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What are some of the things you did to pretend, to yourself and others, to be a guy? - r/MtF

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Pretending to not have emotions was pretty easy because I could barely feel my emotions.

how is that pretending

My problem came when I started to have now what I understand as trans feels I did not understand and it started with intense jealousy of girls and girls clothes. I thought it was odd but never did anything about it or told anyone because I did not understand what I was feeling.

jealous of others because they look good? well, :marseyeggirl::marseytrans2:

I grew out a beard. Went to seminary.

Still rockin it unfortunately, it got hella white tho after hrt

taking hrt but didn't bother shaving?

Everything...

Watched sports ... so boring Played sports... that was ok Own, collect, and shoot guns... pretended for long enough... still need to sell them and buy more outfits haha Grilled and smoked... not so bad either Yardwork and sweat... seriously, couldn't stand it Pick up heavy things for people... ugh, annoying Helped people move furniture... also annoying would rather be in the kitchen helping organize and pack Kept my hair short and macho... hated it Maintained a bushy beard... couldnt stand it Pretend to be a proud man... what a charade lol

literally all stereotypes, also implying women can't do these things :chudsey:

Saaaammmmeeeee. Although for me,I tried to be like the men I was attracted to. Drove my ex wife crazy, she knew before I knew. Wasn't something I was aware of, my childhood was a blank slate of experiences among other things. Looking back now, I laugh at some relationships I had with old friends, and realize I was just into them. ๐Ÿ˜•

that just sounds like gay in denial, wonder why he got convinced it means he's a wom- "I feel like I may be Neurodivergent, and if so, it would really, really explain a lot." oh.

I did a shitty job hiding it so I really didnโ€™t. I never liked most of the typical masculine things like watching sports or whatever makes men happy and i never even pretended to. Since thatโ€™s how men bond and make friends, I never had many friends because I wasnโ€™t like them.

lol again just stereotypes

Literally abandoned all interests and focused on any and all things I was told to do...

men can't have interests

Joined the Marines.

women can't be in the military

I always felt very uncomfortable taking my shirt off. But when swimming I convinced myself that other men probably also did

:marseychonker2:

Like being in "boy mode"? Well I was born a boy, my parents and society told me I was a boy my whole life. I tried to come out to a teenage love of mine, but her response was not great to the question so I fully came out as an adult.

It sounds kind of weird, but I've had to be a boy my whole life. In some ways I default to it. I usually have to try harder to pass and not be like a boy.

so close to noticing things

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literally all stereotypes

I'm fairly certain most trains are people who just take stereotypes so seriously that they develop dysmorphia when they don't fulfill them

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Literally every :marseytrain: "human interest" article from the past 10 years reinforces sexist stereotypes, but wokies just ignore it.

โ€œUnlike my older brother, I didnโ€™t want to play with trucks and dinosaurs. I just wanted to wear dresses and join in with the girls in the playground."


"School was extremely difficult. I got bullied a lot. I was picked on for being too thin, for being feminine, for not liking football, for hanging round with girls, for having long hair."


Even as just a boy, Marcelas had these questions: Why was he never interested in playing the games other boys played?

The same outlets will complain that not enough girls become physicists or play Call of Duty.

TERFs are the only consistent feminists. If only they realised that consistency is a male trait and they should just transition.

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Higher rates of :marseyautism:

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If your son didn't play with a G.I. Joe stick figure by the age of 3 you might as well send him to the ladyboy clinic already

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:#chudsey:

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I like your name

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:#marseyblackface:

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went to seminary

oh frick oh no :marseyxd:


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I bet he got an A in grooming. And not the hygiene kind.

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Play me out, Marsey!

:#marseysting:

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Well if you took away both bio s*x and gender roles, gender would become totally meaningless, and there'd be no such thing as transgender. So I guess we have no choice but to keep the gender roles. It's called feminism sweaty :marseynails:

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I had a year long denial beard. As in, didn't cut it for a whole year, trimmed it just enough to not look homeless.

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women can't be in the military

Correct. They lack the spirit and fortitude. Which homosexual country are you from?

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:marseysaluteisrael:

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:#marseyblackcop:

Snapshots:

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"I developed with a y chromosome and grew a peepee"

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"I'm going to do things I dislike and pretend to enjoy them because living a life full of lies and facade is the key to happiness."

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how is that pretending

In a dude way, instead of in a depressed way.

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Yeah the new line of thinking is that they never identified as guys at all, which is obviously false. Most of these people never felt any concern about gender until recently

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