Who is going to tell her? pic.twitter.com/jWbU5daHmK

— Declaration of Memes (@LibertyCappy) January 19, 2025

From the OP's post history: she's a single mom living in section 8 with an neurodivergent daughter and has various white women diseases (she requires a "mobility device" to get around apparently)

I know its just an app. Its just one outlet. Its just one space to go on the internet but its also so vital in how to do so many things. I learned how to do the following:

Becoming a better mom

Learning how to advocate for myself and my kiddo

Finding a community

Developing better skills to find better jobs

How fix shit around my house (for better or worse. lol)

What symptoms are signs of (whatever is possibly causing my symptoms)

Unlearning so many shitty traits from systemic issues

ALL.THE.RECIPES.

And now...its just going away. Capitol hill couldn't improve healthcare as a country, improve the housing market, cutting the cost of food, or stopping school shootings but hey, they did it. They banned an app that brought so many people together...

On to the comments:

I see the ban in essence as a form of controlling our algorithms and to only support / allow AI to train on pro US narratives and not on anything counter to it.

I'm a very casual Tik Tok user, and I'm upset about this. People are going to lose their livelihoods over this, and it smacks of censorship. So what's next? Reddit? Tumblr? Pinterest? AO3? It's ridiculous this even happened with so many other issues in our country.

Yep. So many people in my life aren't make the connection of what this actually means. We're witnessing an iron curtain rising. And its devastating.

NGL being a SAHM mom with no village and no friends, tiktok was my socialization and how I was able to find some sort of community and even just talk to people. I'm struggling with the fact that life is about to get lonely and isolating again.

Tik Tok is the reason I finally cut ties with my crappy religion and political party. It's the reason I finally saw why the full range of women's rights matter. It gave me a reason to be politically savvy. And it's the reason I see the ban for what it truly is. I'm terrified for what this means for Americans, and I fully crashed out on my other social media apps today before logging out and deleting them from my phone.

I understand that "he" won, so I won't throw a temper tantrum about it (like some people). I concede that this is what more than 50% of the voting population wanted. But I won't go down without expressing my concerns, if for no other reason than to say "I told you so" in 2 years

Does this idiot not realize that it was that enacted TOTAL ZOOMER DEATH? What does Trump have to do with this

I wish I could do more than upmarsey. This is everything.

I became a RedNote turnover 🤭 it's great, most of the TT's I followed are there now

Actually looking forward to learning Chinese...

I joined TikTok during covid like a lot of people. My algorithm eventually led me down a path of seeing content creators who were talking about SA, abuse, manipulation, gaslamping and all sorts of content on toxic relationships. It was then that I realized after nearly 2 decades with my husband that I was in an abusive and toxic relationship. My normal meter had become so fricked because of his manipulation that I didn't know up from down. I finally had the language to describe what I was going through and the courage to leave. Been out 2 years now and living my absolute best life. Where before I was dying a slow and painful depressing death.

TikTok saved my life.

I'm annoyed by the people who don't use it lacking any empathy or perspective. They'll say it's brain rot, shallow entertainment, a source of misinformation, then turn around and spend hours on Reddit or twitter or instagram like it's any better.

The wishful thinking part gets me. Like, what makes you think Reddit is safe? FB? Groomercord? If one goes, they can do this to whatever they want.

Unfortunately reddit, groomercord, and Facebook aren't controlled by the Chinese so they are safe. But I pray for the day of TOTAL GROOMERCORD DEATH.

!foidmoment

Man: Hello. Could you tell me where the party is?

Foid: Oh my God am I being harassed?

Man: Miss where is the party?

Foid: We are underage you creep!!

Man: Uh...okay...why are you drunk then?

Foid: I will call the cops if you don't leave us alone!!!!

Man: Ma'am. We just want to know where the party is.

Foid: You creeps! Sisters get their car vehicle number!

Man: Okay I am talking to the adult in charge.

Gagglee of foids: CREEP! CREEP! CREEP!

Man: Hey. Adult male with the foids. Could you tell me where the party is?

Other moid: Yeah its right over there. Foids calm down.

Man: Thanks. No clue why they were about to call the cops on us.

Be honest with me. At this point if this is how the average foid perceives the world then there is zero point in trying to agree or placate them. We just need to start doing what helps men the most because the foids are no longer salvageable anymore.

My [25m] girlfriend [24f] and I have been dating for about a year. I'll call her Casey here. We have lived together for two months.

A few hours ago, Casey approached me saying that she wanted to talk about something "serious." At first, I didn't know what to expect, but she wanted to share something traumatic that had happened to her before we met, and she asked if I would be willing to listen. I of course said yes, I would, if she'd be willing to share.

Casey hesitated for a second, like she wasn't sure about telling me, but then gave me the full story. What happened was when she was a university student, she had a crush on a pizza guy. He worked at a small shop near her apartment, and he would often deliver to her. She wanted to ask him out, but she wasn't sure how, so she consulted her friends.

