That said, when I see trans women dressed excessively girly, inappropriately or almost in a costume (school girl outfits, Princess dresses, etc. etc.) I have trouble relating. It feels like this is enforcing negative trans stereotypes, and harming us as a group.
Logically, I know what other people do is unlikely to affect me, and my reaction is probably due to some remaining transphobia. Just a bunch of girls and women living their best lives and doing the things they always wanted to do but couldn't. I just have trouble squaring this away with my own feelings.
No hate on those enjoying themselves, I really am tempted to chalk this up firmly as a 'me' problem.
The TL:DR is that yes, it's a me problem. Trans women are beautiful and unique, it's our business what we wear, and haters are gonna hate anyway so I need to get over myself. And I promise I'm working on it.
OP trying so hard not to offend the hugbox, wonder what the commenters have to say:
so brave!
none whatsoever I'm sure, might as well drop the cis/trans labels
hormones make you young again!
learning to accept that you can't get your childhood back and moving on? nah, wear the outfit xueen
need safe spaces without c*s chuds telling us we're being "creepy" or "inappropriate"
op is noticing things
it's just trauma, chud!
mids 30s, dressing 13-14, perfectly valid and normal!
not wanting creepers to represent you is bigotry
cis women need to pass too
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Can someone explain the lack of self-awareness in terminally online mtf trains? They wear unironically cringe shit that women won't wear, they wear cat ears and shit irl. Is it due to being neurodivergent? Has to be.
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They jack off to anime. Women IRL don't dress like anime because sane people aren't out there trying to look like cartoons. But these guys don't really know anything about 3D women, so when they transition, they dress like the fantasy of a woman they have made up in their head.
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Yesterday i saw a tall neurodivergent girl in cat ears loudly talking to her dead eyed mid 50s father lol i think trains base themselves off of neurodivergent biofoids they interact with on groomercord
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they dress how they want women to dress, which is influenced by their borderline pornographic harem animes
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