It is about time we gathered to decide what requirements and restrictions we should put on !incels membership (given the new influx of aspiring members)
Here are my thoughts:
Men only.
Virgin only, KHHV is too strict imo (I am KV btw, so full transparency).
No ping group farmers
Those in the !truecels ping group should be rejected
No gays allowed
No anti-incels
thoughts?
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It's not a skilled job, you're wrangling cats and dogs. Just pretend you're a boomer, walk in and act confident.
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Why are you trolling me?
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I'm not trolling you neighbor
I know it's a boomer meme but it does actually work at small places where you can speak directly with whoever's in charge of hiring.
If you're too neurodivergent to do that, start volunteering at one and then ask about jobs after a couple weeks.
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When is the last time you got a job? I would volunteer there for years and say "So do you have any paying jobs? I have been volunteering here for a while now" and they would give me the "look". The look I have become familiar with over the years, the look that let's me know I have been "found out" as a nonneurotypical. They would respond "Uhhhh sure. I'll look into it another time and then get back to you." which is another thing neuros do. They never speak to you directly even though your communication style almost requires it, but they will look at you odd for not understanding even though they are the ones who aren't being direct.
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Dude it is 2024 at this point. If I tried to do that I would get hit with the "apply on line" and I live in a suburban area with wealthy people. It isn't that easy here.
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This happened in 2019
and I live in the exact same sort of area
You're stopping yourself from trying. Just go volunteer somewhere, they won't turn you down for that. And you can put it on your resume
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I have tried the normal path over and over with nothing but failure to show for it. Even 2019 and now are a big difference. For example the hiring process is going to be 100 percent online at this point, covid ensured that. If I apply online I am instantly filtered. If I go in person I'm the r-slur who couldn't figure out to apply online. And even if, even if I make it over this massive hurdle, that doesn't guarantee I end up where I want. I could just end up a cog in the machine with nothing to show for it because even if I become employed is all that worth it just to get a chance at a life that still ultimately sucks?
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Which is why it makes sense to work at a charity where you can volunteer first and build a rapport before you actually try applying. If it's a small place (and it should be, so you don't get lost in the crowd) you definitely won't end up as a cog, because there will be too many different things that need doing.
If it sucks that much, you can just quit. I thought I would hate working but I love my job and I loved my previous job because I knew I was helping people. If I won the lottery I would go back to working there.
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