Her friend group talked over it, and then one brought up the suggestion of answering the door in lingerie. The others jumped onto the idea quickly, and while Casey had doubts, they quickly convinced her to try it. They apparently even went shopping for the lingerie together.

Casey put on makeup, did her hair, and ordered a pizza. When the guy came, she did exactly as her friends suggested: she opened the door in skimpy lingerie. The pizza guy initially didn't address it, but Casey, "desperate," pushed the topic. She asked him, "What do you think about my outfit?"

He responded, "Dude, please don't do that," and then left. At this point in the story, Casey was near tears, and she told me how embarrassed and sick she felt.

I almost expected more from the story, but she was finished. I then said, "Uh … you do realize that you weren't the victim, but the perpetrator, right?" She literally recoiled at this comment. She elaborated by blaming everybody else: her friends for "tricking" her, society in general, and even the pizza guy that she sexually harassed.

To this I responded that she's like those guys who touch themselves in hotels, intentionally getting the maids to walk in on them. She insisted it was completely different, and a full-blown argument ensued. She finished the argument with "I came to you to feel better and now I feel WORSE!" and stormed away.

I don't even know. I feel so disgusted with her right now. Was I the butthole for my comments when she felt vulnerable?

!poll_voters

Seriously, imagine snooping a man's social media and getting mad at it. !weebs !coomers !g*mers

They'll act like it's just this, but next thing you know they're bitching about Harem anime or fighting games with jiggle physics.

No screaming, no falling over, no freezing in place, the driver of the red car doesn't accidentally kill the police woman, the police woman herself waits until the exact right moment to take her shot and then moves laterally to avoid any incoming fire, recognises the kidnapper is incapacitated and secures the scene quickly...

I'd marry her but she's already had a baby and I ain't raising another man's child. Anyway, I'm saving myself for this one...

!poll_voters

Okay, so I'm a little bit confused...

We're kids* (toddlers/children/tweens/teens), as are chrono-kids* and many of us want/need to be recognised as kids under the law, so that we can receive care, as many of us have support needs.

Legally (mentally, etc.), chrono-kids can't consent to s*x with grownups, so why would we be able to?

Is it because we have adult bodies? Is it because we have more life experience? 🤔 /gen

@JimieWhales @BipocCuteTwinkR-slur

!coomers

!foidmoment

!foidmoment

Bonus

https://old.reddit.com/r/AmITheDevil/comments/1i1yljm/they_exagerrrrate/

#BelieveWomen!

desperately looking for:

💦 NOT brain dead, peepee whipped fmcs, can hold her ground and resist body betrayal syndrome as much as possible (i know this is VERY RARE IN DR and i have probably read all sane fmcs already because I CANT SEEM TO FIND ONE NEW REC 😭)

💦 ott obsessed and possessive mmcs WHO WANT HER NO MATTER WHAT and will go to any lengths

💦 no ow drama AND ABSOLUTELY NO CHEATING i love my mmcs who are not man whores 😭 i would love for them to stay celibate after meeting fmc (LIKE DEVIL MINE BY KHAI HARA, CHEATER BY DD PRINCE, TERRIBLE BEAUTY BY ANNA ZAIRES, etc.)

💦 i want good chemistry! AND IF POSSIBLE a mmc who doesn't seem psycho UNTIL HE BECOMES PSYCHO?? like the quarantine series by drethi anis

💦 AND FORCED PREGNANCY BECAUSE yes.

💦 also, would love if the fmc keeps resisting and is not ready to be serious with the mmc

pls give recs. i am dying 😞👍

!foidmoment

!ummah

Pretty sure it's drawn by them to karma farm, but there's a lot of arguing in the comments about how teenagers should learn that s*x work is valid, chud.

S*x work is work. Order the coffin, boomer.

All out total war happening between libfems and radfems. Bitching about jannies, calling everyone transphobes, bans abound. Mentioning anyone with a Y chromosome is a transphobic dog whistle.

/r/pornismisogyny vs /r/blatantmisogyny

https://old.reddit.com/r/BlatantMisogyny/comments/1i09h64/terfs_and_swerfs_are_not_welcome/

https://old.reddit.com/r/PornIsMisogyny/comments/1i0n3x2/rblatantmisogyny_mod_post/

I took PiV off the table with my partner maybe 2-3 months ago.

Already had the hard convo around breaking up.

Don't know if we'll end up being together again, since we have to cohabit for another 8 months regardless...

But if we do get back together, I'll be sure to set the foundations of feminism, and I won't be getting back together without him proving to me he is engrossed in feminism and the movement.

Too many men refuse to acknowledge the patriarchy we live in.

Too many also refuse to acknowledge the systemic racism we live in.

I will NOT lower myself for a man.

Never.

these women are insane

I remember all those women sheltering in place during COVID with their shit boyfriends, no-help baby daddies, anti-vax idiot partners, etc.

Don't wait for the "right time" to break up. Break up now before it gets to be the wrong time.