? Sounds like a bit of a transphobe.

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I watched this "documentary" Being Ginger a few years back that followed this red headed guy around who said it was hard to date when you have red hair. Near the end of the film he finally finds someone who wants to date him but he's not interested in her because she has red hair :marseyxd:

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Always and forever

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90's art style

Drawn on what looks like prison potty paper and painstakingly inked with the artist's blood so it looks like samizdat or something smuggled out of a political prison

Despite the above, doesn't contain any actual radical or controversial ideas

Modern web comics could learn a thing or two from this absolute king.

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All modern “c*mics” fail to compare to the drama and excitement of Jack Chick tracts.

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Half of those Chick tracts also have far better drawn homoerotica than any "queer" tumblr artist e-begging on their Patreons.

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:#marseykneel:

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!blackjack100

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That's the thing is she is talking in that thread about how she is absolutely no different than any other woman but it's getting kinda stale with trans people. Shows you what's really going on in her head.

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Ikr?

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yeah but why don't cis women ever seem to be attracted to me? im a woman.. just like all other women..

:marseydisagree: believing what the hugbox says. Bad idea.

It's weird that all the other trans gals here know completely what I'm trying to ask but then all the cis girls are getting upset and excusing me of saying I'm owed attraction by cis girls. which i never said. I think everyone's transphobia is showing idk.

Incel to train pipeline?

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im a woman.. just like all other women..

came dangerously close to noticing things, had to run to the hugbox for reassurance

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Irrational in the purest sense of the word. Ideology is more important than reality. They can suspend disbelief irl.

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If we categorize all "people born with testicles" as male and "people born with ovaries" as female a lot of this confusion will go away.

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“Well, if you consider the very small population of intersex people (of which I am not), then clearly not ALL testicle-havers are male and not ALL ovary-havers are female. So therefore I am actually X.”

They already have arguments against that.

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There's not even a single intersex person born with both functional testicals and functional ovaries. They literally don't exist.

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it's weird that all the men share my r*pey vibes but all the women are telling me I'm r*pey....

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i demand real girls to be attracted to me

wtf i never said im owed attraction

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Male sexuality is the root of all degeneracy and disorder.

Male sexuality is inherently pedophilic and inherently invasive. Wherever it is unwanted, it seems to appear and men seem to feel it is entitled to appear and be forced upon whatever context.

Men are responsible for the vast, vast majority of r*pes, sexual assaults, and child molestation. Women are not nearly as likely to be responsible for these types of crimes - s*x crimes. See, contrary to what most men like to say, they don’t just want to have a wholesome relationship with a woman where s*x conservatively interspersed. They want to sleep with everything that moves and they want their peepee any place they can put it. They’re obsessed with s*x. Women cheat on and divorce men because they’re not being provided for to an extent acceptable to them - because they see an inadequacy. Men cheat on and divorce women over s*x.

They do not have interactions with women or girls where they do not sexualize them in their minds or consider them for s*x. They want s*x everyday or every few days, not something reasonable like once a month or every few months. They consume and seek out sexual content constantly and they worship peepeees. They feel the need to make people pay attention to their sexual organs constantly; women don’t draw their vags everywhere from childhood to adulthood, women do not send unsolicited vag pics to as many men as possible, women do not decide to reveal themselves to strangers in public or in chatrooms. No. These are things men do with their peepees.

In fact, when women do behave grossly, it is usually - if not always - because they’ve had some male’s sexuality forced upon them. Often in childhood. And, as male sexuality does, it distorts and perverts them into something disgusting; prostitutes, e-thots, generic sluts, weaklings who will tolerate domestic abuse and the abuse of their own children, drug addicts, sjws, attention whores, etc....

Regarding male sexuality as pedophilic, most men seem unconcerned about the age of their object and more concerned with avoiding social stigma. It doesn’t matter to them if their object is a child so long as they’re above an arbitrary age threshold. It doesn’t matter to them if their object looks like a child as long as they’re above that age threshold. You would think that people just wouldn’t find children attractive, right? But, the fact is that most men do find children attractive and you will see them meticulously trying to find loops in anti-ped laws. You would think that if you have to ask if someone is an adult, you wouldn’t find them attractive in the first place, but unfortunately most men do. And they will do whatever they can to put their peepeees in them, from waiting around and grooming girls until they turn 18, searching for obscure laws, etc... because they feel entitled to s*x. Women don’t have this problem en mass.

Most men seem indiscriminate and unconcerned about who sees their debauchery and the repercussions of it. As long as they get their peepee touched or got somebody to look at their peepee, nothing matters to them. As long as it is not their immediate family being victimized, male debachery doesn’t matter to them. No matter how serious the penalty, they still persist, in significant numbers, in these kinds of behaviors. They will fund anything that arouses them, they will trick and coerce women into participating in it, they will make sure as many people as possible see it.

Women, generally, do not behave this way at all. Female sexuality does not express like this; it is not invasive. So, it seems obvious to me that this has something to do with male sexual expression, specifically.

Maybe it is a consequence of The Fall; maybe, framing it this way makes it more palatable for you. But, male sexuality is, in fact, the source of societal sickness and many mental illnesses. That’s a lot of why society sucks right now; because you have too many messed up sexual assault victims running around being unfixably and obnoxiously mentally ill. The cause of this? A bunch of men molesting them as children.

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:#!marseyagreefast:

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:#marseyhesright:

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This is the most sentient snappy in the history of all sentient snappies.

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INSHALLAH SNAPPY

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it was only ever guys and trans girls messaging me. never cis women. idk

I mean...

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Snapshill popping off holy shit

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Madje was the only woman I could ever love.

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i very nearly pass

Spot the lie

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nearly

kek he can't even pretend that he passes online like most :marseytrain2:s, ngmi

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It's true for the right definition of very nearly

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In the same way that New York City is very near to London

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I very nearly have a monster dong.

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A lot of the top jannied replies are reasonable and logic (genital preference, shared life experience of being raised a bio foid) but they’re still jannied.

Also I never expected to live in a universe where “genital preference” was a term I’d ever use in conversation.


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I wonder where all the "I dated a trans person and they were a toxic lunatic" comments went.

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Trans people aren't lunatics and even if they are, they aren't.

They are wholesome and valid and their anuses smell like flowers.

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And even if they are, its not too bad

And even if it is, it's your fault

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Shut the frick up nazi

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genital preference

This is hugbox misinformation. Even if you could magically give transwomen a real vagina, they still have tons of male secondary s*x characterestics. It's a convenient lie to not be offensive but it will only hurt uncracked eggs if they only see these lies and therefore can't make an informed decision whether to transition. Truth is 99% of them will never be attractive to normal people.

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No BS, I've only ever seen one :marseytrain: that I legit couldn't tell was trans. Onlyfans: blondelashes19. Probably had a lot of work done, but even the voice passes. Tits are a bit eh, as expected, but with clothes and makeup on I wouldn't be able to tell.

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It's a peak reddit moment. OP knows what the reason is, commenters know what the reason is, but if they say it they're banned. That thread is just a honeypot for the jannies to cull more wrongthinkers.

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